kiddkash:
just suck it up and show her that pretty face
coa trust me payback always is a b*itch don't let him see it coming

jonaifame22:
men I'm trying hard to deal wth dis

AfricanApple:
the best thing to do now is to just go and kill yourself.

Cutehector:
Does ur sister knw dat d man she wants to marry is d soldier dat teated u like an animal? Pls let her knw how cruel d man she wants to marry is....

Juxtified:
Which word of encouragement do you need? Soldiers are known to be strict disciplinarians, so he must have punished you for a reason (which you conveniently left out).
For all I care you're the one who should apologise to the soldier.

shaiba:
Sometimes its difficult to actually forgive painful experiences, but when u eventually do truly forgive it makes you a better person and free of bitterness, even a happier person.

First it was an NYSC experience and u should thank God you came out alive. Forget what happened.

Your sister's happiness should be priority. Put hate aside and see him as a fellow man and not a soldier in the camp. You die gradually when you hate someone but live longer when you share love.

You never know, you might have things in common and help each other in the future.

God Never makes mistakes when it comes to people crossing each other's paths.

My thoughts though. I wish your sister a happy married life.

StPete:
Well….

I feel thats a warning signal you should not ignore.

That man might end up treating your sister far worse if they end up in a challenging situation.

Some soldiers ‘over do’ things and this is one of such example.

Explain the situation to your sister and let her understand things for herself

RuthlessAnalyst:
Let BYGONE be BYGONE...
as Long as your Sister is Happy with Him..that Should be Your Priority

therealdeal10:
Woooww wat a coincidence

What goes around cums around
D best tin 2 do is jst leave d man, he's nt wat ur attention, i'm pretty sure his conscience wuld b hitting him hard cuz ur sis wuld neva let d man go jst bcus of a punishment e gv u.

Jst suck it in. Sorry

jonaifame22:
men, nawa o,I just hope he doesn't become mean to my sister or their children when they start bearing kids,if I had my way I'll have stopped the wedding but right now preparation is in top gear

RuthlessAnalyst:


You Just have to be prepared for Anything.
Marriage comes with it's High and Low Points.
It is possible the Guy will not extend his Iron-Handed Soldier behaviour on Your Sister or Her Kid as He did on You.

BTW, what was the offence that prompted
Him pronouncing such inhuman punishment on You in the first place?

donholy28:
Only God knows what d heartless man will do to ur sis...bros tell her o

jonaifame22:
thanks for ur advice

jonaifame22:
I will ooo,that guy is a beast,I don't look further to see the anti-christ,I have seen one in that man,if it's takes me goin spiritual I'll do it just to rid that man off my sister