Utchgirl:

U cant be more catholic dan d pope.

U saw porn movies and u r angry.wonda wht u wil do if he stat having extra marital r/ship.Keep ur man 2 save ur marriage 4rm some ladies dt r ready 2 giv him mouth action .

sorry did she tell u she ws attending catholic Church.........as a good Christian u look up to Jesus d author and d finisher of ur faith nt any pope.........secondly mouthaction is part of sexual immorality........is d mouth meant for taking penis........watching porn to is not good....if u wnt bibilical back ups i willl give

Hmmmm..... i took my time to go through the comments made by those who have passed a comment or the other. Truth be told, we are beginning to embrace what is totally supposed to be frowned at all in the name of civilization to the detriment of the culture, values, dignities, sacredness and respects our grand parents accorded the marriage institution and all these is not far from western infiltration into our cultural values which we have accepted totally.

Madam, am happy you are Spirit filled.... To some of our christian sisters out there, please do not judge a book by its cover.... Look and pray well and above all ask the Holy Spirit, the all knowing one to reveal to you what is hidden. My strong advise for you is to take this matter to God in prayers and let God help you set him free from the spirit that has gained control over him..... Addiction to porn is not good. Anytime you are about mating as couple and he demands for mouthaction, just quietly ask the Spirit to put the right words in your mouth to tell him at that time.

Shalom.

falconey:

Hmmm since you are both strong in the spirit as you pointed out, why not reason with him in the spiritual way. With few quotes from the bible it should subdue his enthusiasm about mouthaction.

Advice to you : perhaps you should try something new to spice up your mating with him. New styles and all.

Right or wrong if I were a woman, I would do it.

It is unAfrican and a terrible thing in the sight of God. As humans do not give birth through the mouth, mouth has no business being screwed. It is also unhygienic. All the deviant sexual escapades are foreign to Africans and those that fear God.

Don't do it. If you do, you may end up with a swollen mouth as punishment. You should also refuse him giving you tongue-lashing!

Give to ceasar what is to ceasar...

ted1741:
Like seriously, Mother Theresa, why did you marry? Have you ever heard of Convent where women of virture are kept, you should go there with immediate effect. Mtcheew, holier than thou. Spear us the sanctimony; pornography, how did you know what pornography is sister Theresa. So, this is a big issue for you in marriage that heavens have to fall. So you were a virgin before marriage abi? I suggest you Bleep your husband through some tinted class, no touching, kissing, sucking, just stright dick/pussy contact and add condoms to it as well, head to the shower thereafter, and please don't look at him because it is sinful, kneel down in the shower and say, "father forgive me for I have bleeped". Mumu. That is why I can't stand some "born agains", stupendously ignoramous, sheepishly religious and very temperamental, quick to anger and judge, unforgiving and truly unrepentent, hypocrits to the core. Don't come on Nairaland with this foolishness again otherwise I will send amadioha to descend on you, ewu born again. We are talking of you husband, not boyfriend for crying out aloud. Sucking his dick will send you to hell abi?

No mind that mumu with her super story. I'm so tired of holier-than-thous "making rules for God". God punish the hand wey she carry type this piece of garbage!

Its a big shame on you all, nd u believe you all are giving a d lady a btter advice ryt?
Shame nd shame on you all...
Her conscience told her its wrong, and she blvs yes it is... Which is ryt.
But, its a shame on you too Lady, coming to ask pple dat will mislead u. Remember in d scripture Absalom, Rehoboam, asking their mates questns that pertain to what is critical... U can c how they derailed them...
Also, remember one of the Son of Judah, cant rember his name. In the early part of d scripture, when he slept with a woman and spill it to the ground... God slew him..
Submit ursef to your husband, not in what is wrong, bt in the rightful ways or things.
Lykwise the word said, children obey your parents IN THE LORD. Dont be confused, even devil twists d scripture to tempt Jesus Christ, thanks to God, cos he Christ himself is the word.
It is good to pray for decisions in life. Dont choose by sight, bt by the hrt, cos ur hrt cnt mislead you.. Nvr!
If u are confused, ask your pastor, they are the Shepherd of the church, dats y they are der to hear from God nd to dliver what they heard to u the church... Except the derailed one hu lie, God wont spk to such pastor.
If the man is genuinely born again, he wont gt u too low to do such.
Its ok to mke him happy, do it in every way. Bt in d wrong way, dont. When u allow that, d next day he will ask for your anus to insert himsef...
Ask advice from d spiritual leaders not pple dat will add up to wat will lead u astray...
Thanks!

SAVEDBABA:
sorry did she tell u she ws attending catholic Church.........as a good Christian u look up to Jesus d author and d finisher of ur faith nt any pope.........secondly mouthaction is part of sexual immorality........is d mouth meant for taking penis........watching porn to is not good....if u wnt bibilical back ups i willl give

Lollz !
U cant be more catholic dan d pope ; do u knw wht idioms/idiomatic xpressions /proverbs/parables are ?
I said so nt because she is a catholic bt jus 2 bring home point. In my language we use proverbs a lot.


