Good day to you all, I just finished my courtship of 7months, and she (my-wife-to-be) came up with a story that her Big pastor is asking her out and inviting her to a guest house, and also threatening her with spiritual attack if she does not comply.

she told me before that she has gone to the man for financial assistance, that was before we started, she also said she intentionally stopped coming to some of the church meetings just to aviod having contact with him and for a while he has not called her.

When I heard of it, I shun her and ask her to stop speaking evil of a man of God, because the Pastor is a BIG pastor that has other pastors under him and one of the pastors under him is her location pastor. But I had a feeling that she might be correct.

just last week, as we were preparing for our traditional engagement, she came accross the pastor in one of the church meetings and the pastor decide to pick her number again, and since then, the pastor has bin calling her to come over to a guest house, to come and let him show her his new house that he jst packed him. When he sees that she was not forth coming, the pastor decide to threatened her by saying he is going to deal with her down spiritually.

Pls NL, i dont know who is saying the truth, i trust my wife to be but each time i think about this i doubt her on this, she said after some church service that pastor do ask her to wait, and usually drop her off at her junction, gives her gifts a-times. The high possition the man is occuping, I dont think the pastor can go to such extend, he is in charge of a region/or group of churchs and other pastors reports to him. What should i do now? report him or tell my wife to be to stop taking his calls, but the issue is more than just reporting or stop taking his calls.

What kind of dumb fiance r u?



Mtchew

Why would your fiancee lie?

Op u said u trust ur wife but u don't know who is telling the truth

I think u r confused

Nd y would she lie, dere is no smoke without fire

This op na mumu...u are doubting her which means u trust ur pastor more than ur wife...I think u should just marry your pastor..

Report him n also tell ur wife 2 b, 2 try n avoid him at all cost

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Cutehector:
What kind of dumb fiance r u?



Mtchew

lol... Dumb the dumber. That girl better not marry such a man. Else she will regret it. How can this be happening yet he can't fight nor protect what's his? Na wa o. Water leaf!

When would we Nigerians stop been too f**king religious? I hate it when some folks allow their pastor to have possession of their life's. Most of those pastors are f**kers n are full of sh*t.

Yawn

So cant she change her church or what. Is she enjoying the molestation........and nobody can attack her spiritually.

She should ignore the pastor and you guys should face your lives.

what is the name /denomination of the church? if u can answer it, I will advice u

Your first mistake is you believing a senior pastor cannot be fetish or adulterous.
I smell lies in your fiancee's tales. She had had sex with him.... he wants to continue but she feels reluctant to continue eventhough she doesn't mind, she's scared of losing you because she knows he is not real...... my view!

Here we go again with another kid getting married.

I really appreciate all your critics and comments. thx, but I want to formerly report him to the Overal pastor and The elders in the marriage team because he promised to deal with her spiritually if she refuses to come to the guest house with him, but my wife to be is against it my move. I asked why, she said because of shame, and other things like. that is why I started doubting her. pls advice me. i dont want to make mistake.

If you don't trust or believe your fiancee can you/will you be brave enough to report the pastor?

The story may turn around to be that she seduced him I hope you are strong enough for that. This story can go any way for this reason she may not be willing to go public after the storm she may also feel too self conscious to keep coming to same church at the same time if you feel disturbed and distrustful you have to investigate further to satisfy yourself, this may taint your relationship so it's a handle with care thing.

I only wonder why you don't trust someone who is to have your back hopefully for the rest of your life.

Whatever you decide to do I hope you guys talk it out and come up with a best way forward for your relationship.

@OP.

you mean to say that you trust a pastor over your wife2be just because he his BIG and has plenty apprentice working under him in his company.

your girl is crying out to you and pointing out your enemy but you are here asking us questions rather than going to the pastor and telling him to bless your marriage.

the way u express your belief in pastors... u seem like the type who would disgrace his wife or mother if the pastor says she is a witch.

I wish ur wife to be would see this your yeye talk.

