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| Why Is He Doing This!!!! by talcum: 8:19am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Good am all. Am so bittered about dis. my fiance always scroll through my phone buh never allows me to touch his. He said I might not understand some tins dia . D oda day,he snapped me with his phone and I wanted to send it to mine,he started dragging d phone saying dias is a pix dia dat I won't understand. I was so shocked and gav him his phone. Ever since then,I find it so hard to believe any tin he says and my mind has started deviating from marrying him gradually. Note: he is currently training me in a university and I don't want d story of: he finished training her and she left for another man. I have been faithful to him since I met him but his character is making me not to trust him so how can I marry someone I don't trust. am totally confused frnds.ur advices will go a long way. Thank u alk |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by misspicy(f): 8:20am On Oct 04, 2015 |
[quoteIYou can't conclude on anything,buh why don't you sit him down and talk to him,tell him how you feel and hear his side of the story, Besides this is one of the downsides of allowing a guy train one in school,he might feel you owe him and he is free to do whatever he likes since you have no choice...and note,he will get the support of the society,after all he trained you[/quote] 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by fromnigeria(m): 8:21am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Totally confused  I pity you. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Ginaz(f): 8:21am On Oct 04, 2015 |
one word I have to say to you..........RUN! he's CHEATING! full stop. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by falconey(m): 8:22am On Oct 04, 2015 |
shiit!....... I don't get it, is he your fiance because he is sponsoring you or because you guys are actually engaged? |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by donholy28(m): 8:33am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Fiancée ke? and he dey keep secrets from u?…secretly collect his phone and check what d problem is...if its terrible and u can't handle it,leave...if ur school fees is dependent on him...keep quite and dance d music |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Nobody: 8:36am On Oct 04, 2015 |
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, guess what? It's probably a duck! There's no reason for him to be secretive & shifty about his phone, unless he's hiding something. Has he always been this overprotective of his phone? |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Elzends(m): 8:41am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Mi lady pray oh I'll be back 4 more if this makes fp |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:43am On Oct 04, 2015 |
you dey collect him money to pay ur fees and you dey here dey shout? you don't trust him but you trust his money. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Davedoz(m): 8:44am On Oct 04, 2015 |
I'm coming, lemi eat break fast 1st. I can help you
! |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Davedoz(m): 8:44am On Oct 04, 2015 |
I'm coming, lemi eat break fast 1st. I can help you
! |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by falconey(m): 8:46am On Oct 04, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: they don't think like that, giving them money feels normal or doing them favours. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by foladaraawe(f): 8:46am On Oct 04, 2015 |
 fiancee? So confused |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:52am On Oct 04, 2015 |
falconey:d tin tire me oh!!!! As long as she wants him to keep the favours coming,she should just STFU and face her front. if he is cheating on her,and she is draining his pocket then they should keep on playing their little game..........coz from my perspective, she seems to be the one winning. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Homguy(m): 9:00am On Oct 04, 2015 |
talcum:RUN, In marriage it would be worse. Don't come back here crying about how your husband beats deadly you when you touch up his phone. A Juno of women saw crazy, obvious, unacceptable, behaviors in their spouse before marrying them, but decided to turn a blind eye to them. Later, that blind eye would turn black ,swollen eyes. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by elantraceey(f): 9:01am On Oct 04, 2015 |
This is one of the disadvantages of having a guy train you through school, you'll feel in dept to him but I tell you not to sacrifice marital happiness for anything. Marriage can't work without trust. Sit him down and tell him the consequences of his action towards you. Take the bull by the horn and tell him to explain all he's hiding from you that you're beginning to lose your trust for him and you can't stay in a relationship without trust assuring him that you'll understand whatever it is. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Nobody: 9:05am On Oct 04, 2015 |
Ginaz:. . . . did you actually read that before making a comment? . . . . run ?,so if she makes a run for it, who will pay her bills, you? |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Nobody: 9:06am On Oct 04, 2015 |
elantraceey: . . . . nice one, you made a point. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by falconey(m): 9:36am On Oct 04, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: they are always winning, the punny doesn't read meter . |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by talcum: 9:58am On Oct 04, 2015 |
All of u talking about eating his money,I and my parents never begged nor forced him to train me. He insisted not like my parents weren't capable of training m but am complaining cos I love him so stop pushing it hard on me cos he is footing my bills. afterall ,he still bleeps me whenever he wants so y won't he foot my bills? its just dat I wanted to knw why he is always guarding his phone like a bag of gold and hear other ppls say about it. dats all so stop d insults pls. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by AfroKnight: 10:03am On Oct 04, 2015 |
He's paying your school fees. When he says jump, you jump. If you can't comply, kindly tell him to stop the favours. He owns your ãss. Besides, I think he doesn't want you to know he has porn on his phone or maybe 2 children from another woman, or some other harmless reason.  Stop checking his phone. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Nobody: 10:04am On Oct 04, 2015 |
talcum: Lol, RIP in advance for this comment. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by AfroKnight: 10:07am On Oct 04, 2015 |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Nobody: 10:09am On Oct 04, 2015 |
AfroKnight: Lol, IKR. Imagine saying he still bleeps her so he has every right to foot the bill. Ahhhh, the female logic & pussy ego |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by Light7: 12:07pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Dude is as dumb my grand mum's goat... |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by liquidmetall: 12:20pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1: Lwkmd |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by akinsmyk(m): 1:14pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Homguy: You are not been realistic at all. Did you read that the guy is responsible for his school fees? You should have given a practical advise. If she must run, definitely not now. She should endure all that for a while @ least she is not stuck in marriage yet with him. It is possible that d guy is cheating but loved d lady and would want to still marry her. U can crucify me but its d fact though it sounds insane. The right step to take right now is to seat the guy down and talk to him pouring her mind and pains. She need not to fight about this right now, she should just pour her mind nd fears...d result of that would shows d next step to b taken. Men are not fools, if he doesn't see himself marrying u, I don't think he would go that lenght. It happens @ times, guys would av a good lady nd would never trade her for anoda lady wen it comes to lov or marriage bt still fool around @ d moment. Maybe d guy is having office romance or a fun filled relationship wth someone which would nt last long. Right now, he is preparing u for himself while doing with anoda @ d moment. We might still b wrong with these assumptions. Communication is key. Talk to him first 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by yemmit90: 2:56pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Ginaz: Run to where? Another man who is a saint? What do you think will make a man decided to sponsor his girl? @op, please stop worry about unnecessary stuffs, he knew you are the best for him, that is why he's sponsoring your education. Two out of a thousand men will do what your fiance is currently doing for you, not even when they claimed they love you. |
| Re: Why Is He Doing This!!!! by eipreel(f): 3:05pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
What you don't know won't hurt you  keep enjoying the spending and quit complaining |
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