EnlightenedSoul:


With all you're trying to say, it neither equates nor computes in all honesty.

Answer the gaddam question, girl.

Sagamite:


What do you understand by the terms "pervert" and "freak"?

Form this context .. He was salivating at the feminist package and he knew it. That's why he used the political correct tone.

However, as a married man for over 30 yrs.. People in society will see him as responsible old man.. But when caught with a young maiden, he becomes a freaky old man wey no wan old.. You know there are certain things you can do with a 27yr old that you can't do with a 60yr old.. Bend over and touch your toes comes to mind...Hehehe

Sagamite:


Answer the gaddam question, girl.

Alright, I'm off.

GooseBaba:


Form this context .. He was salivating at the feminist package and he knew it. That's why he used the political correct tone.

However, as a married man for over 30 yrs.. People in society will see him as responsible old man.. But when caught with a young maiden, he becomes a freaky old man wey no wan old.. You know there are certain things you can do with a 27yr old that you can't do with a 60yr old.. Bend over and touch your toes comes to mind...Hehehe

Did you check your dictionary for what freaky means before responding to me?

I am assuming your face is still buried in it trying to explain to me why he is a pervert?


https://www.nairaland.com/2554667/man-murdered-behind-house-graphic/4#37565815

EnlightenedSoul:


Alright, I'm off.

Should have been a long time ago. You never had a praying chance in hell with me to argue the corner you tried to argue.

These feminism is already getting out of hand o!
So men should not compliment women again?
I personally feel its the height of insecurity.
When you are a bad ass professional and know your worth, you wont be looking for faults where there isn't. You should even be happy your beauty or sexuality was able to attract someone through all the worked up atmosphere.

I'd bet my money that she is a bimbo (beauty minus brains) and is using feminism to cover up.

I support feminism in real gender malignment cases but neither in shows of shame like this................... nor those trying so hard to reverse the laws of nature.

Sagamite:


Should have been a long time ago. You never had a praying chance in hell with me to argue the corner you tried to argue.

I agree with you there.

Let the denial and circle-jerking commence.

silverr:
These feminism is already getting out of hand o!
So men should not compliment women again?
I personally feel its the height of insecurity.
When you are a bad ass professional and know your worth, you wont be looking for faults where there isn't. You should even be happy your beauty or sexuality was able to attract someone through all the worked up atmosphere.

I'd bet my money that she is a bimbo (beauty minus brains) and is using feminism to cover up.

I support feminism in real gender malignment cases but neither in shows of shame like this................... nor those trying so hard to reverse the laws of nature.

I doubt it is insecurity.

Feminism is likely to be a mental health problem. A personality disorder.

Sagamite:


I doubt it is insecurity.

Feminism is likely to be a mental health problem. A personality disorder.

I wont really say so sha.
Some men need to be checked as they forget women are humans with feelings who deserve to be accorded respect.

But this is extremism..........

silverr:


I wont really say so sha.
Some men need to be checked as they forget women are humans with feelings who deserve to be accorded respect.

But this is extremism..........

How is it extreme? Is the platform and message appropriate or professional in any way?

She blurted out what I wish I had the heart to, and I'll bet she was royally pissed off at the time.

EnlightenedSoul:


How is it extreme? Is the platform and message appropriate or professional in any way?

She blurted out what I wish I had the heart to, and I'll bet she was royally pissed off at the time.

I do not see anything wrong in what he said.
Back in the days when I was a marketer, compliments was one secret I used to win people's heart. Till date, I still track people down via the internet so imagine me after tracking you for hours and trying to make a great 1st impression compliments you, you just explode. She even had to take the issue to twitter to garner support, Childishness ontop insecurity + extremism.

I mean, he didn't mention any part of her body squarely. Its just like a woman throwing tantrums because a colleague told her she is hot. Isn't the office a more professional setting than Linkedin, lynda and all the B2B sites put together?

Is the office a place for matchmakers?
Don't office romance spring up every now and then?

If it was a woman making that statement, would it have been good for Linkedin?

Lets be fair please.

silverr:


I do not see anything wrong in what he said.
Back in the days when I was a marketer, compliments was one secret I used to win people's heart. Till date, I still track people down via the internet so imagine me after tracking you for hours and trying to make a great 1st impression compliments you, you just explode. She even had to take the issue to twitter to garner support, Childishness ontop insecurity + extremism.

I mean, he didn't mention any part of her body squarely. Its just like a woman throwing tantrums because a colleague told her she is hot. Isn't the office a more professional setting than Linkedin, lynda and all the B2B sites put together?