2sex:
lol... Dumb the dumber. That girl better not marry such a man. Else she will regret it. How can this be happening yet he can't fight nor protect what's his? Na wa o. Water leaf!

hahaahahaha.
come... you dey crayse oh.

whixh one be water leaf again?

see as u wan use laff kill me this evening.

i no like am oh.. hahaha.

xpirence:
I really appreciate all your critics and comments. thx, but I want to formerly report him to the Overal pastor and The elders in the marriage team because he promised to deal with her spiritually if she refuses to come to the guest house with him, but my wife to be is against it my move. I asked why, she said because of shame, and other things like. that is why I started doubting her. pls advice me. i dont want to make mistake.

Report who?
Nigga man up and talk to the pastor
Look that mùthafùcka dead in the eye and give him a piece of your mind
Na wa for men of nowadays sef
No wonder the women run things these days

xpirence:
Good day to you all, I just finished my courtship of 7months, and she (my-wife-to-be) came up with a story that her Big pastor is asking her out and inviting her to a guest house, and also threatening her with spiritual attack if she does not comply.

when im done laughing at this part i will come back and read the rest

Cutehector:
What kind of dumb fiance r u?


Mtchew

Hehe... Op tell me something else, or u think because u mentioned church and pastor i'll buy this your script? Nope! Pastor ko, Usher ni ...
U can do better than this johr, weak guy who's afraid of a mere man (pastor) who has being dinning in the same pusssy with him .

I swear as I dey type this thing I dey boil for inside, y are some people behave daft as in real daft. Ur pastor is not God and might be in that pastor business for many things and never trust a man like u cos u dont knw wat they do when they re alone. Guu quit that church run as far away as u can with ur gf from that church and plis stop being colonized by pastors, they re not worth it cos at the end of the day a drunkard is holier than most of them.

Op, be wise. Take nothing for granted. A very respected pastor In my mothers church was making sexual advances at my younger sister, she reported to me. to avoid destroying his marriage, I didn't report to the church. Unto bad guy wey I be,I give am slap wey blind him ear,then warn am sternly. If him try am again, him go see himself and his paedophilic messages on AIT

You need to talk to that man.


Cc Lalasticlala

I think there is more to her story. When u probe further u will discovered that she is hidden lies under d truth.

aprilwise:
I think there is more to her story. When u probe further u will discovered that she is hidden lies under d truth.

thx all, hmmmm can you imagine, am watching things like i dont knw what to do, I made effort to get the details and the contact of the Man (pastor) but my woman refused blontly and told me not to disturb myself. I am so amzed, just watching lying dog. what do u hav to say to this

xpirence:


thx all, hmmmm can you imagine, am watching things like i dont knw what to do, I made effort to get the details and the contact of the Man (pastor) but my woman refused blontly and told me not to disturb myself. I am so amzed, just watching lying dog. what do u hav to say to this

Why doesn't she want to give you his contact? I could be wrong, but I think your fiancé is hiding something from you because she doesn't want you to report him and she's not giving you his contact (she fears you will confront him). Why would she allow a pastor to control her life like a puppet? Which real man of God threatens to deal with peoe spiritually?

That businessman (pastor) is not a genuine man of God. And there is something that has been going on...

Hehe

You are sounding slow minded. Can't you verify any of her claims ? Tell your fiancee to call the pastor in your presence and let her place it on speaker phone and recording. " Pastor, I called you to greet you, how is madam and family ? How was your day sir. ?". Then you can listen to where the pastor will steer his conversation to.

You do not have any issue. Than stop being dumb.

johnnystacks:
Op, be wise. Take nothing for granted. A very respected pastor In my mothers church was making sexual advances at my younger sister, she reported to me. to avoid destroying his marriage, I didn't report to the church. Unto bad guy wey I be,I give am slap wey blind him ear,then warn am sternly. If him try am again, him go see himself and his paedophilic messages on AIT

What happened with AIT ?

xpirence:


thx all, hmmmm can you imagine, am watching things like i dont knw what to do, I made effort to get the details and the contact of the Man (pastor) but my woman refused blontly and told me not to disturb myself. I am so amzed, just watching lying dog. what do u hav to say to this

Your girl be snake o. Ask her why she reported to you if she does not want you to intervene. ? Smh.

Any woman who keeps you in the dark is dangerous.