Relationships are generally perceived as a lot today.
Insecurity, fear, envy, mistrust and even lies are fast taking its roots in a lot of relationships and yet some relationships manage to survive.
The issue of partners suddenly becoming strangers whether it be the guy or the girl is a large factor in crumbling of relationships today.

No matter how tough a guy is or how strong a girl is, there's always some one they melt in their arms. It may have been you but now things are no longer the same......

Been busy is not a crime but I strongly believe there's no such thing as too busy. When you truly care about some1...
A busy person is one who has a lot of things to do with little or no time to spare. But who would still take a minute to check on you. It doesn't take up to 5 mins to type....pretty busy, talk to you later...love U

A guy who has lost interest doesn't call, doesn't text, always making excuses.....

A guy can be really busy with out loosing interest but. When a guy has lost interest it's always glaring.

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Am "too busy" is just the polite way of telling one you no longer interested

Sassybae:
Am "too busy" is just the polite way of telling one you no longer interested

you can say that again. Worse still is when he adds you've started nagging

Sassybae:
Am "too busy" is just the polite way of telling one you no longer interested

you are right tho. But u know at times we see things differently. Sometimes a guy might say he is busy. Just to bring up emotions in the lady. It does not mean that he is not interested. But sometimes putting her in check and making her sit up and sometimes. He just wants to be alone.

You are right!!

Here goes women with unrealistic expectations

There is absolutely something called too busy

The world mustn't revolve around a gf or wife

People get stressed in every facet on their daily routine and the last thing they had want is someone demanding more of their time

What exactly have you done to accommodate and work around his busy schedules?
How have you managed to circumvent his busy lifestyle to go extra mile to show appreciation for all his efforts

A union without flexibility and understanding is on a fast lane to doom

jaybee3:
Here goes women with unrealistic expectations

There is absolutely something called too busy

The world mustn't revolve around a gf or wife

People get stressed in every facet on their daily routine and the last thing they had want is someone demanding more of their time

What exactly have you done to accommodate and work around his busy schedules?
How have you managed to circumvent his busy lifestyle to go extra mile to show appreciation for all his efforts

A union without flexibility and understanding is on a fast lane to doom

well said no doubt. No1 is asking for all of ur time. No 1 is asking for something unrealistic but when a guy is really busy he doesn't go on making up excuses instead he does tins dat wud make u understand. Instead of carrying a lady along u just switch and in some cases when the lady ignores such changes he says she never cared

Yea buh not when you over do it....he should try.calling her @least once in a day,not always saying, "am busy now call later" sometimes it hurts

iamord:
you are right tho. But u know at times we see things differently. Sometimes a guy might say he is busy. Just to bring up emotions in the lady. It does not mean that he is not interested. But sometimes putting her in check and making her sit up

Sassybae:
Am "too busy" is just the polite way of telling one you no longer interested

no its more of the cowards way out. if you are no longer interested, just say so

Mzflexydeeva:
well said no doubt. No1 is asking for all of ur time. No 1 is asking for something unrealistic but when a guy is really busy he doesn't go on making up excuses instead he does tins dat wud make u understand. Instead of carrying a lady along u just switch and in some cases when the lady ignores such changes he says she never cared

To be honest my objection is with the "Nothing like too busy" qualifier statement.

Some people do have genuine reasons to hide under the being busy statement and the onus is on the partner to be accommodating of that fact instead of making all sort of wrong assumptions and over analyzing the statement when he/she could also make the extra effort since the success of the relation is going to benefit them as a couple

Relationship is a two way thing and no one single person should continue making the effort. They need to both create time and work around their busy schedules...end off...

Yea, and some will say, "I just wanna test if she really loves me" its really annoying

Mzflexydeeva:
you can say that again. Worse still is when he adds you've started nagging

Sassybae:
Yea buh not when you over do it....he should try.calling her @least once in a day,not always saying, "am busy now call later" sometimes it hurts

lol. Once in a day?! It should not be everytime. Sometimes u can WhatsApp. Else it will get boring

Yea, buh wah am saying is when he's always giving that lame excuse of being too busy, then I'll tag it as something else

iamord:
lol. Once in a day?! It should not be everytime. Sometimes u can WhatsApp. Else it will get boring

Sassybae:
Yea, buh wah am saying is when he's always giving that lame excuse of being too busy, then I'll tag it as something else

yes he is definitely not interested. But there must be something that transpired to that. Sometimes the lady may not just be flowing well in her convos. And boring. It's not encouraging

jaybee3:


To be honest my objection is with the "Nothing like too busy" qualifier statement.

Some people do have genuine reasons to hide under the being busy statement and the onus is on the partner to be accommodating of that fact instead of making all sort of wrong assumptions and over analyzing the statement when he/she could also make the extra effort since the success of the relation is going to benefit them as a couple

Relationship is a two way thing and no one single person should continue making the effort. They need to both create time and work around their busy schedules...end off...

is dere any1 too busy to have @ least one meal in a day??

Mzflexydeeva:
is dere any1 too busy to have @ least one meal in a day??

What has that got to do with relationship challenges?

Are you trying to compare yourself or importance to something that gives him the much needed energy to function as a human being?

Mzflexydeeva:
Relationships are generally perceived as a lot today.
Insecurity, fear, envy, mistrust and even lies are fast taking its roots in a lot of relationships and yet some relationships manage to survive.
The issue of partners suddenly becoming strangers whether it be the guy or the girl is a large factor in crumbling of relationships today.

No matter how tough a guy is or how strong a girl is, there's always some one they melt in their arms. It may have been you but now things are no longer the same......

Been busy is not a crime but I strongly believe there's no such thing as too busy. When you truly care about some1...
A busy person is one who has a lot of things to do with little or no time to spare. But who would still take a minute to check on you. It doesn't take up to 5 mins to type....pretty busy, talk to you later...love U

A guy who has lost interest doesn't call, doesn't text, always making excuses.....

A guy can be really busy with out loosing interest but. When a guy has lost interest it's always glaring.

Ok

jaybee3:

What has that got to do with relationship challenges?

Are you trying to compare yourself or importance to something that gives him the much needed energy to function as a human being?

all I asked was a simple question

Mzflexydeeva:
you can say that again. Worse still is when he adds you've started nagging

This was exactly what he did... He started with "I'm busy" then moved to "all you do is nag" anytime I talked about it. I had to break up eventually though

Tenaj:


This was exactly what he did... He started with "I'm busy" then moved to "all you do is nag" anytime I talked about it. I had to break up eventually though

The signs are always glaring

Mzflexydeeva:

The signs are always glaring

Exactly!