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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by HeavenShield: 11:58pm On Jul 15, 2015
PLEASE READ THIS POST. Well, i have read everything and i weep for the So-called Believers. Hmmm..1. Sister you came to the very wrong Platform to seek 4 advice. What a man sees, read and exposed to if not careful influences the man. 2. Many Marriages are hell-fire bound. 3. Marriage DEFINED by sex-pleasured will be turbulent. 4. If you are interested in heaven, Pray well before marriage 5. Did God make the mouth a vag*na? 6. If you have ever watched pornography you need deliverance..my sister your husband is not born again and needs deliverance if not you seek deliverance on his behalf.Your marriage is attacked.
Flee from every appearance of evil. 7. Your marriage will not crumble if you refuse to do it in Jesus name. Jude vs7..Even as sodom and Gomorrha...and going after STRANGE FLESH...suffering the vengence of eternal fire. Read Romans1:21-28..vain imagination...darkened foolish heart...for this cause God gave them up to vile affections...changing the natural use into that which is against nature...the men leaving the natural use of the woman...working that which is unseemly(indecent)..to a reprobate mind to do those things which are not convenient(fit, proper). Ladies and Gentlemen, brothers and sisters, is Mou*h*ctio* a sin? Judge for yourself.. Can sb take this to FP without changing the contents..Thank you

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by easy345(m): 11:59pm On Jul 15, 2015
My dear I'm a born again christian like you aNd your husband I will say this to you do whatever your husband says because it is very important for the joy of the family and your happiness because GoD says you should submit to your husband and him in return will love you smileyMy dear I'm a born again christian like you aNd your husband I will say this to you do whatever your husband says because it is very important for the joy of the family and your happiness because GoD says you should submit to your husband and him in return will love you
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by plasgidy: 12:00am On Jul 16, 2015
I advice sex before marriage reason being that this is some body you are going to end your life with. I know of a lady who refused to marry her boy friend because the guy prick was very smal and the lady observed that and no if she marry this guy she will end up having sex outside the marriage, I think that's a good reason and desission.

I know of a very good Christian woman who divorced her husband do to the mans dickk size, cos of this reason test what you are buying before you end up with a dummy, I rest my pen. God bless us as we wise up.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by opsynea2j(m): 12:03am On Jul 16, 2015
The courtship was plain deceit cos it was all pretence from the start. Best way the guy could abstain or resist premarital sex was through porn excitements and possibly masturbation (and yet claimed /acted to be a spirit filled man)

The lady would not have know how porn has exposed her man to cravings and wanting to explore .

Now that there is a marital bond : CHANGE , compromise , MORE PRAYERS AND SPIRITUAL SENSITIVITY IS REQUIRED , IT IS VERY WRONG TO FEEL BAD , CONDEMN HER MAN BUT TO FIND THE BEST WAY OUTTA THE MESS THE HUSBAND FOUND HIMSELF ..

He's your husband , discuss solutions with him , do not condemn him cos you could possibly help him to get smarter with his Indecency stuffs , satisfy your man , dont be a fanatic christian . you need no public opinion on your home and marriage .. both of you need to sit down and trash things out ...

if he is willing to let go off his porn addiction , what do you have to offer to spice up your marriage and make things work ??

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by adedayourt(m): 12:06am On Jul 16, 2015
I Love the comments am reading on this thread
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by plasgidy: 12:11am On Jul 16, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on

http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this

Infact baby you married a very BiiiiiiiiiG WANKA. but not his fault, you refused to give him pussy. Were you a virgin before marriage? Don't lie pls.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by kessler53(m): 12:29am On Jul 16, 2015
My sister stand on the truth the divine principles of true born again children of God.Your husband is either a hypocrite or has backslided after ur marriage.so the best option is to have a serious talk wit him about mouth action.let him know that u wil love to please him but concening mouth action u find it detestable.
So u should also pray and fast about this issue so that God will restore him to faith if he has backslidden and if he is not born again then pray for his salvation.
Lastly be firm in faith because every marriage has its challenges and I believed that God will help u overcome this temptation.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by knxpin(m): 12:46am On Jul 16, 2015
Utchgirl:
Before u blame, i'm a christian.

