I was recently transferred from PH to Imo State, being my hometown, by my company. I stay in my family house for now, pending my readiness to find a house outside. My fiancee, having being known and accepted by my mother and siblings, usually comes from school to spend the weekend with us.
Albinitio, she usually sleep in another room, as an instruction from my mum, since we have not yet gotten married. At some point, out of my fiancee's desperation and eagerness, things changed and before i could know it, she has started sleeping with me in my room, which my Mum earlier ignored and the trend continues.
One evening, My mum called and sat me down, cautioned me seriously never to allow such act to happen again, as long as she's still alive and under the same roof with me.
Two days later, i passed the information to my fiancee and pleaded with her to see reasons with me on the the development. surprisingly she kicked against it totally and threatened never to visit my house again, that even if she is to come, she will come and go back that same day. And she has been maintaining that declaration till date,and i kept mute about it.
Prior to toady, we agreed to spend the weekend together, but should be in her school. Today, some kind of thoughts flashed through my mind which made me to start asking myself how foolish i have been by dancing to this girl's tune. I had to call her on phone and threatened never to visit her in her school this weekend, instead, she should be the one to visit. she flared up and started saying that she dare not come if she's not sleeping with me in my room, that she is fine even if i decide not to come again.
And my Mum has already started noticing her scarcity in the house, probably suspecting that her absence could be as a result of her earlier warning.
My people, please judge me, my mum and equally my fiancee. Am i truly exhibiting the mumy's-boy attitude as she called me, or am i right in supporting my mum?

Grow up and take charge of ur life! She is doing notin wrong, just fixed the situation ursef, I believe u know what 2 do! Best of luck!

Your mum is a morally upright person. Stick with her. Your fiancee has no regard for your mum and that's bad.

Guy I totally understand you..but your mum is right... it's her husband's house, so she can dictate how and what she wants....you are a man, why can't u go and rent a small room for privacy sake.....ur gf isn't wrong...she wants to be with you cos she loves you. you need to be a man

Your mum is right.

But why did you agree to visit your girl and later say you won't ? Men do not behave that way with girls. They will stop trusting your word.

Most women are children..

That ur babe nor get shame 4 body at all. Its so obvious she's gonna b d boss of d house if u eventually get married 2 her,since she can't even obey ur mom on something as little as dis. My guy think twice ooo

first
you are a momma's boy(man)

scream all u want about ur girlfriend not listening to ur mom....... but she knows what she wants and she isnt afraid to do what it takes to get it....

you on the other hand, are a sissy who keeps going back and forth regarding what you desire.

u no know about morals d time wey she dey caress ur bushy chest hair bed abi?

Her roof her rules...sort urself out man...friction between both of them now is not good..get an apartment asap..and love both women unconditionally..ur not a mama's boy..

You did no wrong by listing to your mum here, but that your babe na the type that will not do things you way but her way so be careful

She is a hoe!

i'm sorry i have no reasonable contribution to add to this thread,so i'll just observe

She already decided on not sleeping over if she is to sleep in a different room, SO BE IT, Let it rest at that. She respects your decision you do so for her's.

Although I see no reason why your gf should pick offence over such a minute issue, more especially when it is your family house.
I believe with time, she might reconsider her stance, who knows?

Akuneshiobike:
I was recently transferred from PH to Imo State, being my hometown, by my company. I stay in my family house for now, pending my readiness to find a house outside. My fiancee, having being known and accepted by my mother and siblings, usually comes from school to spend the weekend with us.
Albinitio, she usually sleep in another room, as an instruction from my mum, since we have not yet gotten married. At some point, out of my fiancee's desperation and eagerness, things changed and before i could know it, she has started sleeping with me in my room, which my Mum earlier ignored and the trend continues.
One evening, My mum called and sat me down, cautioned me seriously never to allow such act to happen again, as long as she's still alive and under the same roof with me.
Two days later, i passed the information to my fiancee and pleaded with her to see reasons with me on the the development. surprisingly she kicked against it totally and threatened never to visit my house again, that even if she is to come, she will come and go back that same day. And she has been maintaining that declaration till date,and i kept mute about it.
Prior to toady, we agreed to spend the weekend together, but should be in her school. Today, some kind of thoughts flashed through my mind which made me to start asking myself how foolish i have been by dancing to this girl's tune. I had to call her on phone and threatened never to visit her in her school this weekend, instead, she should be the one to visit. she flared up and started saying that she dare not come if she's not sleeping with me in my room, that she is fine even if i decide not to come again.
And my Mum has already started noticing her scarcity in the house, probably suspecting that her absence could be as a result of her earlier warning.
My people, please judge me, my mum and equally my fiancee. Am i truly exhibiting the mumy's-boy attitude as she called me, or am i right in supporting my mum?

Ugo C. Ugo

u nd ur fiance na werey!

nd y u go dey carry am come ur house since una no wan nack?