safarigirl:
tenk you. But hold your hug first.

Naija men are the least of my problems, I speak on behalf of the ladies who rate their opinions, some of those girls are actually good people, but naija guys are blinded by the daft girls they meet, unfortunately, most of the daft girls are the ones naija men are interested in.

You guys need to raise your standards, if you encounter a lot of loose, classless girls, then that says a lot of your type of person

safarigirl:
lol....stop feeling like you started something.

I started writing this thread in the afternoon, but couldn't fi ish it due to otherr engagements. Just posted it this evening, but it's been on my mind for a long time. The Malia Obama mumu thread triggered me to write it.

The daftness of Naija men should be legendary. Last year, a thread of Malia surfaced in a crop top and she was slammed, today that dude brought her as a 'role model' to Naija girls for 'simplicity and modesty'....just cuz she was wearing a dress you can't pass through my school gate in.

Btw, dunno how naija girls are the hoes when yankeee babes start kpanshing at 14 and have gullies for va+ginas before 20

DeeMain:


Was digging your beautiful reasoning till I read this. You can't elevate your argument about respecting the Nigerian woman by bringing down women elsewhere. You are helping the men you are attacking reinforce their points about women. You just committed the same offence you were criticizing. And ditch the gutter language and the anger(yes, it shows)-you are more beautiful than that.

lefulefu:

but sister u no go fit blame such guys airing their pains nah.some guys would do everything for a lady only for the lady to stab the guy for back.Just like the story wey dem post for here of a 37 yr old guy getting ready to marry his fiance only for her to dump him coz of a guy that arrived from jand.there are good females though but they are very very minute.even in churches u still hear stories of ladies sleeping around with their pastors under the guise of anointing.a married woman go dey pastor office dey ride pastor like cowgirl while the husband dey house.mind u though na girls wey dey form holy holy na dem even worse pass.only god will help us ooo.

safarigirl:
that is nit a stereotype. That is as much a fact as the 'all women gossip' line.

Show me a man that has not cheated and I will show you a fictional character. Faithful men don't exist, just men who haven't gotten the opportunity tp cheat. Don't worry, no one will hold it against you of you choose to dip your breadstick in another honeypot....well, I won't.

safarigirl:
lol....stop feeling like you started something.

I started writing this thread in the afternoon, but couldn't fi ish it due to otherr engagements. Just posted it this evening, but it's been on my mind for a long time. The Malia Obama mumu thread triggered me to write it.

The daftness of Naija men should be legendary. Last year, a thread of Malia surfaced in a crop top and she was slammed, today that dude brought her as a 'role model' to Naija girls for 'simplicity and modesty'....just cuz she was wearing a dress you can't pass through my school gate in.

Btw, dunno how naija girls are the hoes when yankeee babes start kpanshing at 14 and have gullies for va+ginas before 20

SouffleX:
What I can't for the life of me understand is how they degrade and dehumanize Nigerian women online and then go about chasing us left, right, and center. I mean if you hate something that much shouldn't you stay away from it?

[s]TBH since I joined this site I've become really wary of Nigerian men. [/s]

emusmith:


Seriously, I don't remember saying, Naija gals are "hoes"...You're really taking this too far and personal.

Whoever said that isn't serious because he is gonna marry one.

I mean...be flexible for one, young lady

Rogerz007:

Sis, we av no choice than to manage wat we av got..Half bread is better than NO bread!!!

safarigirl:
that is nit a stereotype. That is as much a fact as the 'all women gossip' line.

Show me a man that has not cheated and I will show you a fictional character. Faithful men don't exist, just men who haven't gotten the opportunity tp cheat. Don't worry, no one will hold it against you of you choose to dip your breadstick in another honeypot....well, I won't.

Hello? It's a stereotype. A man that hasn't cheated is a fictional character? That's an insult to the likes of myself all around the world who has had countless opportunities to cheat on a platter of gold but chose not to. We deserve an apology.

