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Choosing A Life Partner by markwealth: 11:34pm On Oct 08, 2015
Marriage in a broad sense can be described as the union between two consenting adults of opposite sex. It is a life-long commitment which if well nurtured will lead to a life of bliss to the man and the woman. It then means that finding that someone who is just right for you is the key to this life of perpetual happiness. Finding a partner cannot be left to luck or destiny. You need to make the effort to know the person better and have shared interests. It is better to know exactly what you are likely going in for and if it is what you can live with go right ahead.

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Below are five qualities to look for in a life partner

1) Maturity

This is one important quality you need to look for in your life partner she/he should be mentally prepared to take on responsibilities of a family and should be capable of taking independent decisions at times of crisis. Physical, emotional and intellectual maturity can be termed as ingredients that will lead to the stability of a relationship in the future. So, find out how matured and mentally prepared she/he is before getting hitched.

2) Good Family Background

This is of utmost importance and can`t be ignored, as marriage is not just the coming together of two individuals but two families. Religion, culture, traditions and values play an important role when it comes to marriage and living under the same roof. A rift can occur and scar the relationship forever . Lifestyle, food habits, religious sentiments, etc are few important factors to be considered.

3) Financial stability

Your partner should have a stable income. What happens if one of you loses your jobs, due to some reason after marriage.

So, it is important that both of you are equally stable. You don’t have to feel uncomfortable discussing money matters ahead of time. For instance, you could talk about your spending habits and find out where you both feel your money should go, etc. This can prevent disagreements later. Also , discus how you and your partner feel about buying, saving.

4) Sense of Humor

Having a partner with a good sense of humors will ease out your worries in difficult times. This gives one the courage to take things light-heartedly and adds zeal to marriage.

Believe it or not, but when the going gets tough, a good sense of humor can take you smoothly through rough situations. Life is so much fun when your partner has a good sense of humor and knows how to be there for you to put a smile on your face.

5) Emotional Compatibility and much more

Be it , good personal hygiene, adjusting nature, physical and emotional compatibility, etc these are all important factors that determine the success of a marriage. Mutual trust and respect help you share things openly, as a couple. Also, ease of communication leads to a long –lasting relationship, which in turn helps you to resolve issues in a mature manner.

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Re: Choosing A Life Partner by jaey(m): 11:37pm On Oct 08, 2015
Hoekayyy cheesy
Re: Choosing A Life Partner by Yksoul(m): 11:45pm On Oct 08, 2015
EMOTIONAL COMPATIBILITY? IT IS BOTH OF U BEING SLOW TO BE ANGRY OR ONE GETS ANGRY QUICKLY THAN THE OTHER?
Re: Choosing A Life Partner by markwealth: 7:38am On Oct 09, 2015
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