Some men are better than others. Yes, we’re all equal
human beings, but nevertheless one can easily make
the argument that some men are better people than
other men.
An even easier argument to make is that some men
are clearly better suited for being loving partners than
others. Some men simply aren’t cut out for the job.
This isn’t to say that they won’t one day be, but every
man is the wrong man for you at some point in his life
or another.
All people develop over time, learning and adapting
different characteristics over years and years of trial
and error. There are many characteristics that make a
man a great man.
There are many characteristics that make a man a
great man for a woman to have by her side. I’d argue
that the two are the very same.
Here are the 12 characteristics that, in my opinion, if
you find in a male partner prove he’s a keeper:
1. When he looks at you, he really looks at you.
If a man looks at you directly in your eyes, creating an
invisible attraction that connects the two of you, then
he isn’t simply looking at you; he’s looking into your
soul.
He’s trying to get a glimpse of the person that remains
hidden beyond your eyes – the you that you keep to
yourself and yourself alone. He’s trying to find that
essence that makes you, you; he’s looking to glimpse
at your soul, but more than just that… he’s trying to
introduce your soul to his.
There’s a very specific look that two people in love
share. It’s a recognition of the deeper self of the other
person. If your man looks at you in such a way, then
consider yourself a lucky woman.

2. He’s a kind man, but not a pushover.
There are overly-aggressive men, who try to position
themselves above everybody else. There are also
weak-willed men who avoid all commitment and
confrontation. You’d be better off staying away from
both types of men
There is a type of man who manages to combine the
strengths of both power and sympathy. These men are
kind at heart, yet brutal in battle. They don’t start
fights, but finish them. That’s the type of man you
want because he’s the type of man wise enough to
pick and choose the best of both force and
compassion.

3. He’s driven, but patient.
To live a good life, you need success because
success is the standard we judge everything by. You
don’t need to necessarily become a millionaire or a
world champion of sorts, but little successes
throughout life are pertinent to living a life of which
you’re proud.
However, success – just like life – is a long and
winding road. Without patience, you are likely to reach
the end faster, but what the end will have to offer
won’t likely be what you were aiming at. Take the
journey and what it brings as it all comes.

4. He has incredibly ambitious dreams, but is down to
earth nonetheless.
What woman doesn’t want a dreamer who’s both
realistic and humble? It’s probably the ideal
composition of any man – a man who wants the stars,
but understands that he may only get the moon.
Yet, he doesn’t allow the realization to hinder his
ambitions, nor does he allow his successes to blow up
his ego. This sort of man will never stop doing his best
to make your life better, but won’t promise you things
he can’t deliver.

5. He can cook.
Let’s be honest… a man who knows his way around
the kitchen is sexy. Take any average Joe and throw
in some Iron Chef-inspired cooking skills and he gains
at least two points. More than the sexual appeal, a
man who can cook often prepares more of his own
meals, tends to eat healthier and tends to be healthier
overall. A healthy partner is a great partner for
obvious reasons.

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I have all

How come all the 'players' in Hollywood movies have this Xtics? WEIRD

i need to learn how to handle girls cos im too feeble and coward to express my feelings to high standard girls. Lord Help Me

He must be romantic and gud in bed....


Last bullet...He must be able 2 put food on d table.And if he happens 2 be A DANGOTE .....na GODWIN be dat oooo


#IMO

A good man is hard to fine

I got it all...


Tnx to Mama

Cooking koor...he must be john cena on bed.

I've got it all but ur post dos not pass tru d credibility test because u I have doubt in ur No5 point...though I cook very well o but not all men with good qualities can cook ok. Also, I discovered most ladies don't rlly like commitment because they just want to b free from d controls of a man... Abeg woman matter tire me jareee... All of dem na god jus understand dem jor...no serious girl that can bear the hard times of a struggling young man. Too bad!!!

Even if a guy has all these characters, some ladies will still let go of him

Another RUBBISH this morning

If he has all these qualities and doesn't know how to loose my braids.. I can't date him oh.
Two hands are better than one when it comes to braids

raayah:
If he has all these qualities and doesn't know how to loose my braids.. I can't date him oh.
Two hands are better than one when it comes to braids

Can't you go to d saloon and pay them to do it

Back to d topic

No 1 I disagree jawe

a nigga will still look at u eye balls to eye balls,swear with his grandfather's name,call God and still have d mind to look you and still lie

I'm expecting a counter thread very soon titled
MEN, DO NOT LET GO OF A WOMAN THAT HAS THESE 5 CHARACTERS. Copy copy cat everywhere

raayah:
If he has all these qualities and doesn't know how to loose my braids.. I can't date him oh.
Two hands are better than one when it comes to braids

am here for u baby... I can even plait ur hair not just loose dem

Chai!

Hannysmilez:
How come all the 'players' in Hollywood movies have this Xtics? WEIRD

yeah! You said player.that's who they are, and that made it sometimes confusing because they possess or acquire all those nice attribute to fake ladies.not that the attributes are bad but their intensions towards behaving in such manner. Notice; most of them are/were good guys but ladies turned them to be a lion by taking them for granted.