Dear, he is a slave. Just tell him no, and keep praying. but for now, keep it between yourselves.
Patience and steadfastness will win eventually.
I respect your decision. Keep it up.

Another reason to ignore Nigerian holy holy b1tches

Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

Tell her... U will be there one hustler will chop ur husband yogoyaga,and if the man enjoys it much better than u... Hahhahahha, U R FINISHED.

If the man no watch porn, how will he know road to the PUSSY since that's not taught in church

It's good to read that most Nairaland ladies are into mouth action based on their comments...but the question is how many of them swallow, rimming and annaal.?

If she doesn't like giving she might like receiving. Let the husband do the giving and see if she will not reciprocate. I bet she will love it. All she is doing is initial grah...grah.

When she experiences the feeling...she won't remain the same. Have never seen any lady reject been licked.. Neither have I seen any lady who has given bj and doesn't like it.

She had better try it cos that's just the start. Later she will learn to swallow, rim, and receive anaal. They still have a long way to go.

Wondering the kind of boring sex they have been having since....wasting energy.
By the way...Have never met a girl that could suuck my diick till my toe squirl..

daimsy:
madam, you better give in to your husband because nobody forced you to say I do when you were asked by the pastor or whoever joined both of you. emphatically and scripturally, you as a wife are expected to ' SUBMIT' to your spouse and that include sex.
when you begin to deprive him or defraud him of what is rightly his, then I think that you have some bad signs coming. I hope you don't expect him to go out there. ..

Bae the background of ur DP looks like unical.

Try and give him, then in return ask for annal or same on ur kitty

ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on

http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this

And u expect me to believe this made up story try harder

MY DEAR U DONT UNDERSTAND WAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT. GIVING HIM THAT IS IT A SIN?
YOU SHOULD STOP EATING AMALA IF YOU USE SAME MOUTH IN PRAYING.
Mtchw

Nigerian women and pretence.If you do not give him other babes including your church members will double do it

What is sinful in whichever way couples decide to mate?
These born agains self.... Mtcheeeew

flames007:
no sist!she knows exactly what shes saying.God doesn't just seem real to u.that's d problem!

no, I believe in God. buh she's just being silly. and the man is stupid to be hiding porn.

if there's anywhere God or a pastor says giving mouth action is nt good, tell me pls. as long as they are married, they can do what they want.

oseod:
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Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving blowjôbs, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or pų$$y
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers

Shame on all of you....

Just because blowjobş have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in blowjobš

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get blôwjőbș since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give blôwjobś)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber

I quite agree wit u, buh wat if the man doesn't listen? Men smx cud be so impossible, it amazes me how they change drastically after weddng, even d so called xtian amg them. They put up some funny altitude that u'd be shocked like" did I really marry ds person" thats why wen they come 2u me wit thr sugar coated tongue, all I envisage is d future wen they had chng.

My dear, please report him to your pastor.That's wrong. All these ursher brothers self. They need to sit down and listen to sermon sometimes.

Mouth Action IS BETTER THAN N0 JOB

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So since you are holy, why didn't you consult holy spirit before making dis public issue? Is he not your husband? Did he marry you are virgin? Just do the needful and save your marriage.

Nawa oo...u stingy oo

Sex free courtship n no bj for ur husband....o ga o

OP - ya husband is a good guy that you are still with him. village girl!

Nawa oo...u stingy oo

Sex free courtship n no bj for ur husband....o ga o

Dear Born Again sister, I don't see anything wrong on your husband request but you should be diplomatic about it unless you want to push him out. Just be faithful to him alone. Those pornography movies mean nothing. You can tell him that you don't like him to watch but you can satisfy him more than them then you need to be at work. Gradually,you are winning his heart

softysparky:

Teach me naaaaa.

Kikikikikiiikkkkjh! !*
CAN YOU IMAGINE A TEACHER FORMING STUDENT? !?

HOW CAN A JEW LIKE ME TEACH YOU HOW TO "WET BEFORE SUCK?!"



We can only share ideas nne, of course my knowledge is limited.

