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Help A Rape Victim by ebijimi7(m): 3:50pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
good day nairalanders please I Need each and every ones help I have a girlfriend that was raped some years back thou she was a virgin and was forcefully sexed due to the pain she has Ben scared of sex some times if she is alone she will start crying please how can intake er mind off pain in sex because its making me scared of her and I feel like having sex at times but she doesn't want me to cheat on her and am already lusting after other girls please advice me |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by blaze2cool(m): 3:51pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
humm wait not gud to have sex before marriage na..... |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Nobody: 3:51pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
t |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Cutehector(m): 3:53pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by hidee20(m): 3:57pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by ebijimi7(m): 3:58pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
blaze2cool:she said even if we get married I will drug her to have sex am just fed up |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
hidee20:who die naa? abi y u dey cry? |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
leave her sorry ass,she is playing hard to get! 1 Like |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by blaze2cool(m): 4:01pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
ebijimi7:just train her on the right path make her see u as that special one and make her feel safe around u i know its not easy but if u do it right she will see that grate man who isnt lost after sex alone but her hero |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by shaiba(f): 4:04pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
To help her, that is if you really want to, you have to take your mind of the issue of sex. Can u do that for a friend? Lol Its going to take a lot of talking and therapy sessions (with a trained certified Psychiatrist), she needs someone she can trust, one who could help her come back to the real world. Right now she has a life but not living the life. Also keep her in your prayers. No one is perfect, most times our past teaches us to camouflage and we become masters of shutting out pain, sorrow, heart aches etc. and we become numb to joy, peace and love that surrounds us. I wish you help her as a friend and don't look at what you can get out of it. Could be the reason God made your paths to cross. Just my thoughts anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by highdreez(m): 4:04pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
ebijimi7:Omo,na ur mama head dey help u o...she don get HIV. |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by donholy28(m): 4:04pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Carry her go yabaleft....she get mental |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by chibwike(m): 4:12pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Get married to her |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by MrCork: 4:34pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
ebijimi7: ..bro truss m.... Mrs Chima & Missclassy gots yor bak on this.. they giv the best advise! 1 Like |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
its such a traumatising experience,I feelso bad for her. Please be the Friend she needs,and try to make her understand she has to be willing to heal from the pain. It will take a while but she needs you okay. I like to share my own experiencs though I've never been raped,but I've come close to been raped four whole times at different times,though I escaped of which I'm still wondering how,the fear is still there though I know I'm getting over and still fighting. It was affecting my relationships so at a point with the help of a friend who cares I had to take the bull by the horn. Plz be with her she needs you and forge about sex for now. |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by funlord(m): 5:00pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
All these bloody labe orun storytellers? Those this look like a policeland? See question! |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by AmiLaHoit(f): 5:31pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
Take her to a clinic for counselling. |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by Johnnoah1st: 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
ebijimi7:LET HER SEE A PSYCHOLOGIST. |
Re: Help A Rape Victim by hidee20(m): 9:16pm On Jul 26, 2015 |
prettythicksme: Na my fellow nigga sixth sense.... ...pls,morn with me,will you? |
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