babyosisi:

That said,my biggest no no in a man was bad manners.
(I'm married now)
But I just could not stand men that picked their nose,scratched themselves in public or chewed loudly.
I actually left a serious relationship before I met my hubby because the guy embarrassed me constantly in public and I could not stand living that way the rest of my life.
I used to get so embarrassed and felt like disappearing.
_{Lord I hope he's not on nairaland}

LOL - now that i can't argue with!

~Lmao so hard here,OMG how did you cope seriously though,it just goes to show there's no-one who's  perfect much more, it makes the search for that perfect special someone,all the more evasive

My sister,I hung in by faith praying that a miracle would occur such that the chewing will become silenced somehow but it never happened.
To some other girl,this would be nothing but I just couldn't go through with his masticatory habits.

Here's another one - how about someone who snores LOUDLY?

IBDat:

Here's another one - how about someone who snores LOUDLY?

I wuld choose a snorer anyday to one who would pick out his "wedgie" or grab his jewels in public.

@ IBDat ~I beleive in being equals its a give and take suitation,i can be submisive when the need arises,but i wudnt make my hubbys feel less of a man just because i earn more than him,i'll do my marital duties regardless of how much that paycheck brings in,i guess its all about where you stand with your partner on these issues,if you have the same values then it shudnt matter how the roost is been roosted  

babyosisi:

I wuld choose a snorer anyday to one who would pick out his "wedgie" or grab his jewels in public.

LOL - interesting, rather than a goodnight sleep?

Lmao IBDat,hmm~ i sniff a story,pray tell ,have you been kept awake by some chic's snorin,lol ?

I don't know about you dear but public embarrassment is something I cannot stand.
Would you pick someone who constantly adjusts his privates in public over a snorer,all things being equal?

mohawkchic:

@ IBDat ~I beleive in being equals its a give and take suitation,i can be submisive when the need arises,but i wudnt make my hubbys feel less of a man just because i earn more than him,i'll do my marital duties regardless of how much that paycheck brings in,i guess its all about where you stand with your partner on these issues,if you have the same values then it shudnt matter how the roost is been roosted  

Okay playn 'devils advocate' - if you contribute more financially, goes to work for 9/10 hours a day and still be expected to get home feed the kids and yo husband daily - are u telling me it wouldn't take its toll sooner or later?

babyosisi:

I don't know about you dear but public embarrassment is something I cannot stand.
Would you pick someone who constantly adjusts his privates in public over a snorer,all things being equal?

Yes - the guy should simply be advised to buy loosend under wear instead of those tight ones that constantly ride upwards.

IBDat:

Yes - the guy should simply be advised to buy loosend under wear instead of those tight ones that constantly ride upwards.

lol.
You know I just realised you were a guy,I thought I was chatting with fellow ladies,lol.
Is that why they adjust them?
Those tight underwears are not good for men,it can cause sterility

mohawkchic:

Lmao IBDat,hmm~ i sniff a story,pray tell ,have you been kept awake by some chic's snorin,lol ?

Let's just say i REALLY, REALLY appreciate my sleep (the little i get anyway), even if i have to drive you back to yours in the early hours to get it.

babyosisi:

lol.
You know I just realised you were a guy,I thought I was chatting with fellow ladies,lol.
Is that why they adjust them?
Those tight underwears are not good for men,it can cause sterility

Are u serious?
Yes 90% of the time this is the reason why, the rest is just due to poor hygiene or infection
Most guys are catching up to this fact, but then again i assume we are talking about an African man.

@ IBDat ~I'd just buy T/A when am comin home,keep everyone happy   hubby can't cook if his life depended on it,but he knows how to boil pasta and ave always got loads of carbonara sauces ,lmao

~On a more serious note though,the responsibilty of lookin after our son/food is shared so it wudnt be a problem!!


@ babyosisi ~ for a guy hes pretty cool huh,objective in his opinions,i like havin a reasonable,intellectual chat knowin you take away something from it,so i guess am givin you a compliment here IBDat  ,i must say am very impressed

~Just noticed your question,i would defo go w/the snores anyday

@mohawkchic - Thank u , but it is a learning curve as i ave been told to be more open-minded and do less with my African mentality.
The T/A i guess will solve your problem - assuming u r not branching to the Chinco, Pizza Hut, KFC etc on a daily basis - LOL

~Ur welcome

~LMAO IBDat  non of the listed,i prefer nando's,don't do fast food,am a very fossy eater as my son so we just pick through hubby is flexsible too,so i suppose hypothetically it would work out

did someone say snoring? arrghhh. i can't stand it. by the time i give you 1 or 2 slaps in your sleep, you will recognize o! sorry brothas, can't take the snoring. and yeah, that goes both ways.  

LMAO - 2 slaps pere? not even a gentle nudging haha!!

~*Welcomes soulpatrol Back*

~Am Lmao,never had this much fun on here from postin and readin and postin,am laffin here uncontrollably especially @ 1/2 slaps in your sleep LMAO plz ooh Lord

i'm not a mean person, but my boyfriend gets on my nerves when he sleeps. lawd, can he snore up a storm! i'm still waiting for my flatmate to come and complain about the noise. maybe she doesnt want to offend me. but anyway, i've tried o. i heard telling a snorer to sleep on their side helps, but iro ni, nothing has worked. the minute his head touches the pillow, he has already started snoring! how is that possible without even sleeping up to 2mins?
i try to nudge him once in a while, but him no dey understand nudge until 1 give him 1 or 2 jabs in the rib (i no fit slap my boo now haba)

i feel bad for him though. any remedies?

~LOL Poor guy,maybe you just workin him way tooo hard sista ,have seen adverts of some nasal thingy you put on your nose,it allowss you to breathe without congestion,check it out,try it out,all he has to do is put it acrooss his nose like a plaster strip it was,don't know if it works though

U can also look into nasal and throat sprays that help reduce the congestion and noisy vibrations, as well as hypnosis - if the beatings get too much. Reminds me of a Martin Lawrence sketch that men wake up feeling battered and bruised not knowing their partner has been attacking them during the night for a previous act or statement.

thanks a lot guys. i'll try o.

I hate d existence of PRIDE (inability to own up an apologise when wrong), comparison to EXs, Flirting, Unfaithful, lies, Non-chalancy to being clean, SNORING, smoking, unromantic, LAZY ass---etc (u get d drift)

Gyals na wa for u wow

lies, cheating , not appreciating me, being insecure about thigs that dont matter, not romatic. he should hav a good head and be able to have meaniful conversations

bennie019:

lies, cheating , not appreciating me, being insecure about thigs that don't matter, not romatic. he should hav a good head and be able to have meaniful conversations

Anything else??

dress and look clean
as in no sagging pants, wear a belt please, clean, well-shaved beard, smell good etc

guys, we just dey give una hints

Actually Girls Hate the Truth and Love the Lies. And remember when you miss one for one you are in for problems.
THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE

I can't stand a non-challant guy