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Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by forandy(m): 7:14am On Aug 16, 2015
All relationships, even the very best, require significant effort. All relationships experience highs and lows. Feelings change and excitement inevitably diminishes somewhat over time. If your relationship has reached a point of uncertainty, follow these five steps to nurse it back to health.

•Initiate an Honest Conversation

The single most important thing you can do to save your relationship is talk. Ask your partner how they’re feeling and what they need. Share your needs with your partner in an honest, non-demanding way. Share your desire to continue life together and your commitment to working toward your future.

•Do the Little Things
Do you remember what it was like when you first met? What little things did you do to make your partner feel good? Did you hand deliver a cup of coffee in the morning? Did you say goodnight at the end of every day? Did you compliment your partner often? Did you deliver flowers or chocolates? These acts of affection and appreciation shouldn’t stop when the relationship becomes comfortable. Make extra effort to show your affection and your partner will remember those raw, uninhibited feelings you once had for each other.

•Give Yourself a Makeover
Just because you have nagged a partner doesn’t mean you don’t need to brush your teeth anymore. Take extra care to nurture your self esteem and your partner’s by putting your best foot forward every day. Present yourself to your partner as if it’s your first date whenever possible. If there are certain characteristics your partner loves, like a certain scent, acquiesce their desires by wearing it often. If you have let yourself go, it’s not too late to put the spring back in your step and take your partner by surprise.

•Re-establish Boundaries
While  the “no boundaries” movement is in full swing, there are some boundaries that are vital for a fiery relationship. You might be comfortable using the bathroom in front of your SO, but the fact of the matter is it turns a passionate relationship into a business partnership fast. If you want to bring the spark back to your relationship, limit nudity to intimate times and keep bodily functions behind closed doors where they belong. Don’t discuss everything with your partner; mysteriousness is exciting. Leave a little to the imagination.Even if you have crossed these lines a million times, redraw the line when you are working to save your relationship and respect the boundary. Your partner will notice.

•Evaluate Your Expectations
Many times, relationships fail because one or both partners have unreachable expectations. Disappointment can only result when your expectationsare too high. Chances are that if you expect your partner to change your expectations are most likely unachievable. If you expect your partner to clean up after themselves 100% of time and you’ve chosen an untidy partner, that might be an expectation you can letgo of to save your relationship. If you expect your partner to give you all of their time, your expectation could be leading to your disappointment. Evaluate your role in the issues that have led to this point.Keep in mind if you are in a relationship that involves abuse or criminal activity, it may be okay to let go and move on.

However, if you’re in a healthy relationship that has veered off track, these five tips can help you come back together and move forward.  kiss kiss kiss
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by 1miccza: 7:17am On Aug 16, 2015
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Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by Nobody: 7:31am On Aug 16, 2015
We af ear ke, Thanchu
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by ibe9ja: 7:40am On Aug 16, 2015
6. Get Money
If there was no money in the relationship, no need to nurse am back to health. Instead give am otapiapia.
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by forandy(m): 2:24pm On Aug 16, 2015
Lizzylobito:
We af ear ke, Thanchu
Yarr Wehkom kiss
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by Chidexter(m): 2:26pm On Aug 16, 2015
Everyone seems to be a teacher on Nairaland.

Today, five ways to do this, 2moro 10 tips on that.

I'm still waiting for thread on Five ways to bath, or 10 ways to sleep.
Mtxheeew undecided
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by forandy(m): 2:28pm On Aug 16, 2015
ibe9ja:
6. Get Money
If there was no money in the relationship, no need to nurse am back to health. Instead give am otapiapia.

 LOL. .walahi! grin cheesy

Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by forandy(m): 2:29pm On Aug 16, 2015
Chidexter:
Everyone seems to be a teacher on Nairaland.

Today, five ways to do this, 2moro 10 tips on that.

I'm still waiting for thread on Five ways to bath, or 10 ways to sleep.
Mtxheeew undecided

Ermmm...teaching and informing are different sha wink 
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by Chidexter(m): 2:34pm On Aug 16, 2015
forandy:


Ermmm...teaching and informing are different sha wink 

Still depends on how its disseminated
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by tinybodyMary: 4:52pm On Aug 16, 2015
Thank you..rili nid dat sad
Re: Five Tips To Nurse Your Relationship Back To Good Health by forandy(m): 7:11pm On Aug 16, 2015
tinybodyMary:
Thank you..rili nid dat sad


Awww. .you're welcome, hope it works for you

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