I'm well aware of the fact that a good number of men cheat but hey! women do also if not more.

Rapmoney:
Safarigirl, even if a gun is pointed at me, I will still state it openly that 98% of Nigerian girls the few Nigerian girls you've met in our cities are materialistic and gold-diggers!!! Oya, who e pain, make e go call police! Nansense!!!

Fixed! How many girls have you met or had a thing with in your town not to talk of Nigeria as a whole??

[size=3pt] Deejavuu I don dey use you gather likes oo. [/size]

AgapeCharis:


Fixed! How many girls have you met or had a thing with in your town not to talk of Nigeria as a whole??

[size=3pt] Deeja.vuu I don dey use you gather likes oo. [/size]

safarigirl:
Show me a man that has not cheated and I will show you a fictional character. Faithful men don't exist

safarigirl:
but you've used the other tags; gold-diggers, fake andd materialistic.

In fact, you're one of the propounders of these theories on NL

Deejavuu:




You go carry am go bank. Convert and give me my share.

safarigirl:
nobody is ready to be stewpid for love. What happened to all the girls that hustled with struggling guys? What did they get in return?

I know women who were with men when these men could hardly eat, women who sacrificed their own dreams and ambitions just so these ungrateful cretins called men could complete school and get stable jobs. Do you know what happened to those women? Let me tell you, the period they should have reaped the fruits of their labour, they suddenly became too frumpy, too uneducated, classless, overweight, ugly.....in fact, they were not up to the perceived newly attained 'standards' of such men and were duly replaced by the 'classy' women who fit this standard.

So, tell me, going by the mentality of Naija men, would you think me or any woman wise to stick to a 'struggling' man considering the experiences of others?

safarigirl: I mean, never mind that you've only encountered about 4-9 of such women, I mean, the statistics gathered from all your other 4 friends with similar experiences and the total 16 gold-digging girls you've all encountered is enough proof that over 30million Nigerian women are gold-diggers

AgapeCharis:

safarigirl:
Nigerian women feel the same way about Nigerian men

safarigirl:
sorry, I grew up with men so forgive me if my posts have mannish tendencies, like gutter language once in a while.

If you detect anger in my post, you're reading my post wrong. Using curse words does not always translate to anger. And please, i'm not fighting or trying to defend women. A lot of people mistake my posts for such, I would sooner defend men.

safarigirl:
lol....stop feeling like you started something.

I started writing this thread in the afternoon, but couldn't fi ish it due to otherr engagements. Just posted it this evening, but it's been on my mind for a long time. The Malia Obama mumu thread triggered me to write it.

The daftness of Naija men should be legendary. Last year, a thread of Malia surfaced in a crop top and she was slammed, today that dude brought her as a 'role model' to Naija girls for 'simplicity and modesty'....just cuz she was wearing a dress you can't pass through my school gate in.

Btw, dunno how naija girls are the hoes when yankeee babes start kpanshing at 14 and have gullies for va+ginas before 20

Rapmoney:
Safarigirl, even if a gun is pointed at me, I will still state it openly that 98% of Nigerian girls in our cities are materialistic and gold-diggers!!! Oya, who e pain, make e go call police! Nansense!!!

safarigirl:
that is nit a stereotype. That is as much a fact as the 'all women gossip' line.

Show me a man that has not cheated and I will show you a fictional character. Faithful men don't exist, just men who haven't gotten the opportunity tp cheat. Don't worry, no one will hold it against you of you choose to dip your breadstick in another honeypot....well, I won't.

DeeMain:


Words have syncopation, colour, emotions, tone, meaning and experience. A wise man once said, "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks." Some of us can detect the prevailing emotional state and architecture of a speaker or a writer by studying their words. Anyway, a matter for another day.

I don't like excuses. It smacks of victimhood and helplessness. You can choose how you respond to life. If you want to grow in life, quit excuses. That's a real strength there.

Yes, and there's nothing wrong with defending women. Just do it right.