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Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Dammous(m): 3:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
If I hear...... 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by ugoezeik(m): 3:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
and dis nonsense mk fontpage? 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by fulfillment22: 3:58pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
dacrystal01: u just posted trash, no company does that without providing availability to such e.g there could be vendor officially established within the said company (2) the management might assigned someone to be supplying such from outside. however, if you still insist on your point, please cite examples |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Rexnegro(m): 4:00pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
7Alexander: Mr op that's some nigeria girls for u o...anyway try discipline ur generosity, u got more important issues to attend to financially than them.....u sha won't kill ursef na because of those oshofree I neva chop kind of girls...as if they don't collect salary....bro learn how to say no to their faces they won't kill u at most they will only gossip and call u stingy guy, but will u give a damn ? I guess no cos that's what u re looking for sef....as for the food sending , stop it because they re fellow staffs and not errands girls and do take ur time to walk down there to eat during break or lunch time......goodluck bro. 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by glo3nity: 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
IYANGBALI: Is 'Six Six Six' written on my forehead..? Abeg! Pa...............ck We...........ll and stop picking on me please......! 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by morbeta(m): 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
You know your name behind closed doors. "Father Christmas" 4 Likes |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by lexia09(f): 4:06pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
[quote author=Aude post=35969820] So don't you have lunch breaks or are you expected to work the whole day without leaving your desk? Maybe it is your over-familiarity with the ladies that encourages them to take advantage of you. If you weren't depending on them to run errands for you then they won't have the opportunity to exploit you . Sometimes we are the architects of our problems. Exactly,the guy shld be bold enough to explain his situation to d ladies rather than d lamentation he doing here on nairaland. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by otosa(m): 4:07pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
how i wish to make a comment before those ladies milked you finish but before God who made me ,I don't have Megabyte and if u don't mind send me because the advice i have for u will help a lot. 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by fulfillment22: 4:08pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
watchworldpro: unless he has edited it, he didn't tell us that @ ur 1,2,3 lines |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Nicepoker(m): 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Get ur own pay from them in kind. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Spydamannn(m): 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Nigerian women and Begi begi syndrome,Op if you can afford it you should cos its good to spend for women but if you can't just know how to say NO 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Jimohsunday: 4:13pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
express ur self to dem before u die in silent o. its beta u let dem are not oga.. Guy be wise o |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by kolokolobi(m): 4:17pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
In my younger days of yore as a fresh graduate at a consultancy firm, the OP reminds me of myself. One day I was so broke I didn't know who to turn to. As I browsed through all my suits I saw some good money I never thought I had. Then I practiced over and over again how to say..... I can actually. But I won't. I practiced it so well I actually started saying it with a smile. Try that OP. Say it to them. I can actually. But I won't. with a smile. You'd be glad you did. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by linearity: 4:26pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
OP, you are the problem here, those two ladies are perfectly fine. You cannot eat your cake and have it. They did not force the money out of you, they did not steal it, they did not defraud you. You willingly gave them money, most likely with a smile on your face and with the aura of 'the big boss' at the same time, while enjoying the accolade, prestige, peer recognition, status, fame, greetings, blessings, prayers, thanks, etc that come with that gesture and now want to wish your money back. Next time, simply say NO and deal with the rebuff and badmouthing or whatever that may result. Do not try to eat your cake and have it at the same time. 2 Likes |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Cutekriss(m): 4:30pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
sometimes, i really wonder if some questions are worth asking nd answering. I believe u are their boss. You are giving them the impression and the go-ahead to do to you whatever they are doing. You should have made a point blank the moment they started working for you that you mean business and you are not any sort or form of an atm machine. You showed them how a weakling you are to say no and they are taking advantage of that..... It wont hurt to say no, besides you're the boss. Its high time you start behaving like one.... 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by kodded(m): 4:31pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
CR77: |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by ideatoprince18(m): 4:32pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
next time dey ask you for money bro ...just ask dem dis simple question.....sister abeg com give me pvssy na....u na boss |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by moneytreeteam: 4:33pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Why reporting..take action! Turn round and milk them dry... |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by sinola(m): 4:41pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
are u married?.......cos if you have responsibilities,i don't think you will be falling for all this cheap enchantments. Be a man of discipline orelse i see you underachieved in the next 20years. #my advise |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by IYANGBALI: 4:46pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
glo3nity:na 777 I see for your head,I no go leave you o,na me and you todey |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
tungstar:* The advice for foxes is dangerous for chickens. One would expect talks of challenges of deflecting the 2much attention/pamper in the female-male office inequality not the other way around. So bro the above almighty 4mula may buhaha in ur faze. Starts 4rm NO' then more of NO. Then Almighty 4mula isnt a bad postpayment plan afterall. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by glo3nity: 4:53pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Do you know that you have a right to keep what you earn? Bro exercise that right. Say No to them in a mature way "I will love to give but I am broke @ this time". End of discussion. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by IYANGBALI: 4:57pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
glo3nity:osun |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Hormoniyi25(m): 5:01pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Bros u can teach some one how to lie oooo SirLegal: |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by drnoel: 5:02pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Aude: bros u see that kind thing? |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by henroe2k2(m): 5:03pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
7Alexander:Use your head.... |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by krak101(m): 5:05pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
I don't see a problem. Tell them the real situation about your position... Not like it's their right though. If they desist to understand fine, a blatant NO should do the job next time. Sending them on food errands not a good idea if you asked me... Those kind babes fit you. If you must send em... Ensure that you have naira in just that amount... You know what I mean. If you decide to reap the brother way... Life go tire you. Actually I don't see a problem |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by beyoncausme: 5:08pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
find a way to deal with it. |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Ninilowo(m): 5:12pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
OP, keep satisfying them you hear. When you are pushed to the wall, solution ll come naturally. Amen? 1 Like |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Zeusd3(m): 5:30pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
@op... please listen not to anyone... I understand u perfectly I use to b that kind of guy.... but I learnt am not with my wallet trick... show up for work with like fewer cash than before... even if u have leave dem at ur car.... if dey ask 2 bring d money 2morow .... tell dem I 4get always ..... eventually 1 of dem will go home wit u 2 collect it.... ur kind of person r gud will dat can't say no.... no matter Hw difficult d situation is..... pls visit aba city 4 more ways to survive wit oshofree pple.... |
Re: The Ladies In My Office Are Milking Me Dry. by Yetunbabs: 5:35pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
fulisiiiii kweston furom fulisii yu |
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