U r angry dt ur husband watched/watching porn.
U r hv a sex free courtship, right ?
And 4 ur mind,he is nt masturbating ? No sex, bt he is getting d pleasure 4rm som wia else.
U beta wake up ooo
U guys r taking dis christianity 2 far.
U wont use d same mouth u use in speaking in tongue 2 giv him mouth action ?
U cant be more catholic dan d pope. If care is nt taken, ur pastor might evn be getting dt mouth action 4rm his wife. Evn d bible said dt u must be submissive 2 ur husband.And u dnt hv any right 2 deprive ur husband 4rm his conjugal rite. U guys r now married so he hv d right 2 demand it 4rm u right, left and center.

U saw porn movies and u r angry.wonda wht u wil do if he stat having extra marital r/ship.Keep ur man 2 save ur marriage 4rm some ladies dt r ready 2 giv him mouth action .

On point my sister,
You said it how it is.
You the best.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by plasgidy: 12:49am On Jul 16, 2015
kessler53:
My sister stand on the truth the divine principles of true born again children of God.Your husband is either a hypocrite or has backslided after ur marriage.so the best option is to have a serious talk wit him about mouth action.let him know that u wil love to please him but concening mouth action u find it detestable.
So u should also pray and fast about this issue so that God will restore him to faith if he has backslidden and if he is not born again then pray for his salvation.
Lastly be firm in faith because every marriage has its challenges and I believed that God will help u overcome this temptation.

The bible says if you are up right in all and stumble in one you are guilty of all. If you do not steal nor lie nor commit adultery nor kill, but back bite and gossip and stereo type ppl you are guilty of all.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by amacastel: 12:51am On Jul 16, 2015
I can help u out with the bj 50k per section I bet u ur husband will not come home in 2weeks
Born twice. Metweee
I just suck the hell out of my bf dis evening let alone my own husband o boy na him go run comot for bed .
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by victor247: 12:54am On Jul 16, 2015
oseod:
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Woman, I understand your predicament...
Not every woman is comfortable giving mouthaction, marriage shouldn't always be about what the man wants....marriage is more about understanding


To Every woman bashing op here angry angry

If your husband told you to lick/suck his anus (some men have some weird sexual fantasies......true!!!)
Or hand fisting your anus or vaginus
Or better still whip u like a goat when having šex with u (50 shades of gray style)

Would you agree just to save your marriage!!!!
Would you!!!!!!

Liberally bias crowd ass-lickers angry angry


Note
Those fetishes I posted above might be a big deal to some of you, but is not a big deal to some other women (e.g, porn actresses)

Same thing here, mouthaction doesn't sound a big deal to some of you, but is a big deal to some other women

We all have some principles or doctrines we aren't willing to compromise,
So why attack the woman?

Shame on all of you....

Just because mouthaction have become a generally accepted sex style(or whatever) doesn't mean everbody is okay with it

BTW I see nothing wrong in mouthaction

But the woman doesn't feel comfortable with it....shey its now her fault ni?

The man can go outside to get mouthaction since his wife didnt give him
The woman can also go outside to find love since her husband is denying her nau? No be so?

Woman

Best thing is to talk to your husband to know the limits of your sexuality
(The ones you or him can accept and the ones you can't,

And also to know the principles you are willing to compromise....then work on this, and you can still have a great sexual relationship together, even better than those who give mouthaction)

Many marriages that collapsed, the wives were good at sucking cucumber

you speak wisdom

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Ezegozie(m): 12:58am On Jul 16, 2015
Utchgirl:
Before u blame, i'm a christian.

U r angry dt ur husband watched/watching porn.
U r hv a sex free courtship, right ?
And 4 ur mind,he is nt masturbating ? No sex, bt he is getting d pleasure 4rm som wia else.
U beta wake up ooo
U guys r taking dis christianity 2 far.
U wont use d same mouth u use in speaking in tongue 2 giv him mouth action ?
U cant be more catholic dan d pope. If care is nt taken, ur pastor might evn be getting dt mouth action 4rm his wife. Evn d bible said dt u must be submissive 2 ur husband.And u dnt hv any right 2 deprive ur husband 4rm his conjugal rite. U guys r now married so he hv d right 2 demand it 4rm u right, left and center.

