Do you know that there are 7 major forms of Divorce in africa?

This is just what I observed and you have the right to add to it, support it or disagree with me, but don't insult anyone here plz.

Let's Zoom:

1. Voluntary or Walk-Away Divorce: the
woman wakes up one day pickup all of her
belonging and checkout of her matrimonial
home and never return back.

CAUSES:

> Maltreatment: The man has probably turn
her into a punching bag or has made life
extremely unbearable for her.

> Lack Of Money: The man lost his Job, has
problem with his business or the man found
himself in a financial mess and can't cope any
more with his family's basic financial need.

> sickness/ Diseases or Physical Challenge:
maybe the man lost his eyes, legs or hand (or
paralysis)to accident of any sort or he
developed a thermal illness and the woman
can't cope with it anymore.

> Friends/Fun: the woman probably has
associated herself with bad friends (cult or
women without husband) and they told her its
slavery to be under a man or She has gotten
herself a sugar Boy/Daddy...


2. Military Or Forceful Divorce: a situation
where by the man forcefully eject the woman
from his house. He doesn't need the consent
of any court of law to do that, he just throw
her things outside and that's all.

CAUSES:

>This is the exact opposite of the first one I
mentioned but the only unique feature of this
form of divorce is that it could be due to

> Barrenness: the woman had no child after so
many years of marriage.

> Male-Child-Syndrome: she didn't give birth
to a male Child...

3. Family Divorce: the family of the man
unilaterally agree to send the woman parking
or the family of the woman comes to pickup
their daughter and never to let her return.

CAUSES:

> Bad character: the woman probably started
playing a strange or funny character after the
wedding that is not in line with their family
believes or standards.

> Stealing: if she's caught stealing then she
must go, that's the way it is in some family
and in the case that the man is discovered to
be a thief or arm robber, the family can come
for their daughter.

> Adultery: she's probably creeping and
sleeping around with other men and she got
finally caught.

> Barrenness/Impotent: the lady couldn't give
the...

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Oyind17:
OK

So what's your position on this?

That No. 1 eh...

passionate88:
That No. 1 eh...

What is it about it?

buchibrand:

What is it about it?

This night, someone came to report to my dad that his wife (not officially married but she stays with him) that ran away with his 8 months old baby girl and left her mobile behind (she went to Aba to visit his mom) . When he switched on the set, a call came in, the caller ID said 'Pastor', he begged a female neighbour to speak with the 'Pastor', after sometime he recognised the caller is someone that his wife and others fetches water in the poultry where he works. The 'Pastor' was telling the 'wife' to come to his house, the girl said her husband is around, the pastor said he will be quick, the girl later agreed, so all the guys friends marched to the poultry and beat up the 'Pastor'.

My brother.. Modern day marriages are scams

passionate88:
This night, someone came to report to my dad that his wife (not officially married but she stays with him) that ran away with his 8 months old baby girl and left her mobile behind (she went to Aba to visit his mom) . When he switched on the set, a call came in, the caller ID said 'Pastor', he begged a female neighbour to speak with the 'Pastor', after sometime he recognised the caller is someone that his wife and others fetches water in the poultry where he works. The 'Pastor' was telling the 'wife' to come to his house, the girl said her husband is around, the pastor said he will be quick, the girl later agreed, so all the guys friends marched to the poultry and beat up the 'Pastor'.

My brother.. Modern day marriages are scams

This is really serious. That is how marriage works in Naija

Have you experienced any of the above, and how do we address the changes it posses to our society?

Divorce doesn't just happen in a day, it starts with little lies, shouting, slapping...and if it goes on that way unchecked, other things will follow.

I 'll only divorce my wife for two reasons

firstking01:
I 'll only divorce my wife for two reasons

Being what and what?

buchibrand:
Being what and what?

Death and adultery.

firstking01:
Death and adultery.

Infidelity is on the rise this days because of the hash economic condition in Nigeria. Most men can no longer provide for the basic need of their home and to that end their wives are rising to the occasion through extra-marital affair