The thing is, my ex & I are from same town & I am thinking it might be right for me to inform my ex or should I just let my ex found out from gossip?

Would it do my ex good or bad if I inform my ex. Personally I feel like informing my ex because I think its suppose to do my ex good. But then I am confused because I don't know if I am right or wrong in thinking its good to inform my ex. And that's why I now need your service, in the form of sound & matured advice
.




Kindly advise & pls be sincere & blunt.
Thanks!

No

Invite d b*tch

It depends on hw yu guys broke up.

No no no... Very bad idea especially when she is not married or engaged.

If your to be wife knows about her, then you are safe, if not nor try am

donholy28:
Invite d b*tch

Are u implying u hav just 1 ex? Dammmm invite EneMy too

nooooooooo9ooooooo,,,

Tellin her 0r n0t is nat a big deal....

octopusfreaky:
nooooooooo9ooooooo,,,

Ok

So you believe it will be better if my ex is the last to hear? You believe that would do my ex more good than my placing a call across and inform my ex so as to avoid awkwardness of being the last to hear?

Imagine the pastor says:is there anyone here who thinks the marriage should not hold?And she gets up and say yes.Funny though except if she is married or you guys broke up without hurting any one.Then I think is no problem.

iyobs7:
No no no... Very bad idea especially when she is not married or engaged.

If your to be wife knows about her, then you are safe, if not nor try am

Ok

The thing is that I was just feeling like it might by right to avoid the awkward situation of being the last to hear. Which is why I am thinking my ex might appreciate my gesture

But then again who knows if my ex would think the way I am thinking

lasheez:
Imagine the pastor says:is there anyone here who thinks the marriage should not hold?And she gets up and say yes.Funny though except if she is married or you guys broke up without hurting any one.Then I think is no problem.

Lol

Do they still ask that outdated question?

Karlman:


Ok

So you believe it will be better if my ex is the last to hear? You believe that would do my ex more good than my placing a call across and inform my ex so as to avoid awkwardness of being the last to hear?

na u sabi oooi,,y on earth will u be in good terms with your ex,,well I don't buy the idea,,,an ex is a forgotten story too..

octopusfreaky:
na u sabi oooi,,y on earth will u be in good terms with your ex,,well I don't buy the idea,,,an ex is a forgotten story too..

I have tried & always kept away but this my ex wouldn't just disconnect


Always having one reason or another to get across to me.

And why I am even considering to inform is so as to not be seen as bad or so and also because of the proximity in home town


But for rye record there is nothing between us anymore & I must say I am the one making sure of that.

Why bother about your ex, why not focus on your marriage, may be you still have feelings. Okafor's law in action.

malaria:
Why bother about your ex, why not focus on your marriage, may be you still have feelings. Okafor's law in action.

Not at all. No feelings

If you ask me, informing her will be suicidal if you are my type.

I have over 20 (known/remembered/unmarried) ex girlfriends that's why I sneaked in, married and sneaked out.

The way many of them attacked my inbox after my pics surfaced showed me what would have happened if IDI AMIN wedding card showed on Facebook before the marriage.

Recently one of them posted her pre-wedding pics and when I simply liked the pic, guess what landed in inbox.

.....,thunder fire you.

IdiAmin1:
If you ask me, informing her will be suicidal if you are my type.

I have over 20 (known/remembered/unmarried) ex girlfriends that's why I sneaked in, married and sneaked out.

The way many of them attacked my inbox after my pics surfaced showed me what would have happened if IDI AMIN wedding card showed on Facebook before the marriage.

Recently one of them posted her pre-wedding pics and when I simply liked the pic, guess what landed in inbox.

.....,thunder fire you.

Truckpusher:

. Bible say old things have passed away and everything become new including Idi Amin.

IdiAmin1:
. Bible say old things have passed away and everything become new including Idi Amin.

Take am

if you like.

inform your ex and ur enemy too.
Joy, Foolishness and much wisdom kill faster.

Karlman:
The thing is, my ex & I are from same town & I am thinking it might be right for me to inform my ex or should I just let my ex found out from gossip?

Would it do my ex good or bad if I inform my ex. Personally I feel like informing my ex because I think its suppose to do my ex good. But then I am confused because I don't know if I am right or wrong in thinking its good to inform my ex. And that's why I now need your service, in the form of sound & matured advice
.




Kindly advise & pls be sincere & blunt.
Thanks!

When you say inform what do you mean? because you can tell her without inviting her right?

is she the type that would just show up knowing shes not wanted?

did you end the relationship on good terms?

you don't need to worry about it being "awkward" unless you feel you owe her an explanation. do you?

its only awkward if youre still in contact with her. like you do have normal conversations. then it would be strange not to mention it.

on the other hand, now that im thinking about it

if I wanted to annoy the person or let them know I didn't care about them I wouldn't mention it to them, I would let them come across the pictures by coincidence or just let them find out on their own.

so if you feel the opposite of these I guess you could tell her

Gurgle:


When you say inform what do you mean? because you can tell her without inviting her right?

is she the type that would just show up knowing shes not wanted?

did you end the relationship on good terms?

you don't need to worry about it being "awkward" unless you feel you owe her an explanation. do you?

its only awkward if youre still in contact with her. like you do have normal conversations. then it would be strange not to mention it.

on the other hand, now that im thinking about it

if I wanted to annoy the person or let them know I didn't care about them I wouldn't mention it to them, I would let them come across the pictures by coincidence or just let them find out on their own.

so if you feel the opposite of these I guess you could tell her

Thanks

I must say your response is the most insightful of all for now. And I will make use of it. Thanks!

IdiAmin1:
If you ask me, informing her will be suicidal if you are my type.

I have over 20 (known/remembered/unmarried) ex girlfriends that's why I sneaked in, married and sneaked out.

The way many of them attacked my inbox after my pics surfaced showed me what would have happened if IDI AMIN wedding card showed on Facebook before the marriage.

Recently one of them posted her pre-wedding pics and when I simply liked the pic, guess what landed in inbox.

.....,thunder fire you.

Looooooooooooooooooooool!
Lwkmd

D OP is doing a good job in trying to hide his sex

Karlman:



Thanks

I must say your response is the most insightful of all for now. And I will make use of it. Thanks!

youre welcome. good luck!

beautycrush24:
D OP is doing a good job in trying to hide his sex

Lol

That was because Op thinks sexes wouldn't have any bearing on reader's advice.


Don't you agree?

Karlman:



Lol

That was because Op thinks sexes wouldn't have any bearing on reader's advice.


Don't you agree?

Unfortunately, it will.

beautycrush24:

Unfortunately, it will.

Ok
Let me hear it, on both sexes

Thanks in advance!

Won't you mind your business and go ahead with your marriage? What are you informing your ex for?