I have this amazing friend. He is a Rlander. We talk, chat and tease each other pretty much. Yeah good times, recently I noticed he has not been in high spirits due to his actions, called him and talked to him and he opened up a bout what's bothering him. Here is the gist
He met a girl in April, really liked her as a friend, the girl also likes him, the attend the same denomination, read the same course, from the same state and are both preparing for a professional exam coming up later this year. Along the way, he discovered that the like he had for her had blossomed into love, he thought it was a joke, but it wasn't. As a man, he sought courage and told her of his feelings, the girl responded in a manner which shouts 'friend zoned'. He took it in good faith and continued being her friend. The talk occasionally, now the shocking thing he told me recently is that, he can't concentrate. At work, at home and when he is reading. Anytime he tries to do something, he thinks about her. My worry right now is that his exam is in less than two months and he can't concentrate because of her. Yes he said she is a good person but he not concentrating is another case.. I
Fellow nairalanders, please advise him especially the guys who are experiencing or ve experienced it.
I really want him to pass his professional exam and make it in life but his lack of concentration is another case. Over to you nlanders. I hope he sees this.

Brb

OK brb

Just tell him you love him and you're there for him at least till after his exam then you can send him back to the friendzone too.

Thank me later

He should change his game...

Make himself unavailable ..
She knows him... So he's become predictable and boring.

Its a long-term plan..

In that time frame.. Things go happen.

I did that. .. And after 2 years.. I am nt even interested again sef.

Tell your frnd to go get a life,for pete's sake the gal in question refused,so?he should better concentrate more on his exams,yea it not easy but he have to set his priorities straight, thinking abt someone that dont give a dim abt your feelings would do no good....op advise your frnd to choose,his exams or the lady,after then whatsoever he choose,let him give more concentration.,










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Besides,it not advisable to enter a one sided affair,from the look of tinx the guy in question seem to be head over heel in love with this gurl unfortunately the lady is not so into him hence frnd zone things,so tell him to better let it go,love is mostly enjoyed when the two parties involve are crazily into each other..,.,.

Has he eaten today?

perhaps it will be best if he failed the exams....
I think his stupídity will be taken down a notch or two.....
#BitchAssNiggazEverywhere

He should get laid... Asap... Op u can help by gvn him dat.

The mistake that ur friend made was keeping tat lady he approached as a friend, for goodness sake why will u wnt 2 keep a lady u toasted as a friend Call it in maturity or anytin but for me, once I approach a lady nd she refuse, I will send tat girl 2 strangerzone, tat is d only way 2 kill wateva crush I had on her

OP its obvious you love him. just shag him, he will come back to his senses

He is obsessed with the girl. When you are in love you do so without anxiety. When you find yourself getting anxious, you are simply after sth you aren't sure of.


If you care so much about your friend's success. Tell him to take her out and have a neutral talk with her without mentioning his feelings towards her.

It ll help with his obsessions.

Cutehector:
He should get laid... Asap... Op u can help by gvn him dat.

thats just the plain truth...
he shud also discontinue any contact with the gal...for his own good and selfworth

4rm wat u wrote i'm nt sure ur friend is crious.

Really Obsessing ova a gal dat has friend zoned u n u av an important professional exam 2 pass. E cn jst as well 4get about writing d exam n chase d gal all his lyf

Ode of guy, na because of gal dem send am go school? Misplaced priority.

IamRespected:
The mistake that ur friend made was keeping tat lady he approached as a friend, for goodness sake why will u wnt 2 keep a lady u toasted as a friend Call it in maturity or anytin but for me, once I approach a lady nd she refuse, I will send tat girl 2 strangerzone, tat is d only way 2 kill wateva crush I had on her

lol..bad guy

guitarmanpharell:
lol..bad guy

It seriously amazes me why some guys will wnt 2 continue seeing a lady tat refused them, no wonder why these bxches magarize them

Tell him to get fifa15 or pes13....

why you de drink panadol for another person headache? shey him be nlander? if he wants to bring d issue here he would have. so why you de was him dirty pant outside...... abi na you de find indirect advice?

Hmmm. End times

I think when he fails the exam, he will be able to concentrate for the next one...



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