Is the office a place for matchmakers?
Don't office romance spring up every now and then?

If it was a woman making that statement, would it have been good for Linkedin?

Lets be fair please.

Nah, if you're tracking someone down and it's career-related, you comment on or compliment their work, qualifications, and accomplishments if/when you're genuinely impressed, not their appearance. That's the height of unprofessionalism, IMO. But I'm no marketer, and IDK if things are different in that/your realm. You'd know better.

A boss/colleagues telling you you're hot and blah blah blah, isn't awkward and irritating? Especially, if its one-sided? Especially, when you're out there to get work done and don't need the drama, or weird scenarios springing up everywhere?? Work romances are a disaster waiting to happen about 95% of time and should be avoided at all costs, but I guess thats just another opinion of mine. If it was a woman, same thing!

I agree with you in that it shouldn't have taken to Twitter and blown up as it did, but like I said she was probably pissed off. I don't begrudge her the reponse in the least (the message itself).

Sagamite:


Did you check your dictionary for what freaky means before responding to me?

I am assuming your face is still buried in it trying to explain to me why he is a pervert?


https://www.nairaland.com/2554667/man-murdered-behind-house-graphic/4#37565815

Mr gra gra....I will recommend that you apply the words in the context it was used and stop displaying ITK..

Clearly, his actions are not acceptable in the space in question. Hence his disclaimer. He can be seen as a pervert. .. Secondly, freaky in my explanation means if a married man of such caliber is caught sleeping with young babes, his actions is seen as strange. Which is considered freaky.

Make sure you check dictionary before you reply..

silverr:


I wont really say so sha.
Some men need to be checked as they forget women are humans with feelings who deserve to be accorded respect.

But this is extremism..........

Obviously some men need to be checked and punished when they behave inappropriate or are sexist.

But most feminists are sexist psychos. They are men haters with mental health problems.

EnlightenedSoul:


How is it extreme? Is the platform and message appropriate or professional in any way?

She blurted out what I wish I had the heart to, and I'll bet she was royally pissed off at the time.

What makes it inappropriate?

What is inappropriate about telling a women she looks good in a picture?

EnlightenedSoul:

Nah, if you're tracking someone down and it's career-related, you comment on or compliment their work, qualifications, and accomplishments if/when you're genuinely impressed, not their appearance. That's the height of unprofessionalism, IMO. But I'm no marketer, and IDK if things are different in that/your realm. You'd know better.
A boss/colleagues telling you you're hot and blah blah blah, isn't awkward and irritating? Especially, if its one-sided? Especially, when you're out there to get work done and don't need the drama, or weird scenarios springing up everywhere?? Work romances are a disaster waiting to happen about 95% of time and should be avoided at all costs, but I guess thats just another opinion of mine. If it was a woman, same thing!
I agree with you in that it shouldn't have taken to Twitter and blown up as it did, but like I said she was probably pissed off. I don't begrudge her the reponse in the least (the message itself).

Exactly why I know you are deluded.

So it is not "sexist" if she was actually interested in him?

Typical feminist madness: Let all those that show interest in us that we are not interested in be punished, while those that do the same thing that we like or will benefit us be seen as white knights.

As for the Twitter comment, finally you are showing some sense. You are realising she is a psycho.

GooseBaba:


Mr gra gra....I will recommend that you apply the words in the context it was used and stop displaying ITK..

Clearly, his actions are not acceptable in the space in question. Hence his disclaimer. He can be seen as a pervert. .. Secondly, freaky in my explanation means if a married man of such caliber is caught sleeping with young babes, his actions is seen as strange. Which is considered freaky.

Make sure you check dictionary before you reply..

You are a cretinous fuuktard!

The context such is used is my foolish men who have been trained by women to think what is natural to them is "perversion" and they are like some dirty animals.

The same kind of "real men" who would say men that are not married by a certain age are "irresponsible" or "immature".

Cretinous men that women use words and labelling to control.

Cretin, a pervert (or a freak) is someone that is doing something that is abnormal to nature. Seeing a woman you find attractive ANYWHERE and complimenting her is not perversion or freakiness except to reetarded, well-trained, pooch dog "real men".

It is a natural state of things where only mentally-ill psychos and anti-social cretins react like this foolish woman.

What can be perverted is if he was touching her inappropriately or persistently disturbing her after she has made it clear she is not interested in that avenue. And that was all this mooooron needed to do.

A married man sleeping with a woman more attractive than his wife is not strange, nor is it perverted or freaky, cretin. Never again give such a STUUUUUPID argument. You can only question if it is fair to the wife or what emotional impact it would have on her.

