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2015....your year of lactation

You too should "Milk her dry" na. Den no get Boobs abi dem point Gun on your head?



Send another Topic to NL when you are done fooling yourself.....Ewu!

7Alexander:
I work in a not-too-big establishment that is owned by my brother-in-law, we have a staff of 7 ladies, 4 guys including myself.

The problem i have is that these ladies whose job is largely secretarial thinks that given my connection with the CEO, that i am financially privileged, now, i'm just managing myself, albeit comfortably, but, there is no time i can have a single conversation with these ladies without me hearing something like, 'find something for me nah', 'hope you will find me weekend money', 'you be oga nah, your own better' and stuffs like that.

Recently, one of them celebrated her birthday at the office but brought no drinks, during the celebration, she blatantly asked me to bring #5000 to support her, i was like what? The whole thing is pissing me off.

I remember a day i told one of them to buy me sachet water, she asked me how an oga like me should be drinking sachet water and not a bottled water.

The new and most annoying trend now is that anytime i send them to get me food, which is sold between 250 and 350, they either do not get me any change or they tell me that the food vendor is owing them, and we know the rest.

Please nairalanders how best do i express my displeasure to them without being petty, while also sustaining their goodwill?

Psst. The five 'F' rule:

Fund them
Friend them
Fool them
Fckk them
Forget them

Always works for me.

So u nvr fvck anyone of them? U be slacker.

ladies don dey suck guys dry since 10000bc. my guy,yu sef suck them dry(the other way). Natyn is free

God loves a cheerful giver....Op stop complaining. some girls can Tax sha..

Aude:
What is wrong with your legs and mouth? Why can't you go and buy your own food? I don't understand why a lot of Africans think because they are in a higher position they should use those below them as their servants. Get off your behind and go and buy your own food. Also if you don't have money what is so difficult in telling them you cannot keep on spending money on them.

In my office i buy my food myself ever since our office assistant started thinking i get paid millions of naira. People dont know how tough things are they have this crazy idea that you are worth 100 times your real worth....when na manage u dey manage urself and family.

angieberry:
mumu

why u dey beef the guy nah? judging by your profile pic, u be one of those girls wey e dey talk about. hahaha

be a man.

rubish in nairaland....wha is our business in da t

delectablegyal:
So u nvr fvck anyone of them? U be slacker.

See bad geh

7Alexander:
I work in a not-too-big establishment that is owned by my brother-in-law, we have a staff of 7 ladies, 4 guys including myself.

The problem i have is that these ladies whose job is largely secretarial thinks that given my connection with the CEO, that i am financially privileged, now, i'm just managing myself, albeit comfortably, but, there is no time i can have a single conversation with these ladies without me hearing something like, 'find something for me nah', 'hope you will find me weekend money', 'you be oga nah, your own better' and stuffs like that.

Recently, one of them celebrated her birthday at the office but brought no drinks, during the celebration, she blatantly asked me to bring #5000 to support her, i was like what? The whole thing is pissing me off.

I remember a day i told one of them to buy me sachet water, she asked me how an oga like me should be drinking sachet water and not a bottled water.

The new and most annoying trend now is that anytime i send them to get me food, which is sold between 250 and 350, they either do not get me any change or they tell me that the food vendor is owing them, and we know the rest.

Please nairalanders how best do i express my displeasure to them without being petty, while also sustaining their goodwill?

I had this ur experience when I was in the Uni. I had so many female friends and non was my date and I discovered I was spending so much on them. Atimes u will hear" komek complete my bike fare , I am hungry " etc meanwhile na trek I trek dey go house and I never chop. But one day one thought came to me, Komek ask these babes out for goodness sake. I did and some of them said ha, why r u saying this na, u no I have a bf, some said u know I see u like my own brother and many other excuses.

So when next they come with their demands, I will refer u to ur bf and for those who claimed I am their brothers I told them that I don't gv my sisters things the way they expect. Bros na so I free ma sef o.

So free ur sef too.

Aude:



So don't you have lunch breaks or are you expected to work the whole day without leaving your desk.? Maybe it is your over-familiarity with the ladies that encourages them to take advantage of you. If you weren't depending on them to run errands for you then they won't have the opportunity to exploit you . Sometimes we are the architects of our problems.

i like peeps that reason well before they type..1,000 likes for you.

U didn't tell us how much u are paid so that we cn say wether u are oga or nt. Secondly, u do send them for errand, they deserve a fair take

I have this feeling the op is interested in 'doing' them or is already 'doing' some of them. So he can't say No to them.

angieberry:
You be mumu.
sorry to say, but that's the blatant truth.
So you cannot say NO to them or you cannot refuse to give them money? Abi are you afraid and you want to just keep up appearance?
What do you want us to tell you now?

how is he a mumu

Accept your faith bro ....

Pre_elevation

Hmmmm. Bro, a two letter word is what you need to get yourself out of this situation. If you are a man then learn to make decisions. That's why you are a man.
Lest I forget, the two letter word is NO! However you choose to use it is good, whether sharply or calmly.
Be back here on Wednesday to give us a feedback.

7Alexander:
I work in a not-too-big establishment that is owned by my brother-in-law, we have a staff of 7 ladies, 4 guys including myself.

The problem i have is that these ladies whose job is largely secretarial thinks that given my connection with the CEO, that i am financially privileged, now, i'm just managing myself, albeit comfortably, but, there is no time i can have a single conversation with these ladies without me hearing something like, 'find something for me nah', 'hope you will find me weekend money', 'you be oga nah, your own better' and stuffs like that.

Recently, one of them celebrated her birthday at the office but brought no drinks, during the celebration, she blatantly asked me to bring #5000 to support her, i was like what? The whole thing is pissing me off.

I remember a day i told one of them to buy me sachet water, she asked me how an oga like me should be drinking sachet water and not a bottled water.

The new and most annoying trend now is that anytime i send them to get me food, which is sold between 250 and 350, they either do not get me any change or they tell me that the food vendor is owing them, and we know the rest.

Please nairalanders how best do i express my displeasure to them without being petty, while also sustaining their goodwill?

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It must be nice to be surrounded by angels.

Please pamper them...God has buttered their bread.

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tungstar:
Milk dem back.....the dude way

bad guy.

Dem don c u as their mugun/maga. Goodluck to you if u can't simply say "I DON'T HAVE"

abeg the guy na complete mumu. abi did they hold his tongue that he cannot say no? I'm sure if na man, he would not give him anything but na woman now, he don become mugu.

lateefx:

why u dey beef the guy nah? judging by your profile pic, u be one of those girls wey e dey talk about. hahaha

7Alexander


U be mumu and extra ordinary maga

Let them knw what's up

I know how difficult it is to say no to these ladies but what can you do... All these small change they are collecting can be put to better use, say savings. When you realize how much they are taking from you every month, you'll know what to do...

The truth is... ZTOP MILKING YASELF

afuye:
7Alexander


U be mumu and extra ordinary maga

People like you do worse than the Op.

7Alexander:
The new and most annoying trend now is that anytime i send them to get me food, which is sold between 250 and 350, they either do not get me any change or they tell me that the food vendor is owing them, and we know the rest.

lol

why cant he say NO to those leeches? abi does he look like their father? over-niceness is worrying him. what advise does he want us to give him now.

MemphisDepay:
how is he a mumu

Nigerian gurls are almajiris.. I realized dis donkey years ago.. I nor dey waste my time wit dem