It is the woman that unnecessarily put herself in bondage. because the man deceived her so as to marry her. Due to the deceit, it wasnt a genuine marriage and it was null and void. The woman has the right to move out. Mind you,this is not a divorce because we only talk of divorce when a true marriage was on table.

I married in deeper life and before our wedding, we went through series of interviews before the marriage committee to ascertain that both of us are potent. I was asked very practical questions to ascertain my potency.

I asked one of the committee member question similar to this scenario that what of if any of the couple lied during the interview that he\she is potent and the church (deeper life) joins them together and after the wedding,it was found that one of the couple is impotent. That what would the other person do? The answer I got was that, a marriage was not consummated in that case. It was a deceit. so the other couple is free to walk out. That the wedding is null and void

NL ladies be like...


thank God m not a virgin

May God help us. I feel for her

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chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

flokii:
NL ladies be like...


thank God m not a virgin

Yes oo

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

So sad. There husband is very wicked. But she too should have spoken out.

But you op, I can never trust ur pastor oh. Why should he disclose such sensitive stuff to you ?

D man would have told her evrytin [/color]so dt they can look 4 solution 2geda,but all d same let God heal d man and restore happiness into their home cos with God all tins are posssible.[color=#550000]

All is well

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

Esdb3:

After marriage you can divorce and remarry; it is not a sin that way because, the man hasn't consummated the marriage.

Not even divorce; the marriage can be invalidated/annulled (meaning it never happened) based on 2 facts: it was based on deception and he was impotent.

Marriage before sex in naija=5%

Sex before marriage in naija=95%

The more d proliferation of Churches in naija d more d increase of pulpit hawks.

Congratulations woman for being a true Christian.

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

that is me,will u test me?

@nairalanders,please how does one bold a comment that is written?Tia

I remember a priest telling me consummate my marriage even if it on menstruation that first night. this day the lessons about consummation of marriages immediately is on the high. NO EXCUSE TO WAIT!

A lot of women suffer in marriages. Am sure from calling her barren to witch to formal prostitute this woman had suffered more.

Where was the man when she started walking and talking to herself on the street? Preaching to others when you have a message to deliver to your own wife?

I pity her really. A sister zealous for Christ, kept herself holy and held on to the truth. What else will I say, she has suffered it all for Christ, may she never miss heaven. I wish I can know her.

1shortblackboy:
Ok so how u want make dem dey check without pre marital sex ? Abi na operation show ur erect1on

And what's wrong with operation show ur erect1on.

As for me ooo! I like to know who I am dealing with, romance and smooching tells a lot, I really don't get all this no sex b4 marriage things ooo

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

Amen.

This man is wicked for not telling this woman his story and not looking for solution maybe God will answer his prayers .

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

what a hell on earth 4 this woman

stupidity:
Una see why I don't spare any p*ssy that comes ma way? Testing mode#

Bad nigga

Pls

Why are people saying fertility test?

I think people mistake impotency for low sperm count and all that. Impotency/erectile dysfunction is different from sperm count problemm.
The man could be fertile but impotent.

Can a fertility test show if a man can get it up and last for long?
I don't think so

Medical peeps, over to you.

Virgin after 20yrs of marriage? Wtf

Feck those sick doctrines,I won't stay in such a marriage built on lies nd won't spare such a husband either.


princeparix come and see
Hope your stuff's battery isn't low

Really heart touching story. Despite the fact its against the christian faith to engage in a pre-marital intercourse, its also against christian faith to keep such a secret away from ur partner and it shows a level of insincerity and openness. Maybe he thought she wouldn't had accepted his proposal or maybe had felt that some words are better when kept secret in a relationship. He might had chosen to keep it to himself to avoid public ridicule (you know how rumors can develop wings especially when it has to do with pastors) But he got it all wrong. Imagine the psychological pain he has caused to the innocent wife. May God heal both his impotent and the wife's emotional misnomer.

missmary:
I still dont support premarital sex... Her husband wasnt honest with her... I say she divorces him... Even God will understand...

No room for divorce O

God has answered your prayers and the man(moi) has arrived. Now,let me hear you shout a believing "Amen".

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

different stroke for different folks

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

Na food kai

EggovinMma:
ME NO DEY FALL FOR THAT NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE CRAP! I MUST FUCCCK MY HUSBAND WELL WELL BEFORE lMARRIAGE. NO RE TREAT NO SURRENDER! !

Na u I like pass 4 here, ure being straightforward.......

Thank God he made me...nd he also gave me sometin to hold on to

Me personally i hate to disflo-wer any girl but am not saying it is bad to be a virgi*...