Sweetlemon:
I hate stories like this walahi!
Who the hell do some "family" think they are to dictate your life partner to them?
Your brother too na sissy. Unless of course if he didn't love his other gf, then he's not a real man for dumping his love just because some selfish family. Mtcheeeew.

In most part of Igbo land that is how marriage is done,by references and it is even working better than all this dating things here and there, I believe that if a man is ready for marriage there is no need for all this dating things for more than 1 month. If a man see a girl and like her in 1 month time he can marry the girl after making enquiries about the girl and her family, the girl can do the same about the man, in 1 - 3 months time you tie the knot. Most family in Nigeria will like their son to marry oyibo girl.

SUGARBEE:
Wow, I also admire the lady... Besides it's definitely true.. No matter how you try, you can't be wayward and still be in control of your education. . . Thumbs up

Deceive yourself.
My gf is not wayward but I am her 6th. She smokes weed a lot (daily) while I don't and she drinks alcohol and she is the second best in her dept (Acct). You won't even know she is drug addicted.

Harbioollah:
500L MCB

Tales by moonlight

How is it Tales by moonlight Bro in Sci and Tech all programs are 5 Years ok includung Science Courses such as MCB OK?

SSpeter:
When My older cousin living abroad was pressurised not to marry a yankee or African American but a Naija babe. He felt bad for a while because he had to break up with his college girlfriend. The task of recommendation was thrown out to every member of the immediate family who was interested. (where I come, we marry via reference so as to ease inquiry into the lady/guy family) being my paddie beause he buys me stuff I joined the race and promised to help in the search days later I forgot everything. My Aunt (Mum's cousin) and my Mum were fed up because the guy often rejected some of the ladies they linked him with.

It was my kid's brother's matric day so I went to stand by him. Looking around I saw so many pretty faces then my cousin came to mind...(although I am not attracted by pretty faces) so I didn't speak to any then something came to my mind I love intelligent girls (If you like look like 'ikwikwi' as long as you can best me in any logical reasoning and analysis I am already in love with you).

So I went straight to the closest school (faculty) which was faculty of sciences, I started staring at the result boards looking for female brains...It was more difficult than I thought cos the school actually removed the names of the student only matric number and result chaiii....so I copied all the top mat numbers who were finalist from all the departments in the faculty. luckily as I was leaving the school (faculty) I noticed students exiting a lecture theatre so I asked a guy which department he said MCB 500level.

I smiled brought out the matric numbers I copied from micro biology and was shocked the five top matric numbers I copied 3 were females. He told me their names nd pointed one to me. She wasn't elegant but not short so I knew she will do. I introduced myself we conversed and she accepted to take a shot with my younger brother nd I. Right there she even told my young bro "ensure you apply ur heart to studies alone"...that comment made me smile. I got her contact and she left.

I travelled back, told my mum then called my cousin. My cousin asked how are you sure is not a flirt? I told him point blank, you can't be wayward and top ur department success requires discipline. My mum called his mum and they chatted with her on phone invited her and when we finally linked them. my cousin told the mum..."this surely will do"...while I was still serving, I attended the traditional weeding... trust me na I collected my percentage for services rendered... ...nothing is free

Na Super Story be this or wetin?

Nice recommendation

Harbioollah:
500L MCB

Tales by moonlight

I wan talk am too, but I say make I just keep quiet.
Maybe MCB reach 500L in some schs

I love dis story it kept me reading with a lot of zeal not wanting to miss any info. At end I just had to ask " abeg na wetin b the name of the naija film".

henribj:
hmm
so do you plan making this your services a nationwide service?
or is it only for family?
#justasking

SSpeter, someone just proposed a business idea to you o.

Harbioollah:
500L MCB
Tales by moonlight

In federal univs of Technology, any course is 5yrs

debola23:


I wan talk am too, but I say make I just keep quiet.
Maybe MCB reach 500L in some schs

My broda leave d idiot e dey clear say e no go skool. very soon e go tell us say e do service for 9months.

Harbioollah:
500L MCB

Tales by moonlight

sharrap! In my skul (FUTO), all courses hav 5yrz duration

SSpeter:
When My older cousin living abroad was pressurised not to marry a yankee or African American but a Naija babe. He felt bad for a while because he had to break up with his college girlfriend.

Does this older cousin of yours have a mind of his own? Of course he does but look, he's breaking up with his college girlfriend, mainly or partly, because his family asked him to?! And why would any woman, let alone one with first class brains want to hitch up with someone who'd, from this trend of things, ask out of their marriage after his family tells him to? Not having a mind of your own is a terrible terrible thing. Yes, inter-ethnic or inter-racial marriage pose challenges to everyone but in the US Nigerian-Nigerian marriages are not perfect things anyway. So the best thing you can do for your cousin is to advise that he ditches whatever plans he's made with the Nigerian girl and return to his college sweetheart (this may be untrue, but white women are slowly burnishing their reputation as better home-keepers than african american and even nigerian american women)and that only he knows whats best for him.

You are jst lucky cos knowledge is not wisdom

and where is your own girlfriend or do you just p.imp for others.

Nelrulez:
Na Super Story be this or wetin?

e dey front page sef.


somebody is being catfished.

@OP: You need to seriously look into opening up a consultancy business that guys overseas can patronize. Good job.

SSpeter:
lemme be cautious with my language....dude it's a university of technology all their courses are 5yrs for Btech they even use "school" and not faculty....ensure you know something before you doubt

lol...as a graduate of FUT..i didnt notice you even said 500l...as graduating in 400lvl is abnormal to me

Sweetlemon:
I hate stories like this walahi!
Who the hell do some "family" think they are to dictate your life partner to them?
Your brother too na sissy. Unless of course if he didn't love his other gf, then he's not a real man for dumping his love just because some selfish family. Mtcheeeew.

