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| Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by lurlah2014(f): 10:33am On Sep 17, 2015 |
There's this fellow that wants to marry me but I am not in love with him, I do not even find him attractive but he's a catch, asin he has a good job, he's well behaved and he really loves me. My family and friends say I should accept his proposal, that love will come later. If I don't feel anything special for him now, will it come after I marry him? I don't want to be in loveless marriage so I am wary of entering this union. Please advice |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Cutehector(m): 10:36am On Sep 17, 2015 |
My dear, d ball is in ur court oooo... Its ur choice... But if I were u, I'd marry him sha... |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by adedayourt(m): 10:37am On Sep 17, 2015 |
The truth is even if u love him now nd marry him it ll com to a time wen d love nd emitions ll wear of den u see ur hubby more like a friend. In the same wise if u dont love him now doesnt mean u cnt love him d nxt minute. U jus need to ask ursef few Ques do u wnt ur kids callin him dad wat is d dispostion of ur friend/family toward him nd viceversa deep dwn inside of u, am very sure u kno if u want him or not. it takes more dan love to kip a couple nt undermining d place of love dou. wat u wana do is speakin to u softly so do it 2 Likes |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 10:38am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Yeaaah it's always a great feeling when both of have the same feelings, in love to each other..but if ur still young like if ur in ur early 20s , girl enjoy ur life first  I always believe, marriage is not for everyone... |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Vyolet(f): 10:38am On Sep 17, 2015 |
You will surely grow to love him once he becomes your only companion and he has a good character. 2 Likes |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by zyzxx(m): 10:39am On Sep 17, 2015 |
maybe if you are happy and comfortable around him |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Miracle4Sure: 10:40am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Ur Life, Ur Choice....... |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by missmary(f): 10:40am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Yeap you can.. 10yrs later.. |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Cutehector(m): 10:42am On Sep 17, 2015 |
missmary:lmao.. U hilarious!  |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by olakumby(f): 10:46am On Sep 17, 2015 |
apart from not finding him attractive, is there any other reason u wouldnt marry him? if not, lf he truly loves you..open ur heart to him. Girls..change ur mindset,learn to love what is right instead of trying to fix what is wrong. there's no perfect man. 2 Likes |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by vani86: 10:51am On Sep 17, 2015 |
nope dont marry him. go for mister fine boy with no job that will take you for granted. at least your love will be enough for the both of you 1 Like |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by StPete: 10:52am On Sep 17, 2015 |
If you do not love him now or have at least an iota of feeling for him, do not venture into marriage! If you delve into marriage cos of pressures from folks, when the chips are down and he looses all the other qualities he has like good job and the likes, will u still be by his side? Find a guy u at least have feelings for cos the same people who are pressuring you to marry the guy will be the same people who will say you married for money and are a gold digger. Mi 2 cents 2 Likes |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by cyprus000: 10:52am On Sep 17, 2015 |
lurlah2014:[size=13pt] If he isn't loaded, would you look him twice?. Bcs of ballary you want to trade happyness. Well, e dey una DNA. The person I pity na that innocent wey you want dance shoki with em heart. Why can't you girls be sincere for once  . If you want marriage contract, why not tell him so he knows what he is going into and save yourself the stress of acting nollyhood.Or you go for the man you are attracted to and have feelings for,instead of the love scam. [/size] |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 10:53am On Sep 17, 2015 |
What's important is, does he have all the qualities you're looking for in a man? And by that I don't mean 6 packs & all the other superficial stuff, but the core of what makes him an individual. If those parallel with what you're searching for, then I say give him a try & you might actually end up liking him. Maybe go out on a few dates with him 1st, just to get used to you guys as a couple. IMPO, the longevity of a relationship/marriage is not all down to attraction but compatibility in other areas as well. You're not going to spend most of your married life moaning in bed, so you better choose somebody you can actually stand. Husband material doesn't always come in our favourite print/fabric  Think wisely.1 Like |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by valdes00(m): 10:53am On Sep 17, 2015 |
diamond digger..... |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by IamRespected: 10:55am On Sep 17, 2015 |
The kind thunder wey go fire people wey say make she marry am eh, why would you  ? What if after the marriage u don't feel anything then ? |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by libertyfather(m): 11:02am On Sep 17, 2015 |
KashyBaby: This one dey find passenger for her bus, truly marriage is not for everyone but urs is knocking at the door so open and grab am, besides those kind dude dey love die! cause all his intention is to make you feel the same way he's feeling for you, but don't take it for granted oooo 1 Like |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 11:05am On Sep 17, 2015 |
Lol. Fukc love oooh! You better marry what you want to marry before menopause and grey hair comes knocking |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 11:56am On Sep 17, 2015 |
libertyfather:  u shud not quote me...u shud send this to OP... |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Rukkydelta(f): 12:14pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
Why do i even comment ? |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by libertyfather(m): 12:22pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
KashyBaby: The op come across it while reading down, I quote you cause I have a message for you gan! gan!! |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by lurlah2014(f): 12:28pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
GIRL, U ARE NOT SERIOUS missmary: |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by missmary(f): 12:36pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
lurlah2014:Actually i am.. Am just literally trying to say it might take a long time |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
libertyfather: Eh hen...message me? |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by spanishkid(m): 1:43pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
see them. gold diggers advising you to marry a man you dont love all cos he has money. what if that money finishes and what if he becomes a beast after would you still call him a catch? |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by lurlah2014(f): 1:49pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
OK OOO missmary: |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by prettysassygirl(f): 3:18pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
lurlah2014:What if he loses his job,or what if his character inside is a different thing, girl wait for your man,sometimes we think what we have in the present is usually the best,not knowing our future is even more blissful 2 Likes |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Setaje(f): 9:25pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
Life is a gamble. One of these two things will happen. You might end up loving him or u might not love him and end up cheating on him. As for me, I cannot marry someone I don't love. There has to be a connection. |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by pryd(m): 9:28pm On Sep 17, 2015 |
Have you consciously asked yourself what you want from marriage? |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by darnley16(m): 12:06am On Sep 29, 2015 |
Setaje:hello |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by Nobody: 12:27am On Sep 29, 2015 |
If you don't like him now despite all af those sweet qualities the man's got , taking this 'thing' to the marriage level won't be cool at all I feel. I mean, where is the sense in marrying a nigga u aint proud af? Bottom line is; He doesn't deserve u and you don't deserve him too  |
| Re: Can You Fall In Love With Your Hubby Later? by wrongnumber: 12:31am On Sep 29, 2015 |
lurlah2014: Yes you will love him latter. Thats the way our parents married. |
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