Donicobone:
This lady had been so kind to me, initially I did not think I will get to love her, but now we are madly in love, but my father insisted that I break up with her as soon as possible or he will disown me, though almost all my friend has been making jest of me but those one are not my problem but my father, I have try so many time for my father to see reason with me but he said that there was no albino in our lineage so I should not be the one to start it, pls I need ur advice because I love her and I don't no how she will feel if I ever go with my father decision, she might hurt herself pls guys help me

agarawu23:
honor your 'mother' & father.....

I don't think you will enjoy a relationship without the approval of your patents

agarawu23:
honor your 'mother' & father.....

I don't think you will enjoy a relationship without the approval of your patents

peeparty:
no sir,you dont need your parent to enjoy ur relationship.

agarawu23:
honor your 'mother' & father.....

I don't think you will enjoy a relationship without the approval of your patents

agarawu23:
how do you enjoy a relationship whereby your parents aren't happy about it? it will make you a sad man because you will feel you are disobeying your parents.

misssclassy:


Bullshit!

So because your parents say you shouldn't marry someone, you should just sheepishly do their bidding?

A parents role should always be advisory and nothing more.
No parent has the right to force their child against their marriage, afterall, they weren't forced against their own marriage so why should they do that to their child?

If my parents say I shouldn't marry someone just because they don't like the person, that's their own cup of tea.
If I love someone and the person loves me too and we decide to get married, my parents can't force me against my will.

MEGGATRON:


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peeparty:
daht era of parent decieding who u love is gone,d will not be the one ur going to spend ur life with.#do what mks you happy.


note: parent can only advice you,and not outrightly make decisions for you.

agarawu23:
you are talking about yours not all.

I was once In the op situation and I regretted my action.
The only blame we can put on his parent is because the lady is an albino and I blv they shouldn't be seperated from us cos we are both humans.

Going against your parents wish when choosing your partner is a big problem you will face for life because you will never enjoy your marriage and your husband will not enjoy it too if his in laws aren't happy about his marriage.

remember the 10 commandments

agarawu23:
OK are you telling me we should go against our parents advice?

The only problem on this issue is cos the Lady is an Albino.

agarawu23:
stop stalking me young man.

I have told you to always call me back so that I can defend my comment.

how are you sure I don't understand what I posted?

oya give the op your own advice let's see
modified :
you see how silly you are, asking the op for albino picture.

your contributions are always meaningless and you are always after my comments

agarawu23:
you are talking about yours not all.

I was once In the op situation and I regretted my action.
The only blame we can put on his parent is because the lady is an albino and I blv they shouldn't be seperated from us cos we are both humans.

Going against your parents wish when choosing your partner is a big problem you will face for life because you will never enjoy your marriage and your husband will not enjoy it too if his in laws aren't happy about his marriage.

remember the 10 commandments

MEGGATRON:


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Chibuhealth:
seems u re an albino? Ur comments though

misssclassy:


Why are you guys always quick to bring religion into everything?
Before religion people had issues and they dealt with those issues.

Any parent that feels they should decide who their children should and should not marry is a selfish parent.

You are talking about happiness. Any parent who forces their child against marrying who they choose to doesn't care about the happiness of the child and doesn't respect the choice and judgment of the child.

agarawu23:
OK religious apart.
I don't want to argue further, are you advising the op not to listen to his dad and go on with the relationship? (I will only blame his dad for giving "albino" as an excuse why he shouldn't marry the Lady. )