Go and check the meaning of "strange" in your dictionary. I don't know why so many of you foolish Nigerians use with aplomb words you have no understanding of the meaning.

From time immemorial, men have been sleeping with women that are not their wives. It is not strange, FOOOOL!

Sagamite:


What makes it inappropriate?

What is inappropriate about telling a women she looks good in a picture?



Exactly why I know you are deluded.

So it is not "sexist" if she was actually interested in him?

Typical feminist madness: Let all those that show interest in us that we are not interested in be punished, while those that do the same thing that we like or will benefit us be seen as white knights.

As for the Twitter comment, finally you are showing some sense. You are realising she is a psycho.

It isn't the platform for that sort of thing. I can't help you see what's inappropriate in it if you refuse to see it!

I never claimed it was sexist on account of being one-sided. Nor did I conclude that persons of no interest should be punished for hitting on women, ya wild newt. Go bury your head in a pillow.

EnlightenedSoul:


It isn't the platform for that sort of thing. I can't help you see what's inappropriate in it if you refuse to see it!

I never claimed it was sexist on account of being one-sided. Nor did I conclude that persons of no interest should be punished for hitting on women, ya wild newt. Go bury your head in a pillow.

What makes it not the platform for that sort of thing?

If people can meet at work and get married, why can't people meet on LinkedIn?

Sagamite:


What makes it not the platform for that sort of thing?

If people can meet at work and get married, why can't people meet on LinkedIn?

Your argument doesn't follow!

EnlightenedSoul:


Your argument doesn't follow!

Why does it not follow?

The work place is not a professional setting but LinkedIn is?

Or realise your folly and are desperate to avoid answering the questions?

Sagamite:


Why does it not follow?

The work place is not a professional setting but LinkedIn is?

Or realise your folly and are desperate to avoid answering the questions?

At the workplace, like most everywhere else, you've the potential to get wrapped up in someone and fall in love. Believe me, I get it. However, LinkedIn isn't love roulette & happenchance nor is it a social site, but a platform specifically designed for PROFESSIONAL networking! Sending DM advances to people who signed up to LinkedIn to be assessed by their qualifications and professional profile is incredibly inappropriate, and fully questions the senders fundamental understanding of the site's purpose.

Women with miserable childhood experience

EnlightenedSoul:


At the workplace, like most everywhere else, you've the potential to get wrapped up in someone and fall in love. Believe me, I get it. However, LinkedIn isn't love roulette & happenchance, its a platform specifically designed for PROFESSIONAL networking. Sending DM advances to someone who signed up to LinkedIn to be assesed by their qualifications and professional profile is inappropriate, and questions the senders fundamental understanding of the site's purpose.

Cut the crap, idiot!

So you finally answered and gave this moronic attempt?

Let me remind you of the foolish thing you said earlier in the thread:

EnlightenedSoul:

How would you feel if, in your professional sphere, you were constantly being assessed by your physical appearance and so-called beauty rather than all your accomplishments, almost in spite of your accomplishments?

So it is appropriate to approach/compliment women in the workplace and it will not be "being assessed by your physical appearance at the detriment of your accomplishments" but doing the same on a social network is?

LinkedIn is more of a professional place than where people work?

The workplace is not a professional sphere, or a place where accomplishments are assessed, but LinkedIn is?

What complete stupidity!

When you have no solid logical argument, it does not take long to contradict yourself.

Let me tell you something a bit closer to home.

I bet you know the TV show called "The Millionaire Matchmaker"?

Well, I was watching it one day and actually saw one gorgeous girl with a sweet personality that I liked, so based on the little details she gave on the show (she was well educated and a profession), I googled her.

Guess the fck where I contacted her!!!

Yep. On the social network site called LINKEDIN.

Sent her a simple message that I just saw on the show and felt like popping her an invite.

She accepted and we had a chat. Which soon migrated to whatsapp.

"Oh, Lord!

I am sexist! I am a pervert! It was an inappropriate platform! LinkedIn is not meant for meeting people! That is freaky!"

What moronic tosh!

You can meet a woman ANYWHERE and compliment or ask her out. Except to you lunatic feminists.

Another one.

The show called "Take Me Out". Saw another fcking gorgeous girl on it in the UK version. Sent her an invite on ........................LinkedIn.

B*i*tch never replied. Got fcking chinned! She is not a professional, she worked in the arts.

Shows you the fcking difference between UK black girls and US black girls.

Sagamite:


Cut the crap, idiot!

So you finally answered and gave this moronic attempt?