Mouth action, a sexual immorality?

Sexual immorality my fat ass !
Plz stop it biko.
They r married 4 crying out loud.
Dts hw d man wants it.
She hv 2 do it odawise d man might decide 2 be getting else wia.
Some peeps like using dis bible 2 intimidate odas.
Spare me ur biblical back ups because u wont be dia whn dey wil be having dis misunderstanding.

@op, You just came here to rubbish born againism, and to show your&ur husby's shallowness in the things of God and marriage ...
It's also unfortunate that while the church is trying to prevent fornication,... they left many things unspoken,many areas unchecked and in the long run create another monster.
It's very wrong to judge anybody based on his/her character within the church premises alone...
Probe into people's fantasies and crosscheck wt d intending partner's preferences nd so on.
Nowadays, some churches marital dogmas need to be tuned to fit into the prevailing societal occurrence ...

Jmechanism:

THIS IS WER U MISS IT. SHOULD WILL CONTINUE TO SIN ND LET GRACE ABIDE. GOD FORBID. ROMAN 6 VS 1 ND 2.NO YE 2DA WHOM U YEILD URSELF TO SELVE. ROMAN 6 VS 15 ND 16.SORRY TO SAY. SAY D TRUTH IN LOVE, WAGES OF SIN IS BOTH PHYSICAL ND SPIRITUAL DEATH. ROMAN 6 VS 23.

Am not justifying the act of sin. GOD HATES SIN, all am saying is that CHRIST paid for our sins, and GOD's forgiveness is automatically available when we confess our sins. The reason God made this forgiveness available instantly is CHRIST death on the cross not by our strength. " If we confess our sins,he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from our unrighteousness(1 JOHN 19). The shift is this; TRUST in God and do not lean upon your own understanding, Ask him to give you the strength to do his will, you cannot abstain from sin by your own will power, we are "IMPERFECT HUMANS" I.e. We are going to do things our own way instead of GOD's way. We no longer live by the LAW, we live in GRACE.

Just do what you are comfortable with madam. For a husband whom you thought was highly spiritual is so deep in phonography I wonder what u can do to please him. From Mouth Action he will tell you he was to go in through ur anus. I'm sure people here will still advice u give him that also.

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omoh see gobe

It is unfortunate that you find usef in this ,it shows dat many so called born again aren't born again but Satan son in sheep skin pretenders. .Go into prayer now , God will save your marriage you have misdirected ursef or blindfolded by Bro sister slogan

Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

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In addition...........woman - Rom 1:26 - 32

oseod:



Exactly my point, what if your wife finally meets a man that allows her to stick things up his ass?........ would you then comprise?

If every couple gave into their spouses fetishes, then I don't think we would call the love making "communal", because one person would enjoy it, another person wouldn't
Communication is very vital here,

But for the womans case, its easy for people to bash her because, mouthaction is generally accepted..."many ppl" don't see it as a big deal

NOTE, "many ppl" not all, don't you get it...just because "manyppl" feel masturbation is good doesn't mean "everybody" sees it that way

Who knows, she might compromise in the end, but ppl are posting like mouth action is a prerequisite for a happy marriage..

If the woman said, "my husband wants me to suck his anus" , the replies woulda been different

Plus her reason is also stupid u must admit

Simply because some1 is active in d church does nt make him/her to b a true born again christian.no matter how active he is,infact most of d workers in church r terible. Bt I guess solution u seek is not here.u can't get d right answers here intead you'll b more confused. Go to your pastor that is more advaced in everything both spiritually n maritaly, atleast he should b able to lead u true. God wil hear no xcuse in d judgement day. If u love God you'll knw d things of this world r for this world. Go to a spitual father with more Knowlege. There you'll get solution n definitely not here. I don't knw y people find it difficult to confide in their pastors bt find it very easy with their friends.

Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

this girl na CROOK!

XuteSleeks:


I think she is telling the truth. Here's another truth...the only way he's gon be saved from it is by deliverance. There is a spirit behind porn.
Secondly, whether you give in to his mouth action plea or not he will still cheat on you not cos he doesn't love you; in fact he might be deeply in love with you but like I said it is a spirit and the actual sin is not just in watching it but what it drives one to do.
Summary: Intensify your prayers that he will one day seek deliverance and be a loving wife despite all. It might encourage his conscience to judge him.

I'm sorry but you're high on something cheap

oseod:


That was where they got it all wrong....I believe their courtship was devoid of anything "sex" so they didn't bring up this topic at all.....

I feel, the man was at fault.....he was not confident enough to express himself sexually during courtship....
....I mean........I don't think he started watching porn after marriage, meaning he probably had those fantasies during courtship...

He was probably afraid to express his sexuality because his wife is a "strong christian woman" or very conservative......he was afraid of how she would react, or how she would look at him...
"She would probably look at me as a bad boy, or ungodly"

He failed to realise that this issue would still crop up sometime in the marriage.....

