HELLO GUYS! I Need Your Advice On This
Am A 21Years Old Guy In The University And Currently Am Single But I Don't Like It Because All My Life, I Have Never Dated Any Lady(I've Been Single All My Life) , But I've Had So Many Responsible Single Ladies As Friend... So I Feel Its Time I Started Teaching Myself Pratical Things To Know About Ladies So That I Won't Find It Hard In Dealing With Relationship Issues When Its Time To Get Married... Am Not A Shy Type & Am Also GoodLooking...
I NEED MATURED ADVICE ONLY! ! !
nd i dnt give a f*ck if you insult me...

Ah ah wats there to ask a gurl for a date?

I think the Op opened a thread indirectly saying..


I need a lover and am good looking.

Good looking wunt guarantee u any babe..uv gat 2 play ur cards well
#peace

LMAO, LOL dis thread is damm funny, ok @OP lemme recommend some single nairalanders to you, cc misssclassy, introvert, ladyF was single but now she is taken by me, aisha, delectablequeen.

Gone is the era of "mature comments pls". Now, it is the era of i don't give a f*ck if u insult me/let the comments come i dont care if u insult me. Hmmm, the change is real

Charles Nneji, Get in Here Mhen!

Op u don't av a problem..

Since u r not shy..

Just grow some balls

Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

ilobasama:
Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

Good advise.

go to a sec skul nearby if u are scared of asking uni girls out. or register on dating sites, u will meet single ladies dia(both real nd yahoo)


...cos, I rili dnt knw ow u expect us to help u?

ilobasama:
Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

when is d proper age to start dating? if dating @ 21 means rushing?

you are qn undergraduate and stl single .......are u in engineering faculty?

I said it should not be top on your list. I also said take your time, dont rush in just to rush out. Even if you are 30, you need to take your time before you begin a relationship. Its just an advice sir. You can date anytime you like. Thank you.

justified19:
when is d proper age to start dating? if dating @ 21 means rushing?

Yeah. Thks

omoharry:
Good advise.

Op
she konji don dey hold u?

don't u have crushes? ... just ask one of them(crush) out...play ur cards well nd u won't be single anymore...
I used to be in ur shoes don't u have crushes? ... just ask one of them(crush) out...play ur cards well nd u won't be single anymore...
I used to be in ur shoes

where is the sense in this thread?? where is the sense in this thread??

Wen nxt u want 2go 2sch, rub white chalk on ur body, tie fresh palmfruit on ur head wt a black big pant e.g [carashica type] den carry a small pot on ur head n dance frm ur huz 2sch...plz dnt forget to sing along wt u...AM SINGLE N NID A GAL FRND...do dis for 3days n thank me later.

Don't confuse me just yet
Is it that you're fukc hungry?
OR
You just want to feel how stressful it is to date?

Maybe after ileya I will advice u....

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twizz4u:
op and i are in d same shoe,am 22yrs i find it very difficult to start up conversation with a girl,wen a girl i like looks at me am so shy dat i look away or loose my balance.it's kind of frustrating wen u see a girl and u can't approach,it like am afraid i may be rejected or get to the friendzone. The funny part is your younger ones are avin girlfrnds dey ask wat abt ur girl, ur friends dat av seen u 4 a while say things like don't tell me u stil don't av a girlfrnd.It sumtyms makes u freakout,

dats what am saying... Single nd stil searching... All My Life, I've Never Had A Serious Relationship..... And I Need To Know What Women Are Like... Sometimes I Don't Know When A Girl Is Crushing On Me

ilobasama:
Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

It Is Not As Easy As You Think... When You Are Unable To Introduce Someone During Family Meeting As A Girlfriend Whereas Your Younger Ones Are Introducing Their G.F .... Besides, It Is Not On The Day Of My Wedding That I Will Learn How To Ask A Lady Out
I Believe It Is A Gradual Process Which Starts From Dating To CourtShip And Finally To Marriage... If At The Age Of 21, I've Never Felt What All TheSe Dating And Lovey Dovey Things Are Like .... THEN ! ! !

Am telling you, if it 21 you are not dating, its no big deal. You have lots of things to concentrate on for now. You are free to date but it should not be your priority for now. Please I am talking from experience. Am advising you the same way I will and advise my 22yrs and 18yrs old younger brothers.

Jamesrock:
It Is Not As Easy As You Think When You Are Unable To Introduce Someone During Family Meeting As A Girlfriend Whereas Your Younger Ones Are Introducing Their G.F .... Besides, It Is Not On The Day Of My Wedding That I Will Learn How To Ask A Lady Out
I Believe It Is A Gradual Process Which Starts From Dating To CourtShip And Finally To Marriage... If At The Age Of 21, I've Never Felt What All TheSe Dating And Lovey Dovey Things Are Like ...

OP, yuwa in nid of 2 tinz

1) a microwave ofen

2)sum vaseline 4rm a nerby store

use a spoon 2 scoop d vaseline in big chunkies an place in microwave ofen





alow it insy d ofen 4 1 minites til it as disolve an as liquidy





alow 2 cool 4 sum minites an den aply wile stil worm 2 ur manhood

ilobasama:
Why not do the needful first. You said you are in school , focus on getting a good grade, building yourself and getting ready for the labor market.

Continue being friends with these ladies, try to learn one or two things about ladies, give yourself time. Love will still find you.

At your age, having a girlfriend should not be top on your list. Am not saying its bad o. Just don't rush into any relationship , because you will also rush out

Bad Advice.
OP never said woman was his priority, he is only trying to fix a part of his life he feels he is deficient.
Follow this dudes advice and you'd probably open another thread on NL 15 yrs later "Help! I am 36 yrs , comfortable, and no girlfriend"
Anyways, OP, since you said you are not shy, I don't know what is holding you back. But listen to the advice above at your own peril.

WFDharmieSleek:
where is the sense in this thread?? where is the sense in this thread??

Dyu have comprehension problems?

Well since you say you don't like your single status,then try and do something about it. If there's a girl you like at the moment,why not try and ask her out.It really doesn't hurt to try.Even if you get rejected by her ,you will know that at least you tried.By asking her out,you will get bolder .Don't worry you will definitely get to experience the lovey dovey things

My brother thats why its called an advice. It can be taken or ignored. Thank you

chinnyonwu:

Bad Advice.
OP never said woman was his priority, he is only trying to fix a part of his life he feels he is deficient.
Follow this dudes advice and you'd probably open another thread on NL 15 yrs later "Help! I am 36 yrs , comfortable, and no girlfriend"
Anyways, OP, since you said you are not shy, I don't know what is holding you back. But listen to the advice above at your own peril.