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She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 7:47pm On Mar 27, 2009
peep this
Re: She Needs Space by spikedcylinder: 7:47pm On Mar 27, 2009
Huh?
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 7:49pm On Mar 27, 2009
What the hell I can't even modify my original post

What does a woman really mean when she says she needs space?
Re: She Needs Space by spikedcylinder: 7:50pm On Mar 27, 2009
It means she's tired of the relationship.
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 7:52pm On Mar 27, 2009
Well then I think that's a coward's way of breaking up with someone.
Re: She Needs Space by ThoniaSlim(f): 7:53pm On Mar 27, 2009
It could mean different things depending on what she's trying to get at.

It could mean she just needs some time alone to figure out things.

It could mean she's tired of the relationship and looking for a way out.

it could mean she finds you too possessive and needs to have her own personal time alone.  it could mean a lot of things.

SO the best thing is to try and figure out what angle she's coming from.
Re: She Needs Space by Nobody: 7:56pm On Mar 27, 2009
ThoniaSlim:

It could mean different things depending on what she's trying to get at.

It could mean she just needs some time alone to figure out things.

It could mean she's tired of the relationship and looking for a way out.

it could mean she finds you too possessive and needs to have her own personal time alone. it could mean a lot of things.

SO the best thing is to try and figure out what angle she's coming from.
Exactly.
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 7:59pm On Mar 27, 2009
To the dudes

In all honesty, I think if a woman ever gives you that line, do not wait around for her to come back. If she doesn't give you a reason or an explanation as to what is going on, she is just testing the waters or fooling around with someone else. Give her that space and start going out with your friends or dating other women to get your mind off her. If she comes back later and decides that she wants the space to be permanent, at least you would have an easier time moving on with your life.
Re: She Needs Space by omega25red(m): 8:48pm On Mar 27, 2009
ThoniaSlim:

It could mean different things depending on what she's trying to get at.

It could mean she just needs some time alone to figure out things.

It could mean she's tired of the relationship and looking for a way out.

it could mean she finds you too possessive and needs to have her own personal time alone. it could mean a lot of things.

SO the best thing is to try and figure out what angle she's coming from.

I agree but usually it means she's found someone she likes and she wants to see if it would work out before she breaks up with you.
Re: She Needs Space by spikedcylinder: 8:53pm On Mar 27, 2009
C2H5OH:

Well then I think that's a coward's way of breaking up with someone.

Not everyone can be brave enough to tell a dude to f,uck off.
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 8:59pm On Mar 27, 2009
spikedcylinder:

Not everyone can be brave enough to tell a dude to f,uck off.
The guy is not a toy. He has feelings too.
Re: She Needs Space by iice(f): 6:38pm On Mar 28, 2009
Could mean anything to anyone.
For me it means. . .yes space, the dude must be crowding me angry
Re: She Needs Space by mccloud224(m): 9:36pm On Mar 28, 2009
When a woman tells you she needs space it's :

(1)She's tired of you (you're probably boring her to death or too needy)
(2)She feels you aren't man enough for her
(3)She wants to check out her "options"

Either way, when a lady says that, its the end of the relationship unless the guy involved has no self pride e.g she goes out with a few guys and comes back saying she made a mistake,she misses you, bla bla bla.

Well, you can't blame women for that.We are animals (except for the fact we can think) and in the animal world, the female prefers the stronger male out of the bunch.If she feels you don't "fit" her, then she needs some "space".

Don't you just love civilization, lol
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 9:40pm On Mar 28, 2009
hahaha yes I fucking love civilization. Everything you outlined makes so much sensei
Re: She Needs Space by mccloud224(m): 9:44pm On Mar 28, 2009
Did this happen to you or you're just free styling?
Re: She Needs Space by C2H5OH(f): 9:53pm On Mar 28, 2009
Freestyling. But I hear about it a lot. I like to equip myself with the right weapons, just in case.
Re: She Needs Space by Cristalz(f): 10:12pm On Mar 28, 2009
Well then, if a girl says she needs space, simply ask her to break it down and tell you in what context she means it, right?

Only sensible thing to do. . .better than quietly replying ''Ok, honey'' , then rushing off to your guys to try decode what she meant. Only her can tell you what she means, so get it out of her the second she makes the statement. Even if she is reluctant to spell it out so as not to hurt your feelings, you should at least be able to get a hint of her true meaning from her explanation.

Again, don't leave without getting answers.

Will save y'all a lot of grief, guys grin

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