Shezhawt:


Lol... Where I come from... Do you know where I come from.... Btw what is the repercussion if I choose not to?

Cutehector:
darlin, its not necessary traditional marriage must be done in ur home town, it can be done in ur father's house in d city... The main thing is just d presence of few uncles, ur dad"s frnds etc.. No biggie...

Seems u just dnt wana do traditional marriage.. Why?

freecocoa:
So you think women want court wedding because they expect that everything be willed to them?

He can decide to take a 2nd wife all he wants, there just has to be a divorce first or the 2nd wife is not recognised by the law and he can be sued.

The system might be messed up, doesn't mean women shouldn't get their right.

efemenaslectura:
Another angry man syndrome


awon its either my way or no way at all

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Then,it's better you jump inside lagoon,cos no human being can dictate for me.
my fada/moda didn't do that.
It will be one woman from nowhere that will do that...lyk watdefuck

WTF..do you ladies think marriage is to men?..I personally don't think I will marry,so save me that crap.
Cos you ain't doin no one any favour,its 50/50%
So look for all this "sissy" men to shove that bullcrap terms and condition in their throat.

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What the heck do you ladies think love is?..a kind of mumu MODE
It has come to my notice that you people use it to emmitionally blackmail gullible guyz and give it a new meaning to suit your selfish interest.

I only pity those men..SMH
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Shezhawt:



Hahaha.... It's just as you said... No biggie... That's why not ... Besides anything traditional ain't my cup of coffee...

suggyspic:
She wants court marriage while he wants traditional marriage. This resulted to argument between Prince and Amaka who have been dating for 5yrs. Prince have propose to Amaka and the traditional knocking of door have been done. In the process of planning for the marriage, prince have insisted that he would only do the traditional marriage and later the church marriage, but Amaka insisted that she prefers a court marriage and later the traditional marriage. Amaka went further by telling prince its either the court marriage or no marriage at all, stating that court marriage would proof to her that Prince truely loves her and wants to protect her further with him. Prince on the other hand insisted that he would do the court marriage when he deems it fit. Amaka have threaten to break up the relationship. Prince is the only son in a family of four and is doing very well. Marriage preparation is 80% ready.

Should Prince concede to her or maintain his stand?
Is Amaka's stance right (using love as a yardstick to buttress her point)
do you smell any hidden agenda on the part of prince or Amaka.
In your candid opinion, do you think this marriage would work.

efemenaslectura:
the feeling is mutual. The guy too is acting so suspicious. How can a man who claims to love a woman not do anything to make her happy. Did she say go and bring your mother for sacrifice. It's just a darn court marriage duhh

Ikiriye:
Prince should marry her in both,but make sure she contributes heavily as you in the marriage as in acquiring properties.don't acquire properties for her to grab when she is tired.empower her and if you sniff funny attitude it's time to sell off what property she knows you have bought without she knowing.hide your documents not in the house.men be wise.

omojeesu:
No wahala. They should have both. Court marriage first, then traditional follows. Each knows his or her motive. Where is love here?

freecocoa:
Why does Prince not want a court wedding? He's up to something, if I were Amaka, I'll stick to my guns.

ferdimako:

If I'm ever gonna get married it is registry. Just note that the court doesn't protect anybody in d real sense...it is cheaper... guys shld opt for it. I saw anyhow guys today... doing their thing.

Some second wives enjoy more than d recognized first... that is y oloshos are everywhere.

bashydemy:
Why is Amaka insisting on Court marriage, she's upto something and if i were to be Prince i will maintain my ground is she now want make she go to hell..

Cutehector:
Can two ppo come togeda if dey can't agree?

freecocoa:
She's only protecting herself, given how the culture here treat women.

I don't understand how that can be a bad thing, how can she possibly harm the man with a court wedding? Na wa o.

Pavore9:


What if she aborts it, will he arrest her?

freecocoa:
She's only protecting herself, given how the culture here treat women.

I don't understand how that can be a bad thing, how can she possibly harm the man with a court wedding? Na wa o.

freecocoa:
She's only protecting herself, given how the culture here treat women.

I don't understand how that can be a bad thing, how can she possibly harm the man with a court wedding? Na wa o.

angelz:
court wedding is important. Amaka should not settle for less. It has nothing to do with money but a lot to do with polygamy. if there's no court wedding, prince can marry another wife since the marriage is not legal. except they sign the marriage certificate in the church.

Timbuktou:


Protect herself from what, exactly? What are these culture treatments that she needs to protect herself from? And can we also make the argument that Prince is also just protecting himself?

Ikiriye:


Can you explain what men gain in European marriages.you.watch alot of movies so explain to the house.

bashydemy:
Protect herself after 5yrs? What will the court do to Prince is he decide he is not interested in her anymore? Will they jail him?

freecocoa:
I seriously don't know what this is supposed to mean.

You sound like marriage is a business one is supposed to 'gain' something from.

Cutehector:
yea.. I like u, u dream big... Ur wedding's gona be in dubai.. I hope ur boyfrnd is already seeing to dhat..

Chidoks:


note:i am not a girl.i am a matured woman.check my age please.
i am not a student.graduated years ago.i am not a laywer either.i was lending a helping hand to a person in need .apparently you have an appriciable knoweldge of family law but you should not down play my honest layman's advice.you should have added to what i said or said yours however you deem right.
back to topic,amaka just make sure you get proper guidiance from an expert.of course you csn contract a legally binding marriage in church if you take the right steps.cheers