The reason so many marriages fail is that people make the wrong choices then realize later that they made a mistake.

In order to make sure your marriage goes right you need to avoid the mistake of making the wrong choice from the beginning. So how is the right choice connected to time?

There are two extremely important things you need to do in order to make the right choice. The first is to understand yourself perfectly. You might wonder what does self understanding has to do with marriage but when you know how important you are, you will realize that ignoring it is a fatal mistake.

Lets suppose freedom was extremely important for a girl and that she was not aware of that fact. She just found herself unhappy in desk jobs or whenever she had fixed schedules without knowing why.

Now what if she never understood this fact then married someone who placed very tight restrictions on her. In such a case she won't be able to take it anymore and she will become unhappy in her marriage even if she was not aware of the reasons.

That was a simple example but in real life more than one factor would trouble a marriage and those factors would come tangled together that it would be impossible for a person who lacks self understanding to understand what's going on or why he is unhappy.

After your reach a satisfactory level of self understanding you will know exactly what you are looking for. You won't get emotional without understanding what's going on simply because you will be aware of your needs. Yes you will fall in love but this will only happen when you find what you want exactly.

Its only when you become aware of the items in your unconscious criteria that you will be able to make the right choice.

So what is the right time for marriage?
When you find that right person no matter how old you are.


Source: https://www.facebook.com/forum9ja/posts/945102088884925?notif_t=like

Marriage is a function of maturity, not age. Don't be deceived.

When God says it right through many signs and necessary achievement.

Simply put...
When your whole self is RIGHT!






Anyway, TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!

in d fullness of time!