TweezyR:
Pls N/L....i need yr candid advise

am a young lady whom is currently living with a felow lady in ogun state..my pains for this my friend is this she has a boyfriend whom sucks her dry and is stil sucking her..
She came to me one day and told me dat wen i went to wrk her bf came to her and told her to borrow her 5k which she said she doesnt av..out of anoyance he refused eating her food...meanwhile according to her he borrowed 100k earlier las yr in the bid to process his flight ticket...yet til today he hasnt traveled...
Again she told me she was sick n her boyfriend collected money from her to buy drugs buh ate it n came bak for another money which she gave. her question is...is she d one to buy drugs for herself or her boyfriend
my gf is not too fine.shes very black and bony.
most times her bf doesnt like her to see her off..most times wen we hang out together is either he starts pressing his fone or he distances himself from my gf..


the one dat broke d camels bak was wen her bf asked for my name on facebook before my gf..which i told him, he sent a request n started charting me up on watsap, in order to avoid names like BOYFREND SNATCHER,UNGRATEFUL SHEGOAT etc...i told my gf dat am chatn wit her boyfrend on watsap and dat he sent me a request. she said i should not reply n accept his request which i did.
she bursted n started narrating her ordeal which i advised her not knowing that everytn i told her she told her bf.

to cut the story short. Whatever we discussed she tells everytn to her bf and everytn she and her boyfrend discusses she tels me even how they make love and d last time they did. my own is i keep it to myslf n learn from it.but her own is she tels everybody including neighbours of how they make love...

the truth is, am tired..if i keep quiet it wil b like we are keepin malice...if i say,d whole world wil hear wat i said n how i said it

WAT DO I DO..
N/B: she is a secondary school graduate and am a university graduate.

PunkyVeer:
The question should be: how do you stay with someone that thinks she's better than you? This roomie of yours doesn't deserve to live with a haughty cùnt like yourself. Seriously, what does her education background & complexion have to do with her inability to hold secrets about her own fucking life? Sounds like you envy her or maybe you want the mooching boyfriend for yourself. Where your own man at?

Take it easy, lady!

TweezyR:
Pls N/L....i need yr candid advise

am a young lady whom is currently living with a felow lady in ogun state..my pains for this my friend is this she has a boyfriend whom sucks her dry and is stil sucking her..
She came to me one day and told me dat wen i went to wrk her bf came to her and told her to borrow her 5k which she said she doesnt av..out of anoyance he refused eating her food...meanwhile according to her he borrowed 100k earlier las yr in the bid to process his flight ticket...yet til today he hasnt traveled...
Again she told me she was sick n her boyfriend collected money from her to buy drugs buh ate it n came bak for another money which she gave. her question is...is she d one to buy drugs for herself or her boyfriend
my gf is not too fine.shes very black and bony.
most times her bf doesnt like her to see her off..most times wen we hang out together is either he starts pressing his fone or he distances himself from my gf..


the one dat broke d camels bak was wen her bf asked for my name on facebook before my gf..which i told him, he sent a request n started charting me up on watsap, in order to avoid names like BOYFREND SNATCHER,UNGRATEFUL SHEGOAT etc...i told my gf dat am chatn wit her boyfrend on watsap and dat he sent me a request. she said i should not reply n accept his request which i did.
she bursted n started narrating her ordeal which i advised her not knowing that everytn i told her she told her bf.

to cut the story short. Whatever we discussed she tells everytn to her bf and everytn she and her boyfrend discusses she tels me even how they make love and d last time they did. my own is i keep it to myslf n learn from it.but her own is she tels everybody including neighbours of how they make love...

the truth is, am tired..if i keep quiet it wil b like we are keepin malice...if i say,d whole world wil hear wat i said n how i said it

WAT DO I DO..
N/B: she is a secondary school graduate and am a university graduate.

all4naija:

Take it easy, lady!

PunkyVeer:
The question should be: how do you stay with someone that thinks she's better than you? This roomie of yours doesn't deserve to live with a haughty cùnt like yourself. Seriously, what does her education background & complexion have to do with her inability to hold secrets about her own fucking life? Sounds like you envy her or maybe you want the mooching boyfriend for yourself. Where your own man at?

vizkiz:
are you sure its your friend or you? Cuz I don't know how you got to know so much about the shiit happening

TweezyR:



u are so funny..i dint say am better than her..my gf is waisting her time on a man whom wil never marry her..shes living in a world of fantasy...am only advising her i never had an interior motive watsoever. her situation makes me feel sober
u feed a man morning afternoon and night yet he doesnt at least get u a tuber of yam.
i canever envy her cos i av my man who takes proper care of me..who believes am his responsibility and not d other way round.
i dont no hw to insult people buh u are my felow woman reasoning this way...

PunkyVeer:


You sound like a 1st class bytch to me. Period. I don't care about you being a fellow woman. I call it as I see it. You still haven't answered what her black bony frame have to do with secrets. How about answering that?

TweezyR:



Lolzz , funny you. Am not good at abusing people...to me
her bonny frame made her look very masculine n rough...with dat her boyfriend isnt that proud to move about with her publicly..which i noticed severaly

i advise u to try as much as possible to read n digest threads before commenting....
i dint say evrything here...if i have, u would av been shedding tears now even if u are a man.

benedictnsi:
Babe...... Your story is a touching one but when I saw the last sentence, I bursted into laughter..... "She is a secondary school graduate and you are are University graduate"........ I mean, how on earth do you think it will be working out easily.

You level of understanding is far different from hers which is most reason why you should @least be careful with her......

As for her and her boyfriend or Fuckfriend, I will advise you to jettison all they are doing, just mind your own business no matter how hard.

To avoid spreading your news as she does anytime you tell her anything, you have to adjust........ Tell her @least 25% and keep 75% to yourself that's if it should be a secret...... This is my own Logo-mate

TweezyR:





Thank you Benedict..your advice kept me on the right track...so far
God bless you, may you find good answers and advice to your questions..Amen