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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by osimataylor(m): 8:49pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Very few men and the number is insignificant.Most do not care about this. Woged2005: |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Ola2njee: 8:50pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
The way I see it...in fela's words....#Kolo mentality...she's a career woman,she should be respected |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by kennynelcon(m): 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
I oppose it too...at least in Naija |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by passionate88: 8:52pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Coporate Prostitution. So they say. I can't and won't date a female bank marketer... Never (I hope so) |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by vicuto(m): 8:53pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by rexbuton: 8:54pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
wen topics like dis make fp, i just go to sleep! who doesnt know what female marketers do? |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by kennynelcon(m): 8:56pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
donholy28: This is d main reason. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Woged2005:COS FEMALE MARKETERS ARE LIKE LEGAL FEMALE PROSTITUTE AND OUR PARENT DON'T WANT US TO MARRY A PROSTITUTE!! SIMPLE 2 Likes |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
rexbuton:ASHAWO!! |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by 2tek: 9:01pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
If you are a female bank marketer reading this and u are of marriageable age but not married. Kindly know that men are generally afraid of d threat ur career might bring. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by vicuto(m): 9:02pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by zicoraads: 9:02pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Well, I understand their fears. A few years back, I met a marketer in Abuja who had very interesting stories to tell. Apparently, some of the ladies even have rooms in choice hotels around Abuja where potential clients are treated to an unforgettable treat just to get that big account. Still, I don't believe in generalisations. The fact that we have bad eggs in the profession doesn't mean they are all bad. Except the parents are concerned with the time she will be spending away from her family. That being said, I usually frown at parents' practice of trying to force their way on who their children should end up with. They should only play an advisory role. 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
bellong: Rumor is carried out by the enemy , accepted by the fool and propagated by the ignorant . But if you insist that we must adapt to your daft postulation about rumor , should I take it to be true that the rumor about you and your entire family been thieves is correct ( no offense intended ) . Now , to the OP? The truth is that bank marketing job makes women vulnerable to cheap lay by every Tom, Dick and Harry out there . However , the good news is that some morally sound women in the same career path who knows their onus always excel through without exchanging their precious bodies for target meet . It takes a man/woman who knows how and when to set boundary in both personal and professional affairs to be appreciated and respected . In summary , no , enlightened and informed parents do not prohibit their male children from marrying morally sound female bank marketers . A hoe is a hoe irrespective of career path . 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by engrshakespeare: 9:05pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
[quote author=SAMBARRY post=36939320]Some familie. I'm not sorry to say that how can they conclude about bank marketers like that. Didn't their gumshion tell them that all career paths have their own temptations not only marketing Be You a lecturer medical doctor teacher nurse etc mumu, didnt u hear only mature input is needed? dey blow grammar u dont know. wetin be gumshion. ode 2 Likes |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by emmatok(m): 9:09pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Its no generalization, it about trend Its a proved fact that most actresses and entertainers are glorified prostitutes, they even insult each other about it.\ Its also a proven fact that most female bank marketers, are used to get high profile clients . http://www.punchng.com/news/banks-use-female-marketers-to-woo-senators-reps-elect/ http://www.proshareng.com/news/18384 |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by passionate88: 9:10pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
pickabeau1:The past always has a way of spring up in the future |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by BonaVIta(m): 9:12pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Because they don't want their sons to be saving every kobo they have in their wives' banks. And indirectly stop sending them enough money. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Happiness87(f): 9:14pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
op raise cash and start business or get a new job. This is Nigeria, and the citizens know what is up. A man has introduced a lady to his dad, as would -be wife, behold the girl was his dad, sugar baby. another lady now married cries all night because she has to Bleep to get promoted even as a married lady because she got the job fucking one oga, 12years ago as a fresh graduate. got the job through fucking and has been fucking to keep the job |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by limamintruth: 9:16pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Woged2005: Truth be told, the fear expressed by your friend's in-laws-to-be are somwhat justified. And I believe their reasons might be that Bank staffs generally have an strenous daily work routine that often hinders them from having sufficient family time at home. For a man, it may be overlooked. But for a woman, its really difficult to do away with. No man will want to be married to an absentee wife, neither would any in-law like same for his/her son. Secondly, bank marketing jobs place women in such a position that they become so prone to sexual harassment and exploitation. This is a fact that most nigerians are aware of. The Holy book even enjoins us to flee from all appearance of evil, cos no matter how spiritually strong you are, overtime you may fall or become frustrated out of the job. Thirdly, I really dont think bank marketing jobs are worth the stress(esp. for women) IMHO. But nevertheless, I'l suggest you advise your friend to discuss the issue thoroughly with her fiance and do her best to convince him into talking it out with his people on her behalf. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by samblessed: 9:19pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
I can never marry a bank marketer, except she has agreed to quit the job days before our wedding. The reason is simply that, when under pressure from her employers over 'target', she might do d unthinkable. But if i have a strong inner leading to marry her despite her job, why not. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by bigerboy200: 9:21pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Perception is very important.. The parents of d guy must have had first hand experience with female marketers,hence the decision to shield d guy from marrying d lady.....it's left for d guy to try change his parents mind about marketers....as for me sha,i know ladies are often soft targets of sexual exploitation in a professional environment and a job like marketing makes dem much more exposed... |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by AreaFada2: 9:26pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Woged2005:The guy's dad and colleagues may have oiled a few marketers already. It becomes reality for the old man, not just perception. Of course certainly not all marketers sleep around. Some housewives sneak into hotels to sleep with the rich "Alhaji" on their street. We only usually find out when Alhaji dies on top the housewife or vice versa. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
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Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Koolmexxi(m): 9:36pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
It's simply because most female bank marketers use wat they have to market wat they want.... And in the end wat they have becomes used or Belgium products. . 1 Like |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by ojnnaco(m): 9:38pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
bellong:U have said it all.... thanks |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by totorimi: 9:43pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
97% of female bank marketers are glorified prostitutes and I have enough real life stories to buttress my position. Many a banks have realized the power of a woman when it comes to securing those deals. I challenge any female marketer on NL to swear that she has never at any point given in either by way of love or meeting target. I will rather marry a known pro than delude myself thinking I have a saint as a wife who is a female bank marketer. They will do anything for that deposit. God forbid. Even the way they dress of not for dress code in the banks u won't be able to distinguish them from those other ones. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by kenny1313(m): 9:53pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
priscaoge:if you don't cooperate with dis big men who ll listen to you. |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
donholy28: If she meets her targets, she is most likely engaged in frequent fvckery |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by JayJustus(m): 9:54pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
OP...noooooo...Nigerian girls are just plain boring that's why...lol... |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by IYANGBALI: 9:55pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
Female bank marketers na BRT now,dey market all the marketables,including bweast,yansh and toto. I know 2 in my area |
Re: Help:why Do Some Nigerians Oppose Their Son Marrying A Female Bank Marketer? by InvertedHammer: 9:56pm On Aug 14, 2015 |
/ When considering marriage, there are some careers that need to be left alone. Bank marketers? I no marry. \ |
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