Let me remind you of the foolish thing you said earlier in the thread:



So it is appropriate to approach/compliment women in the workplace and it will not be "being assessed by your physical appearance at the detriment of your accomplishments" but doing the same on a social network is?

LinkedIn is more of a professional place than where people work?

What complete stupidity!

Let me tell you something a bit closer to home.

I bet you know the TV show called "The Millionaire Matchmaker"?

Well, I was watching it one day and actually saw one gorgeous girl with a sweet personality that I liked, so based on the little details (she was well educated and a profession) she gave on the show, I googled her.

Guess the fck where I contacted her!!!

Yep. On the social network site called LinkedIn.

Set her a simple message that I just saw on the show and felt like popping her an invite.

She accepted and we had a chat. Which soon migrated to whatsapp.

"Oh, Lord!

I am sexist! I am a pervert! It was an inappropriate platform! LinkedIn is not meant for meeting people! That is freaky!"

What moronic tosh!

You can meet a woman ANYWHERE and compliment or ask her out. Except to you lunatic feminists.

Another one.

The show called "Take Me Out". Saw another fcking gorgeous girl on it in the UK version. Sent her an invite on ........................LinkedIn.

Biatch never replied. Got fcking chinned!

Shows you the fcking difference between UK black girls and US black girls.

Lollll, you're comparisons are whacky fun. Since when are private departures/excursions in the workplace (of the romantic variety) assessed through the individual's professional profile on a platform? Whatever does it have to do with accomplishment?

Lollllllll, so you're using LinkedIn to hit on chicks and date?? No wonder you're so bothered! We're not on the same wavelength, and you dont seem to be getting anywhere. Figures you used freakin' TV contestants to make your 'point'. I can't help you.

EnlightenedSoul:


Lollll, you're comparisons are whacky fun. Since when are private departures/excursions in the workplace (of the romantic variety) assessed through the individual's professional profile on a platform? Whatever does it have to do with accomplishment?

Lollllllll, so you're using LinkedIn to hit on chicks and date?? No wonder you're so bothered! We're not on the same wavelength, and you dont seem to be getting anywhere. I can't help you.

What nonsense!

So you don't think anymore that if a women's mate-attracting features is being focused on in her professional sphere instead of her accomplishment it is inappropriate?

Can you see how stuuupid you look now, girl?

NO ONE can ever sustain an illogical argument with me.

NO ONE on this planet called "Earth"!

It is impossible.

You were smarter when you were running from my questions earlier. That was the only way you could have escaped.

Sagamite:


What nonsense!

So you don't think anymore that if a women's mate-attracting features is being focused on in her professional sphere instead of her accomplishment it is inappropriate?

Can you see how stuuupid you look now, girl?

NO ONE can ever sustain an illogical argument with me.

NO ONE on this planet called "Earth"!

It is impossible.

You were smarter when you were running from my questions earlier. That was the only way you could have escaped.

Do you fancy that you made an iota of sense just now??

EnlightenedSoul:


Do you fancy that you made an iota of sense just now??

In that one post, more sense than you will ever make in your feminist life-campaign.

Now continue showing you are at least a bit smart, girl, by avoiding the questions I asked and trying diversionary statements.

Sagamite:


In that one post, more sense than you will ever make in your feminist life-campaign.

Now continue showing you are at least a bit smart, girl, by avoiding the questions I asked and trying diversionary statements.

Lol, I'm afraid not. Are you on something?

EnlightenedSoul:


Lol, I'm afraid not. Are you on something?

Shut the fck up and take your humiliation, girl.

Mimicks her: "Professional sphere", "Accomplishment", "Bodobodobodo".

Sagamite:


Shut the fck up and take your humiliation, girl.

Mimicks her: "Professional sphere", "Accomplishment", "Bodobodobodo".

Alright, confirmed. Stop using LinkedIn as a dating site, ya weirdo.

EnlightenedSoul:


Alright, confirmed. Stop using LinkedIn as a dating site, ya weirdo.

No, a feminist is a weirdo, dumbo.

Fck me! I ryhmed.

ilobasama:
Well those are feminists for you. They attack you for any comment and action you take and turn it into a gender based war.

So she could not appreciate a simple complement, even if he had talked about something else outside her looks, she ll still find way to put it in her gender- bashed-i-am-the-victim books

She's a role model and mentor to many of our feminists females here on NL

Sagamite:


It is people that take their shyt that they can attack.

It is time people stop being politically correct and break down their stuupid highground.

ilobasama, can you now see how I said people should humiliate feminists by breaking down their stuupid highground.

She tried to escape by desperately trying to avoid my probing questions at the beginning but in the end she got suckered.