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Should I Assist Her? by Gflat: 4:38pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Guys I really don't know what to here. The girl in question is my ex(yes,I know exes are past tense and all that) When we were dating back then, she did a lot of help to me even When I lost my dad she was there for me. She really assisted me. This girl celebrated my 21st birthday for me with her house rent. I really would admit she was the best thing that happened to me. We broke up because she was caught cheating on me(after dating for 5years). Now for months we haven't had any communication, though she calls but I sometimes ignore her calls then she stopped calling 2months ago. Today she called me(after 2months of no communication) and asked for my assistance...she begged me that she is broke, that I should please assist her. As a very sharp guy, I laughed in my mind and I was like "shey na me this one wan scam abi, so her bf don turn broke ass nigga?" But really guys, I thought about what she did for me, she helped me out while I was still in school (she gave me her school fees when I wanted to get a laptop for my project. Almost 80k) Guys please advice me...I really am confused, should I help her out or "bone" She really did break my heart,but she was a helper in my time of troubles |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by sirbegojay(m): 4:40pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Itz mella |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Gflat: 4:42pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
sirbegojay:You should know when people are serious |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by IGLE25(m): 4:43pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Bro just do your best to help her. It is hard to forget what she did but still assist her... I had similar experience too each time I remembered it I feel bad... Just assist her in your little way.... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by olafum1(m): 4:44pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
maybe |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by demmy0325(m): 4:45pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
.. If in truth she did all those things.. Then help her bro even if she takes u for a fool.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
What kind af help do you need? - To assist you financially (which is not possible) - To advice you to go and borrow on her behalf ( since we don't know if you can handle whatever AMT she needs without it telling on ya) OR - Advice you to shut your eyes on someone you are capable af helping If your purse weighs enough to handle her situation At your age sir, I feel you should be able to take rational decisions by yourself. Don't you think? 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Gflat: 4:46pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Ladies, what do you think |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by 4reala(m): 4:48pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Wish kain scam u dey talk abt. Abeg help d girl jawe |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by donholy28(m): 4:48pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
help her joor |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by olafum1(m): 4:49pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Maybe |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Guy, Bone the babe abeg! |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by UncleJudax(m): 4:53pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
I am sure you know what you want to do. Unless you want people here to contribute in a fundraising scheme, just do your thing already Did I mention that you should not attach importance or emotion to the assistance? I just did |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
she did all these for u and still left you! do u knw why? she really loves u but u dont know how to make her feel like a woman. you dont knw how to phuck and not very many ladies can take that nonsense. learn how to phuck well and u might get bacq a gal who would be loyal to u. how much is she asking for? is it upto 100k? if u ve d bar, give d baby... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Gflat:lol |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Gflat, the man with unending woman palava 1 Like |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by infotainment(m): 5:00pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Bros help her with what ever u can afford, she has sowwd into your life at a time,pls kindly sow back into hers |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Mznaett: 5:02pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Help that babe jor my brother |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by vani86: 5:04pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
help her if she did those things. you never know when you may need her, she seems like a nice person though she bleeped up by cheating on you. even nice peeps have their moment of weakness 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Look, forget about whether she was your girlfriend or not, or whether the both of you were once in a relationship The fact is this. . . She is a friend who helped you when you were in need. That's all that matters. So baring that in mind, if you have the means, you should help her, because she helped you when you were in need. Simple |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by ifeoluwasegun(m): 5:19pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
See her as your neighbour, so what you can afford to do to a neighbour, do just that WILLINGLY... ...and not expect a reward! |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Gflat: 5:20pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
firstEVA: I guess it is because of my soft heart |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Gflat: I Think you should help her Do it to show you've moved on and besides one good turn deserves another Heck the way this girl looked out for you homie it wont be a bad idea if U guys got together (But thats another gist entirely) |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Gflat: 5:22pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
misssclassy: Thanks, I will try help her out |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Gflat:then u should get a heart surgery asap. |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by 7footre(m): 7:26pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
You mean that girl gave you her school fees to buy laptop and still used her house rent to celebrate your birthday? I mean people actually do that If I was in your shoes, God knows i'll do whatever it is she is asking for ex or no ex 1 Like |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Macgreat(m): 7:47pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Program start
1 she calls you
2 you received call
3 she ask for assistance
4 you recall her previous did (the good)
5 Open a thread on nairaland
6 receive nairawords
7 call her and give money
8 she received money (exactly)
9 if she make habit of it
10 goto step 1(repeat)
11 if she doesn't
12 end program Assist her but watch out else it becomes an habit - |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Please Op, help her but do it through her account Number. |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by AfroKnight: 7:51pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
Bro normally I would say no but this babe is more than qualified for your help. Kindly assist her. I dare say she is even qualified to make you her maga for at least 6 months. (kidding) But seriously You owe her a lot. |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by Macgreat(m): 7:52pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
^^right ^cool |
Re: Should I Assist Her? by donMIG(m): 8:09pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
WHAT DO U NEED THE MONEY FOR? If she yan reasonable tin then u ask HOW MUCH DO U NEED? If e pass ur power u tell her plain I NO GET THAT AMOUNT BUT I WILL GIVE U MAYBE QUARTER OR HALF THEN UR BF CAN COMPLETE THE BALANCE THAT'S WHAT I CALL HELP WITH A LITTLE TOUCH OF REVENGE Bottom line Help her n show r d kind of guy wei she miss out on.ok? |
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