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Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by pickabeau1: 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
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Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
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Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Cutehector(m): 8:43pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
She may ask a guy out, but proposin to him is a no no... 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by ladyF(f): 8:44pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Propose to a man ke? U will become the breadwinner lol. She shouldn't o. If he loved her enough, he should be the one proposing. Else he not just that into you!! Move on! 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Cutehector(m): 8:45pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ladyF:its amazing u'v quit displayin ur ridiculous signature 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by SUGARBEE(f): 8:49pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Well on a normal day, I don't really think it's a bad idea, that's if your boyfriend is an Introvert but if he's not and he's a bold and responsible guy but still hasn't proprosed then I think it would be a waste of time cuz he might just be using the lady to past time pickabeau1: |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Hmm. Let d women answer this |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by edwife(f): 8:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Nah,not for me. I love being a woman in every form of the word beside i might be a modern woman but still old school. Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by pickabeau1: 8:57pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
edwife: Did u notice this line from her response... hating having to wait on the man to determine the course of the relationship funny it reminded me of freecocoa...
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Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by pickabeau1: 8:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
edwife Corrected Therefore a man shall be pulled by his wife to leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. what a man can do... |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by edwife(f): 9:03pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I have watched a reality show where a woman dated the man for 7 years and decided to propose because he wasn't. Gosh i don't wanna be in that position,the guy didn't just let her know that he wanted it that way but he believed that she was on the same page with him,because she never brought up the discussion about them getting hitched. She had no option than to break up with him.For me it's simple really,put a time frame to the years you can date someone and if the time expires,discuss with them from there you can easily know the next step to take. Would love to read from frecocoa....it will be interesting. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by HDee(m): 9:03pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
why not |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by pickabeau1: 9:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
edwife: Interesting..why all the formality... we are equal afterall... but this story begs another question Why bother with a name and a ring These are modern times.. Do modern women need an 'archaic' institution to feel fulfilled |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by lilmax(m): 9:07pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
The question is what happens even after proposing? Rent a house and then bring the man in another joke |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
According to Nollywood, Women propose all the time . . . .they are just subtle about it Babe when will you meet my parents Babe what are your plans for me Babe I hope you are not wasting my time All equal indirect proposal 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by edwife(f): 9:14pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I don't know for others but for me it is necessary,who doesn't want to be the queen of her own castle? I know i want. |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by pickabeau1: 9:16pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
edwife: Lol Why must a woman be queen She can be king Na... A queen is still by a king... tearoses: Or get preggers... |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by edwife(f): 9:17pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Hahahaha lol |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Hmm, u know its not only in africa but all arounbd d world, its frowned upon. But its not illegal/prohibited I guess. So folks do it and it works for them, but I don't think I can |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by MizMyColi(f): 9:37pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Hands down. Feet down. It's a Big NO NO. |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by limamintruth: 9:41pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
If she feels like doing so, why not? She is free as air to express her feelings to anyone she deems fit whether male or female. Thats the beauty of 'FREEDOM' I guess. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by donephi(m): 9:56pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
MizMyColi: No No? Do we still have people of the medieval period I guess you dnt belong there. What's your turnoff as regards that? Hi mizmycoli How did your day come? |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by MizMyColi(f): 10:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
donephi: Not bad at all. Thanks. Yours? Well, I do not support the idea. If he loves me enough to wanna make a life with me, then he should do so formally. He is supposed to lead me, right? Abi, is it my surname the children will bear See, I don't support this idea of ladies asking guys out or going out of their way to prove themselves. It is good for a lady to maintain her lane, and see how serious the guy is. Then she can now bring herself to love up on him. If he shows signs of manipulation or unseriousness.... NEXT!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by donephi(m): 10:15pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Personally I do not see any problem with that except in a situation where the dude shows reasons where if u venture in that act, u loose ur dignity in his eyes. And again what happens to introverts like us who find it difficult to air their views when it has to do with the hrt. For some of us when a woman does that, she earns more respect from us, not to say she becomes the man in the relationship "NO NO" Rather her opinions are held in high esteem. |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by freecocoa(f): 10:16pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I don't see why not, women propose to men all the time, they just don't know it, the fact that they don't usually go on bended knee to do it, doesn't mean they don't initiate it. Before a lady even gets the proposal, it's usually already clear where the relationship is headed most times, so I don't see what difference it makes who proposes. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by cococandy(f): 10:17pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Obviously it depends on the man in question. After dating him for a while, you'd know if he's the type to be put off by such things or not. Needless to say it would be foolhardy to propose to guy who you know isn't open to such. But if you're not sure, then putting it out there is better than hanging in limbo without knowing where the relationship is going. If he says no, what's left to do than move onto the next person. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by freecocoa(f): 10:20pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
pickabeau1:Why does it remind you of me oga pick? |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by freecocoa(f): 10:22pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
cococandy:I think if he can be put off by such, then he is not the one. That's for women like myself anyways. |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by MizMyColi(f): 10:26pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by donephi(m): 10:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
freecocoa: Are there men of such? Well then there is more to it than just that. |
Re: Should A Woman Propose To A Man...thoughts? by freecocoa(f): 10:30pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
donephi:Exactly. I don't see why a man who loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, will suddenly lose interest because you asked him to marry you, which is what you both want. 2 Likes |
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