U saw porn movies and u r angry.wonda wht u wil do if he stat having extra marital r/ship.Keep ur man 2 save ur marriage 4rm some ladies dt r ready 2 giv him mouth action .


How can somebody be forced to be sucking his husband's manhood just in order not to deny him his so called conjugal right.
Next time, the husband will change from sucking prick to anal sex.
Such things are really disgusting to some people and nobody should be mandated to do so.
I am not condemning it, but certain things should be done by choice not by force.
The lady is his wife and not his sex slave and therefore shouldnt be treated as such.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by ldswagga(m): 1:24am On Jul 16, 2015
what is bad is bad,mouth action is against the principle of your faith,so is anal action,masochism and other types of demonic sexual perversions.if you do mouth action today next he will ask for other types of action.I used to see nothing wrong with it until it was preached one sunday in church.sit him down and talk to him about it.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by princeonx: 1:52am On Jul 16, 2015
Let me say this in a language you will understand op!!


Rarararararara!!! Dodododododododo!! Obobobobobo!! Okokokokokoko!! Ortututututututu!!!

No say I no tell you oh! Give God him own and give Ceasar him own oh!
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by hedonistic: 1:58am On Jul 16, 2015
That's why I can't stand all these fake born again hypocrites. Very annoying and pretentious irritants. Can't even endure a mere fling or girlfriend without GOOD Mouth Action skills, let alone a wife. In any case, if she isn't giving you Mouth Action, there is a strong possibility that she will give it to some other guy out there that has better persuasive skills or that she stands to gain something important from, e.g. Her boss. Useless hypocrites. Twa.

I'd rather marry a prostitute than marry these fake goody-two-shoes eediots forming born again. At least I'd be sure of what I'm going into and wouldn't be shocked by any unpleasant surprises.

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by zheroes(m): 2:10am On Jul 16, 2015
very interesting!!! babe you just ain't serious or are you? the bible says your body is the temple of God and and there is no sin in you having sex since you are legitimately married, you kiss him, don't you? with the same mouth you use to praise God right? you have used your hand to touch his privates with the same hand you wave to God, please kindly advice yourself. you cant be holier than the scriptures. the bad bad might just be its too late because if my guys tastes it outside he wont even touch you again. be wise

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Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Vaughan27: 3:23am On Jul 16, 2015
EroticAngelina:
Like seriously!!!! FVCKING QUIT THE 'HOLY' ACT!! angry

He is nt asking u to do something bad. u guys are married. u should learn to please ur husband and stop pretending.
If u keep this 'I am too holy to do that' act, sex will become boring for u guys and he will start looking outsyd.

Buh if ur not comfortable with giving ur husband mouth action, no problem.
Seriously man u must b dirty, so if it were u, u will give him mouth job angry
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Vaughan27: 3:36am On Jul 16, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on

http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this
Dat is where so christian are getting it wrong so because u married u don't discuss abt Sex, even if u would not do anything, Christians be smart u should play with him try to get into his head let him tell u what he prefer in sex d style everything dem u no d kind of person he his, but dem u were doing gud sister will not talk abt essential things, now u ar in d married, first thing u do u have to make him stop watching port and play for him because dat port u ar seeing does actor ar on drugs the sec is not real, they ar just some drug addict dat keep moaning and make it look real.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jeffizy(m): 4:52am On Jul 16, 2015
A lot of cock suckers on this thread. grin
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Nyceguy92: 4:53am On Jul 16, 2015
[quote [i][/i]author=ConfessionsNgr post=35894342]

Sex plays a major role in marriage and always the man is expected to give it to the wife in full measure.

I get the sense that you know little or nothing about sex.

Your husband appears to like to discuss sex freely with you, including the whats and hows, which is very good.

You should be more adventurous in your sex play. It is done with every part of your body.

Perhaps your husband had not been watching porns before, but the need to succeed in his new "assignment" pushed him to do so.