Sweetie we have been living like this without hitches, rancour and family dramas...I guess people should stick with a belief that works for them...call it archaic but we re cool with...I guess u are spontaneous and objective...good....just stick with wat works for u

hamzeiy:
lol...as a graduate of FUT..i didnt notice you even said 500l...as graduating in 400lvl is abnormal to me

To some people 5yrs is abnormal...I even heard management courses are also 5yrs in FUT....

Harbioollah:
500L MCB

Tales by moonlight

. FUTO, FUTA

swaggprofessor:
My broda leave d idiot e dey clear say e no go skool. very soon e go tell us say e do service for 9months.

Universities of technologies like Futo, Futa etc, all courses have a duration of five years.

SSpeter:
you can't be wayward and top ur department success requires discipline

Kindah flawed logic there..

SSpeter:
I am a trained architect na bros...you want make them disown me here...although money is not enough

that doesnt mean u cant position ur self towards other businesses....

dangote the richest black man on earth has more than 50 businesses which does!
*anohu ofuebe e kiri mmonwu*

SUGARBEE:
Wow, I also admire the lady... Besides it's definitely true.. No matter how you try, you can't be wayward and still be in control of your education. . . Thumbs up

Obviously you haven't met me. Almost finished with a first class and I'm as wayward as they come.

Intelligence is the new sexy!

Horayce:

Does this older cousin of yours have a mind of his own? Of course he does but look, he's breaking up with his college girlfriend, mainly or partly, because his family asked him to?! And why would any woman, let alone one with first class brains want to hitch up with someone who'd, from this trend of things, ask out of their marriage after his family tells him to? Not having a mind of your own is a terrible terrible thing. Yes, inter-ethnic or inter-racial marriage pose challenges to everyone but in the US Nigerian-Nigerian marriages are not perfect things anyway. So the best thing you can do for your cousin is to advise that he ditches whatever plans he's made with the Nigerian girl and return to his college sweetheart (this may be untrue, but white women are slowly burnishing their reputation as better home-keepers than african american and even nigerian american women)and that only he knows whats best for him.

Bro you have a point...But we don't get married spontaneously. We get married via recommendations or reference and we love it that way. My cousin is happy everyone is happy. I don't have an Immidate family who is divorced or irresponsible. Bro we do our thing selectively...No family drama. We are archaic we love It.....its good to stick with what works for you

SSpeter:
When My older cousin living abroad was pressurised not to marry a yankee or African American but a Naija babe. He felt bad for a while because he had to break up with his college girlfriend. The task of recommendation was thrown out to every member of the immediate family who was interested. (where I come, we marry via reference so as to ease inquiry into the lady/guy family) being my paddie beause he buys me stuff I joined the race and promised to help in the search days later I forgot everything. My Aunt (Mum's cousin) and my Mum were fed up because the guy often rejected some of the ladies they linked him with.

It was my kid's brother's matric day so I went to stand by him. Looking around I saw so many pretty faces then my cousin came to mind...(although I am not attracted by pretty faces) so I didn't speak to any then something came to my mind I love intelligent girls (If you like look like 'ikwikwi' as long as you can best me in any logical reasoning and analysis I am already in love with you).

So I went straight to the closest school (faculty) which was faculty of sciences, I started staring at the result boards looking for female brains...It was more difficult than I thought cos the school actually removed the names of the student only matric number and result chaiii....so I copied all the top mat numbers who were finalist from all the departments in the faculty. luckily as I was leaving the school (faculty) I noticed students exiting a lecture theatre so I asked a guy which department he said MCB 500level.

I smiled brought out the matric numbers I copied from micro biology and was shocked the five top matric numbers I copied 3 were females. He told me their names nd pointed one to me. She wasn't elegant but not short so I knew she will do. I introduced myself we conversed and she accepted to take a shot with my younger brother nd I. Right there she even told my young bro "ensure you apply ur heart to studies alone"...that comment made me smile. I got her contact and she left.

I travelled back, told my mum then called my cousin. My cousin asked how are you sure is not a flirt? I told him point blank, you can't be wayward and top ur department success requires discipline. My mum called his mum and they chatted with her on phone invited her and when we finally linked them. my cousin told the mum..."this surely will do"...while I was still serving, I attended the traditional weeding... trust me na I collected my percentage for services rendered... ...nothing is free

I knw of a gurl hu is wayword nd she is in first class bet it with me she is brilliant so u r wrong saying she cant b wayword nd yet top her class... Waywardness is a different thing brilliancy is also a different thing entirely...

tpiander:
and where is your own girlfriend or do you just p.imp for others.

I have girlfriends though not intimate with any. When am ready for marriage I will get married....I don't believe in long courtship. You should engage in a relationship only when you are ready if not...y are u in it?

MbashrexBashir:





I knw of a gurl hu is wayword nd she is in first class bet it with me she is brilliant so u r wrong saying she cant b wayword nd yet top her class... Waywardness is a different thing brilliancy is also a different thing entirely...

she was invited for a chat. We did our digging before linking...She good and they are happy. but 95% of the brilliant girls I have seen and conversed with are disciplined and responsible...there are always exceptions though

waywardpikin:


Obviously you haven't met me. Almost finished with a first class and I'm as wayward as they come.

Intelligence is the new sexy!

loool...........

swaggprofessor:
My broda leave d idiot e dey clear say e no go skool. very soon e go tell us say e do service for 9months.

Don't just insult people because of your ignorance na. Schools like FUTA,FUTO,FUTMINNA,LAUTECH and other universities of technology offer 5years degree programs leading to the award of B.Tech (Bachelor of Technology) in all courses.