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| Men: Cheating: Internet by bridget007(f): 9:09am On Mar 08, 2009 |
Well what can I say MEN!!! |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by MrCrackles(m): 9:21am On Mar 08, 2009 |
hummmmmmmmmmmmmm!  |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 9:30am On Mar 08, 2009 |
I just hope i don't turn out like that.cuz am somehow antisocial and not emotional.sorry bridget but i guess u need to let him know how sad u feel and let him know whats up cuz that's mean |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Gabry(f): 9:39am On Mar 08, 2009 |
OMG! I had just cried reading this post. . .  Why are they cruel people on this earth? Bridget, I look so highly on you for being so strong and determined.Anyways, my bf is reading it as well and he said that your husband will be curse a life time. A rotten apple like him has indeed spoil the whole lot of the Nigerian men's name on this earth.  Bridget, what do you plan to do with him? |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 9:46am On Mar 08, 2009 |
Oh ur husband's nigeria. Some from my environments and experience i've never come across a nigeria father with a clean spot.not even my dad,stepdad,grandad, geez i know am not going to inherit any of that.i'd rather be a dad that doesn't have time for the kids than cheat. Wtf am i saying i rather be none. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by bridget007(f): 9:46am On Mar 08, 2009 |
I don't know what |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 9:47am On Mar 08, 2009 |
Nigerian i meant. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 9:50am On Mar 08, 2009 |
Well to me what's more important is your son and his future.whatever happens just make sure it doesn't affect ur son psychologicaly.apart from that i can't give advice about ur relationship cuz am still young. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by bridget007(f): 9:54am On Mar 08, 2009 |
Yes, my son is an absolute angel, he's just one and he loves his father. Trouble is if we divorce there won't be a happy ending, he's on a spouse visa and he will have to leave and go back Nigeria if I no longer am his spouse. Maybe not now but certainly when it expires. But the again I don't want my son being brought up thinking that a woman should be treated the way his father treats me. Difficult decisions. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Gabry(f): 9:57am On Mar 08, 2009 |
pc guru: PC, you are not serious are you? Mind you, I know many Nigerian fathers whom happen to have a good heart just that I dont know why on this earth, no one ever mention of them and has never even think abou them. I have a Nigerian friend and he got married to a Malaysian lady and they both had migrated to Canada. They have 2 sons and 2 daughters. All have their mother's skin ton colour and facial looks but they follow the father's hair and eyes. Such adorable creations. . . And they are married for 7 years now and I know this friend of mine has never cheated on his wife and infact, he always brings his wife almost everywhere. And theres never been an issue between them. My bf's grandfather might be a cheater cause he got married 3 times but his father is married to his wife for 27 years and he has not cheated on her. . . Bro, life is not always on the bad side. U just need a little faith and you need to think happy to be happy. If you are contented with what you have, you will never ever feel the need to even cheat. . . Am sure of that. bridget007: Have you ever tell your husband that you need to talk to him and you would respect that he gives you that valuable time to talk to him without any distraction? If you have not, I suggest you do. Sit down and ask him:- 1) How do you feel about our relationship? 2) Is there anything on your side which you need to change? Than after he made his la di da la di da point, you then tell him how you feel about this whole thing and that you know about his affair and that you think that he does not take you seriously. Overall, did you try talking to him? |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 10:08am On Mar 08, 2009 |
I guess u right gab paranoia was just setting in.looks like the only solution is the dude cuz he's the anomalie in this equation.maybe gab's right u guys shud sit down to talk.as for the mom don't bet on her.she might just be supportin or look like she's supportin you in order to gain something from you.now that u mentioned spouse visa why do i get the feelin that's why the mom's on ur side.maybe am wrong or it's just paranoia speaking.but you shud talk to him |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Gabry(f): 10:27am On Mar 08, 2009 |
PC, I dont blame you for being paranoid.If I were in your shoes,I would feel the same way too.My dad once cheated on my mom and slept with a girl the same age like me and he left me hanging with my college bills and house bills and all cause he use his money to buy that girl jewelleries and pay for her school fees and her house and all this stuff but than again come to think of it, it was partly my moms fault for not wanting sex and for being a nagger 24/7. , . I did not trust men and I dont want to have anything to do with them since ntill the day my best friend strucked me hard. On your part PC, you could choose to follow your blood generation (cheating part) or you could proof to them that cheating was never part of your family to begin with. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by cece84(f): 3:53am On Mar 09, 2009 |
I am so sorry to hear this. May God be with you during this time. If you let him back into your life he will just keep hurting you over n over again. I commend you for being strong through this. everyone on this topic has been giving u good advice |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by omega25red(m): 4:08am On Mar 09, 2009 |
this is the second time you have told us the birthday story and now you found out he may be cheating on you. you should either see a marriage counselor or get a divorce lawyer |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by spikedcylinder: 4:20am On Mar 09, 2009 |