You may wish to checkout this website that teaches adult intimacy matters. It has videos too: www.loversguide.com
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by izzieman: 5:30am On Jul 16, 2015
falconey:

Hmmm since you are both strong in the spirit as you pointed out, why not reason with him in the spiritual way. With few quotes from the bible it should subdue his enthusiasm about mouthaction.

Advice to you : perhaps you should try something new to spice up your mating with him. New styles and all.

Right or wrong if I were a woman, I would do it.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by izzieman: 5:31am On Jul 16, 2015
Do you have anywhere in the Bible where it says MouthAction or Cunnilingus is prohibited? If you do not give it to him, he will eventually go and get it outside.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by stonecoldcafe: 5:42am On Jul 16, 2015
Chibuhealth:
See this one ooo! Dey there make pant dey wear you. Hence he is ur hysband, give him everything both front and back, ontop and angle 90 even angle 360. Nawaooo... Wen u reach church you do church own. Don't spoil ur marriage. Lekwanu m anya biko nu? Who your speaking in tongue don help?

Really? An.al? Is that right? Will he let me stick it up his backside too? Please people be reasonable here.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by easymanofdpeopl(m): 5:52am On Jul 16, 2015
EroticAngelina:
Like seriously!!!! FVCKING QUIT THE 'HOLY' ACT!! angry

He is nt asking u to do something bad. u guys are married. u should learn to please ur husband and stop pretending.
If u keep this 'I am too holy to do that' act, sex will become boring for u guys and he will start looking outsyd.

Buh if ur not comfortable with giving ur husband mouth action, no problem.



am looking for ur type to marry.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by jeff14real: 5:52am On Jul 16, 2015
Madam this is not a matter of church Oh this is a matter that Put ur marriages on the line and u are still making consideration trust mi from statistics sex issues is one of the reasons for failed marriages and extra marital affairs so do wat u can to avoid join the long list of failed marriages biko . Plus I heard that medically spams good for ladies healthwise provided the man's is sanitary conscious.......
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by salvation77177: 5:58am On Jul 16, 2015
Pls know that it is better to please God than man.The fact that the bible says women should submit totally to their husband does not mean we should obey our husband and sin against God.Sex between a man and women should be through thre opening God provided and not through the mouth.To my own understanding that is sexual perversion.Pls pray seriously and seek counselling from matured believers you trust for your husband.He is derailing from the the truth.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by lomaxbien(m): 6:05am On Jul 16, 2015
ahsekeena:
Lol.




U are alone madam.



Shebi u are not babies in the spirit. Ask the spirit to settle this one for u. Its not our business.
Lol,u wicked o
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by dhappyking(m): 6:12am On Jul 16, 2015
When you loose your husband, your eyes will clear! Please don't come back crying to this forum. You can't do what he wants and you can't pet and cajole him to try and understand with you and even give you some time. You are busy forming holy weje and rubbing shoulders with him. You should have gone to the convent now. The guy has needs to be met. Bera do something about it, and fast before it is too late. Good luck.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Ezemann(m): 6:12am On Jul 16, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:



Posted anonymously on

http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/140/i-cant-believe-my-husband-is-asking-me-for-this
story for d gods angry grin
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by afyjam: 6:33am On Jul 16, 2015
XuteSleeks:


I think she is telling the truth. Here's another truth...the only way he's gon be saved from it is by deliverance. There is a spirit behind porn.
Secondly, whether you give in to his mouth action plea or not he will still cheat on you not cos he doesn't love you; in fact he might be deeply in love with you but like I said it is a spirit and the actual sin is not just in watching it but what it drives one to do.
Summary: Intensify your prayers that he will one day seek deliverance and be a loving wife despite all. It might encourage his conscience to judge him.
shoro Niyen?
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by blenko: 6:39am On Jul 16, 2015
U better give him mouth action. Quit the holy holy act and satisfy him.
Re: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Olivialight(f): 6:40am On Jul 16, 2015
I weep for the comments am reading here, that you decided to accept that kinda intimacy doesn't mean it is right, see the way they are talking like they never found the idea of it awkward, like y'all were born with penis in your mouth WTH. Give Op a break please,she is not comfortable with it, it is the duty of the husband to figure out how to relax her on that.

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