This man will pay you $10,000 to find him a girlfriend

Madison Malone Kircher

Jul. 6, 2015, 9:42 PM 5,610 11

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This Alabama man has been on 30 unsuccessful dates in the past the past ten months — to remedy this situation, he created a website offering a $10,000 reward to anyone who can find him a girlfriend.

Ren Lu You is a 29-year-old living in Birmingham, Alabama.

He's a recent Harvard Business School graduate and works full-time as a private equity associate.

There's just one problem: He can't seem to find the right woman.

To remedy this situation, You created his own dating website, dateren.com, where people can submit female friends who might like to date You.

As an incentive, if You and a woman submitted to the site wind up dating for more than six months, You says he will pay $10,000 to the person who helped set them up (unless You's future girlfriend submits herself, in which case she would not be eligible for the cash reward).

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(It's worth mentioning here that we were initially suspicious about the possible word play here. His last name is You ... he says "I'll pay you" ... could he mean ... he'll pay himself? That would be smart and kind of funny! But then we got out of our own heads.)

Finding the woman of his dreams is worth at least $10,000 to You. He compares finding a potential partner to purchasing other "big-ticket items" such as a car or a house.

"I would argue that all these things pale in importance to finding somebody you get along with and you may end up marrying," You told BI. "So $10,000 seemed pretty reasonable."

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Before starting his own dating site, You was disappointed by his experiences with standard dating techniques.

"I’ve been on a bunch of dates and gone through all the usual methods: friends of friends, introductions through coworkers, OkCupid, Match.com, Tinder, everything," You told Business Insider of his failed dating efforts.

Even though he was going on plenty of dates, he wasn't meeting the kinds of women he envisioned potentially spending the rest of his life with.

"With online dating you have this problem of adverse selection," You explained. "Only the people who self-select into a particular dating website are the people you have access to."

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Unlike other dating websites, women can be involuntarily submitted to You's website.

"With this site I have access to basically everybody," You noted to BI. "You don't have to see the site or know who I am, you just have to know somebody who has seen the site."

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You made sure to let his family and friends know what he was up to before starting this new dating adventure.

"I understand there's always the potential hazard of people thinking you're an a------ and the internet deciding it doesn't like what you're doing," You said of his concerns in starting the website.

For now, You is just trying to streamline the process of finding a woman who he can call his girlfriend, and maybe someday, his wife. "I'm trying to make dating as efficient as possible," he said.

If you're interesting in submitting yourself or a friend, check out You's dating site here.

Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/man-offers-10000-if-you-find-him-a-girlfriend-2015-7#ixzz3fBgWgWBQ

Hw does d post relates to d topic?? Hmmmm

So how does this finish nigeria

Explain

No fp

"Obligatory photos of me to reassure you that I am not a Nigerian prince"
That's to tell you the reason for the topic

Clueless post ever..... You,furk you....OP fork u...

Starships4u:
Clueless post ever..... You,furk you....OP fork u...

So why on earth are you swearing?
If we didn't have too many Nigerian princes then maybe we wouldn't have been dragged in

favoured234:

So why on earth are you swearing?
If we didn't have too many Nigerian princes then maybe we wouldn't have been dragged in

Mttcheeeew...many are mad...few are roaming

**runs outta thread

so na only 1 in 8nigerians bother to read properly your head Dr Ida favored234
the rest of you wasted your school fees
while Starships4 mother failed in good training

favoured234:
"Obligatory photos of me to reassure you that I am not a Nigerian prince"
That's to tell you the reason for the topic

God give me orobo wife like this kind mind

LadyBoss1:
So how does this finish nigeria
Explain
No fp

how you take be boss when you no fit read

Rosemary216:
Hw does d post relates to d topic?? Hmmmm

eyaa your educational level no carry am. sorry en. try go collect change for your primary school

mikolo80:
so na only 1 in 8nigerians bother to read properly
your head Dr Ida favored234

the rest of you wasted your school fees

while Starships4 mother failed in good training

Have you been sleeping?

mikolo80:
how you take be boss when you no fit read

Well it didnt make fp , no one was interested as u can see, so i guess d whole of NL no go school nah only u
Rubbish
Dont quote me again
Y dont u go n date d guy since this ur oassionate about ur topic ..

LadyBoss1:

Well it didnt make fp , no one was interested as u can see, so i guess d whole of NL no go school nah only u
Rubbish
Dont quote me again
Y dont u go n date d guy since this ur oassionate about ur topic ..

Hahahahahaha more morons to manipulate and hammer on una head

favoured234:
Have you been sleeping?

walahi I have

mikolo80:
walahi I have

SO you are up and about looking for ladyboss1 trouble..
You will leave this place with a black eye

favoured234:

SO you are up and about looking for ladyboss1 trouble..
You will leave this place with a black eye

Abi oh lol early morning ...

favoured234:

SO you are up and about looking for ladyboss1 trouble..
You will leave this place with a black eye

ah the days of 15 free MB are behind me
I get time for all any child wen no gree get good training

mikolo80:
ah the days of 15 free MB are behind me
I get time for all any child wen no gree get good training

So how many MB do you have...
Hope we are both not working so we can train all the children together..

But I no fit receive slap

favoured234:
So how many MB do you have... Hope we are both not working so we can train all the children together..
But I no fit receive slap

one spoilt child at a time. if not we, who?

Starships4u:
Clueless post ever..... You,furk you....OP fork u...

the poster above me got it. The rest of you are a testament to our failed education system