I have thi girlfriend who i like and want to continue dating but shez so so rude and it really annoys me and i wonder dat i may kill her if i continue with her i may hit her cause i hav an anger problem but i also do like the girl alot, wat shuld i do//

loool, sorry but this is funny. Please don't kill her how about going for another girl who doesn't fuel your anger, cause clearly your like for her is not enough to diminish your thoughts of killing her.

You need to solve your anger problem.

But first, you need to take a break from the "relationship"

You need to consult a psychiatrist before you do something you'll regret.

If you think a girl is rude, you should not be going out with her.

It's possible that the problem is with you and not her.

If you can admit that you have a serious anger problem, help is available if you see for it.

Be a man and seek help for your anger before it destroys you.

A girl you like should be the last person you'll want to "kill"

Well said Seun. If he doesn't deal with this anger problem, it'll surely put him in trouble someday becos there's no way it won't get fueled at some point, even if the rude girl goes out of the picture -- unless of course he meets a perfect person. And i'll say the chances of that happening is NIL

You both need to seek help (counselling) maybe,

u guys better go separate ways else, one will kill the other!

You need deliverance,Una Go Kill each One day,Abeg is deliverance or Seprate.

@topic
lol

U both have issues
but her rudeness is not as serious as Ur anger problem
Rudeness has never killed anyone
anger has so U need to seek help[i] ASAP[/i]
and take some time away from her plz

I neva said that my anger problem was bad enough to hit her.I have never hit a girl but she just upsets me too often.Na wa 4 una ooo . i no be killer,

A nice recipe for violence.

Lmao

@ poster
my dear what you need to do first of all is to sit down with ur girl and discuss her issues for example since she is rude and annoying its might just be a cry for attention, or maybe something u doing is upsetting her, for example is there anything she is always complaing of lately, maybe there a habit of urs that annoying her.do talk it over

futher more there are many ways 2 deal with anger that will prevent u from harming another mans child, like count 1-10 u know thats stuff for me i just work away 4 a while


good luck man,

Hi,
Seun posted a mail and I very much think He is correct. The two of you might be compatible as friends but, not for marriage.
Take time out to pray and understand what God thinks before you get unhappy for the rest of your lives.

*sighs* sounds like me and my boo.

This is not funny at all o,i have a cousin wiv anger issues,if you as lil as just call him an ediot which we all know is common in naija the dude will almost disfigure you,the guy would panel beats at the slightest provocation,he almost killed our help, even me that was feeling like i have sharp mouth mellowed by force(though he never hit me)he eventually had to leave our house, so op you need to work on urself and free that babe for now cos no matter what you say for to you to use the word KILL then its serious.

@poster if you find it difficult to control your anger then the only option is to free the babe and look for someone with a bridled tongue, but you really need to work on your temper cos girls nowadays get bad mouth too much.

@ OP some ladies can unleach the dragon out of you~~But you have to take it cool~~ since two wrongs dont a make a right*** You cant change her take that! you cant change anybody***you can only advise and encourage her on her behaviours~~moreso you too should try as much as possible to take it cool with your anger and show more absorber for anger~~

stay with her, dat a nice match with time both of u will understand 1 anoda very well.

Do you feel that you have an anger problem only with her or in general?

One dey rude, the other dey vex die. How una take meet sef?

Everything is workable only if both of you want it to work. Both of you will have to sub-pedal, you'll both need to jettison some of your flaws.

why should i be offended with a comment of someone who doesn't know how i look  ?

I am sure between 2006 when he posted and 2010, he must have found a solution to his problem!

ehhhe, wicked attraction, no kill persin pikin oh, better leave her as she is and move on b4 u find urself sentenced to life WITH NO PAROL after pressing her neck to death

you have anger problem and she is rude my candid advise to you is to let her be before you are sentenced to jail for murder.

go 2 anger management or cantact your doctor about ur anger problem b4 you ending up killing some1 and go 2 jail

@poster
That's a nice duet.Bread meets Butter