Bridget, what was this status of his citizenship before he married you?  |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by oluwafemi113(m): 7:45am On Mar 09, 2009 |
women Cheating: Internet lol |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Leilah(f): 7:22pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
You will run yourself into an early grave, get rid of that piece of filth. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Leilah(f): 7:30pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
This is the same girl that found out, just after she had her son that he impregnated another woman. She is still with him even after him punching the faceoff her. You really are something else. As I have said many a time, leave them to their own women. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by CrazyMan(m): 7:33pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
*Sighs* |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by sistawoman: 7:37pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: You dont remember her story. I will let her tell you. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Hauwa1: 7:42pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
First of all, make sure you enjoy your birthday with your girlfriends girl! happy birthday  be happy |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by xxcarolxx(f): 7:48pm On Mar 09, 2009 |
Bridget, i feel for you ive been through it though im not married i found out my bf cheated on me, i raised hell we did split up over it but we finally came through it, its not easy what ever choice you make, im still with my bf we still have our ups & downs he told me i was to submit to him in every way, & i said hell no im irish i aint going to submit to anyone he stayed out 1 night when he came home he found his bags packed ready to go he was shocked so he is behaving himself, sumtimes you have to draw the line & tell them you aint going to take anymore of their crap, so be strong for you & your son best wishes only you can make the choice |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Leilah(f): 12:24am On Mar 10, 2009 |
yo Carol, now thats what I'm talkin about. I would go out and buy a garden shears and shred every stitch of clothes he had. Iwould also call the police. I would be just waiting for that kinda shite, if I even found out my hubby was in a club I woulds mack the face off him. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by ebinom(f): 12:52am On Mar 10, 2009 |
men cheating and women still in relationships are the biggest fools on earth.my mother stayed with my cheating father for 18years and then he found a younger woman and dumped my mother after giving her herpes sexually transmitted disease.after 13years of marriage my mother got another STD and was scared we the children had contracted syphillis so we all had to go for an STD checkup.luckily we were all clean.i have been in many relationships before but it's because all the men have cheated and when i caught them i sent them packing.am now in a loving relationship but hope he won't cheat like the others.i know most men cheat,but i believe not all men cheat.i just haven't found the one who doesn't cheat yet. so women who accept men who cheat,do so if you want an STD.my mother is lucky she didn't get HIV AIDS itself but she's suffering with genital herpes now as it's not curable and live with it for the rest of her life as punishment for accepting a cheating man to keep cheating and keep sleeping with her |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Gabry(f): 1:31am On Mar 10, 2009 |
 OMG! I didnt know life can be this. . . this. . . URGH!~~!!!!!! Why? Why all this Is this how the real world works? Tell me as Im still living in Disney Land where everyone is suppose to be happy!!! |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by touchmeder: 1:35am On Mar 10, 2009 |
so women who accept men who cheat,do so if you want an STD.my mother is lucky she didn't get HIV AIDS itself but she's suffering with genital herpes now as it's not curable and live with it for the rest of her life as punishment for accepting a cheating man to keep cheating and keep sleeping with her this is utterly sad.bridget bridget i rmb u, are we still at this junction?@carol watch it oh, thats how it starts. Foreigners dating these cheating men watch it oh, if they love u they love u utterly when they start playing games watch it. u might just be the means to getting residency/citizenship. they will divorce u soon after and bring their wife/girlfriend or children under ur nose to that obodo. shine ur eyes |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Nobody: 2:08am On Mar 10, 2009 |
A whole 007 like you?? u no try. . You suppose don decode the matter, plus find solution tay tay. |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by saraj(f): 2:27am On Mar 10, 2009 |
@poster get on with your life. Is that prick you call your husband, GOD? Just run for your life. Get out of there. believe me you won't regret it. I've been through it myself(hell and back). MEN CAN BE SO HORRIBLE |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by amebono13: 3:08am On Mar 10, 2009 |
dis same bridget again? come why not divorce dis husband of urs and stop disturbing us on dis forum whenever u post its all about wat d dude's been doing to u,did they tie ur legs in d marriage marrying a nigerian man cos he satisfies u in bed wtout finding out first d kind.a person he is,is all ur fault what nonsense |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by oluwafemi113(m): 7:03am On Mar 10, 2009 |
next thread |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by spikedcylinder: 8:52am On Mar 10, 2009 |
sistawoman: I just read through her profile. Apparently, she's had sex with her husband about 6 times during her entire marriage. I'm saying this assuming sex is the incentive to remain in such a destructive relationship. This is sad.  |
| Re: Men: Cheating: Internet by Czarskit(m): 9:06am On Mar 10, 2009 |
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