Concisely summarised!!!

ao
Now after laughing hard , let's get serious!
Couples should discuss sex before marriage, I did not 1)say have sex, but "discuss" it. It saves a lot of trouble.
2) your husband is not born again (judging by your story) Pornography is a sin. You can't derive pleasure in seeing other people commit sin and claim you love God. If you see your sister acting porn, will u enjoy it? But u don't mind watching other people's sisters! Why fill your mind up with gabbage? You should pity those u act porn n pray God delivers them. Can he watch it infront of your pastor? Does it edify him? Or does he have wicked thoughts. I bet he fantasies about other women, that is adultery. Jesus said if u lust after sm1 in ur heart, u have sinned. It is an addiction , he needs help.
3)mouth action can be agreed on "in marriage " but if ur husband resents u for it, he is being selfish! (Part of not being born again). There are ways both of u can come together n reason about it, but if he loves u, he shouldnt resent u, n if u love him, u should try
4) finally, pray n seek counselling from a trusted person after serious prayer, there is no problem God cant solve. Trust him, cuz without faith, its impossible to please God. God bless you.

U nor well


Ur brain dey sweat

anumide:
OMG!!!! This is classic. I wish I can give you a big hug right now

"Big hug"! .... from where? As you tiny reach!

anumide:
OMG!!!! This is classic. I wish I can give you a big hug right now

"Big hug"! .... from where? As you tiny reach!

@Op; if you won't, others will

These are the last days. 2 Timothy 3:5 Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

Within the confines of marriage any sexual act is ok as long the individual's involved are ok based on personal reasons but please leave spirituality out of this.

Any man ore woman who is not giving the spouse mouth action is punishing the partner.And for the guys please note that many ladies fantasize about this a lot so please guys and ladies in marriage abeg give lots and lots of mouth action.Its very very refreshing and i can give my woman triple x pleasure(Don't ask me what this means) for hours.

Utchgirl:



Lollz !
U cant be more catholic dan d pope ; do u knw wht idioms/idiomatic xpressions /proverbs/parables are ?
I said so nt because she is a catholic bt jus 2 bring home point. In my language we use proverbs a lot.


Mouth action, a sexual immorality?

Sexual immorality my fat ass !
Plz stop it biko.
They r married 4 crying out loud.
Dts hw d man wants it.
She hv 2 do it odawise d man might decide 2 be getting else wia.
Some peeps like using dis bible 2 intimidate odas.
Spare me ur biblical back ups because u wont be dia whn dey wil be having dis misunderstanding.

@bolded 1

U didn't have to be specific nau

@bolded 2

On a more serious note...
"Dats how the man wants it"

What of what the woman wants...
Is marriage not made for man and woman?
If the man can cheat, doesn't the woman have legs to go outside?.....she's also sexually starved nau....

The woman is entitled to her own opinions nau...
I'm just trying to be reasonable here..

Utchgirl:



Lollz !
U cant be more catholic dan d pope ; do u knw wht idioms/idiomatic xpressions /proverbs/parables are ?
I said so nt because she is a catholic bt jus 2 bring home point. In my language we use proverbs a lot.


Mouth action, a sexual immorality?

Sexual immorality my fat ass !
Plz stop it biko.
They r married 4 crying out loud.
Dts hw d man wants it.
She hv 2 do it odawise d man might decide 2 be getting else wia.
Some peeps like using dis bible 2 intimidate odas.
Spare me ur biblical back ups because u wont be dia whn dey wil be having dis misunderstanding.

dnt mind me i no d meaning of d idiom....bt on a serious note.........i promise to show my biblical support tomoro,dats if i hav time to check.........bt on serious note d lady....doesnt want to do it....cnt he even compromise cos of love.

ConfessionsNgr:



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http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this

Your st*upid religion will surely destroy your marriage. There's absolutely nothing wrong in watching porn. As long as it's not detrimental to your life or sex life, it's OK. In fact, you should watch porn with him, it will help you guys keep your sexual life alive and active.

Every man and women has a nasty sexual thought in their mind. There's are sexual fantasies every man and women wants to experience before they drop dead. Blow*job and p*ussy eating are in the menu and are great part of sex.

Sex is not only about sexual intercourse, it's a combination of several sexual activities. Give your husband a blo*wjob only if he's ready to reciprocate by eating your p*ussy.

To most men, it is important. Blo*wjob is very intimate and pleasurable. Some men consider it more intimate than intercourse. Your moist, warm mouth - combined with the oral gymnastics your lips and tongue are performing - can create a multitude of thrilling sensations. And all the while, he gets to lie back and focus only on his pleasure, without any pressure to perform.

Psychologically, men often feel that blo*wjob shows how much a woman wants and accepts all of him. Many say it makes them feel special and loved. So if you care for your husband, I believe the question should not be whether you want to provide him with oral pleasure but, rather, how often! He shouldn't have to beg for it or have to wait for that once-a-year opportunity!

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