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Sure it grows up.

She shdn't ve gone into a relatnship wt him if she didn't luv him enof to be his wife,at ds stage,i think she shd find a way of lettng him know her real feelngs 4 him n hps he undastnds cos marriage is a lifetime comitment n d chances of her lovng him more afta marriage are very slim,so it's beta nt to risk it so as to avoid endurng d mariage rather dan enjoyng it.(ve a feelng it's u)wish u/her all d best.

Yes ,love can grow in a marriage.

when you live with someone, share with them, interact with them , naturally your heart opens up to them, love grows when you go through thick and thin with another individual.

So yes love can grow through marriage.

And I strongly believe in my mother advice. "You can not live on love alone".

"Never ever married a man just because you love him". Married him not only for love but for attributes that will lead to a long and successful marriage"

Those are her words. I absolutely follow it.

If the guy loves her truly and genuinely it would blossom after marriage else trust me when i say she is heading for a sinking sand

Naah, I don't think so. Ur partner's faults and all will look worse when u realise u're STUCK with him (in marriage). I'd dread to marry a guy I didn't truly love. I mean what if, 48 hrs after the wedding, I finally meet the man of my dreams!?