By the ways, you can dance MJ's "TThriller" with a cool lingerie first, pour the honey mixed with cool ice cream on the "electric pole" then use your buccal cavity to 'shock" the absorber!





Remember to use the other hand to close his mouth!

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MadCow1:





Do you think sex is something you play with in marriage?

If she isn't sexually comfortable and isn't willing to have an open marriage where he can satisfy his sexual fantasies with another partner whilst staying married to her then she should up and leave now because staying in that marriage would just be pointless. A man who loves to get his dick sucked would get his dick sucked, either by his wife or someone else but best believe that dick would be sucked.

Sucking his schlong does not translate into perfect marriage, but obviously from all this OP has pointed out, sex is an issue here and thats what we are addressing strictly. Don't muddle things up here. We are focused on sex and how it affects their marriage.

[size=13pt]She definitely has her limits and thats fine just like I wouldn't allow my wife stick anything into my ass no matter her fetish.[/size] The truth is that because she and her husband stayed celibate during courtship, they didn't get to sexually assess each other and now it's obvious that they are at a crossroad. A Mouth Action isn't too much of a compromise to make for your husband. I doubt God would stop answering her prayers because she sucks her husbands schlong.

Go and take a survey of married couples and find out how satisfied they are with their sexual lives and you would shocked at the result. Just the other day a friend was complaining about how his wife wouldn't wear thongs for him. He says he gets turned on by a woman in thongs and here he is with a wife who wouldn't wear one because she says it's uncomfortable. Well how about she discomforts herself for for the period they are both home and after the sex she takes it off. Marriage is about compromises. Imagine a man who has dated girls who have sucked his dick in a car, in his office and even on a plane being with a woman who wouldn't even suck his dick inside their bedroom. Chances are she probably considers all other sexual positions a sin and only does missionary because it sounds christian. Lol

She should check with her husband and see how important this issue is to him and how much of a compromise they can reach and if they have a failure to agree, then she should get on her knees and pray another woman is not on her knees with her husband making up for her shortcomings.

Exactly my point, what if your wife finally meets a man that allows her to stick things up his ass?........ would you then comprise?

If every couple gave into their spouses fetishes, then I don't think we would call the love making "communal", because one person would enjoy it, another person wouldn't
Communication is very vital here,

But for the womans case, its easy for people to bash her because, mouthaction is generally accepted..."many ppl" don't see it as a big deal

NOTE, "many ppl" not all, don't you get it...just because "manyppl" feel masturbation is good doesn't mean "everybody" sees it that way

Who knows, she might compromise in the end, but ppl are posting like mouth action is a prerequisite for a happy marriage..

If the woman said, "my husband wants me to suck his anus" , the replies woulda been different

I got news for you. If you don't give him what he wants, guess what? He's gonna find a bi$# who will.

Visit www.marriageheat.com and get advice from mature, married and christian couples.
Maybe you would have a psychological turn around of your view on mouth action and other sexual acts.
You could even introduce him to the site meanwhile, get him to stop watching porn and remind him you are a human being with over a decade of strict christian upbringing hence, he shouldnt expect you to turn to a porn star simply because he married you!
I consider myself in no position to advise but the comments here could put one in a defensive state or a state of despair

Rubbish!!!!

But u can use the same mouth u use to pray for food and water. U are not serious at all but wait until smart girls take away ur pride

dayojags10:
woman!!!,how many times i call yu?,yu ar abt to lose ur man if yu fail to give him that BJ. another chik go surely help am, i pray ur husband is the rich type. yu are finished!!!

rescue mission no dey retire nah

i'll have liked this post,but the 69likes it has sexual and solves this qstn

That your husband must be a hypocrite I wonder why u didn't see this coming. No I thnk u both are hypocrites deciding urselves. Cos if u were truly led by d spirit like u claim. ... u knw d rest my God is not an authur of confusion.

OP YOU ALMOST CAUSED A SERIOUS ACCIDENT HERE. LAUGHING AT YOUR PRAYING AND TONGUE SPEAKING MOUTH LINE WHILST ENJOYING MY CORN(MOUTH ) AND PEAR.