[quote author=MyTime3 post=38837876]Meanwhile HAPPY BIRTHDAY @Op @Oliviaarims.... Wish you the very best.

Have fun...[/quote.
Fank yhu...

me ...i am here to take notes and learn .... learning mode turned on

Hoes

misspicy:
Depends on the type of relationship and the time for settling involved,for a lady who is not ready to settle down they can lock all doors buh for a matured lady in need of settling down,its better to kip every doors open

Same goes for guys...

Note: its d reality

. Mr why are u contradicting ursef. If he/she is ready to settle nd serious dat's wen shut all doors. Simple!

Oliviaarims:
Lately,the way some ppl in romantic relationships get possessive of their partners and begin to impose Dos & Don'ts is funny...There are things I hear ppl saying their bf/gf won't permit them to do and I'm like "seriously? I don't see anything wrong in that." And when one partner begins to entertain or continue communications with "toasters" and other admirers,the other party frowns at it. So I'm asking....
Is it advisable for someone in a relationship to keep all other "doors" closed? For sb already dating,to what extent does relations with the opposite sex cross the boundary?
What's ur personal opinion on this...what actions and relations of ur bf/gf,fiance/fiancée with the opposite sex are u not willing to tolerate?










#Philosopher Quëën#

If you relationship is an open one then all doors should be open

Luckygurl:
So when the relationship comes crashing, you'll experience double the pain.

Oh please!!! Being in a relationship doesn't mean you shouldn't have friends of the opposite gender especially when they add positively to your life and ofcourse with no strings attached.

Them never born the guy who go yarn say make I end my friendship with my close male pals

. Luckygal u cn only deceive ursef. Ur bf shuld be ur bestfrnd. Every bestfriend u kip wit anoda guy will surely end in bed sumday. Am a guy nd dat's d truth. Ehn if u knw u can nt end a frnshp 4 a relationshp den u shuld b able 2 end a relatnshp 4 a friendship. Simple as that!

PunkyVeer:
Yes, shut, bolt & hire a bouncer for "the door".

hahahahahaha..... Lmao oooo. Kai u funny die. Bouncer ke!

zaragal:
No pls don't keep all does close as a lady, I was a victim....

All dis relatnship stuff sef..

just bcuz it didn't work 4u doesn't mean it won't work 4odas. Ur just a victim of negative circumstance, nd who knows, u culd be d architect of ur own misfortune

Bamz555:
just bcuz it didn't work 4u doesn't mean it won't work 4odas. Ur just a victim of negative circumstance, nd who knows, u culd be d architect of ur own misfortune

U will be the architect of ur own misfortune ijn...u are very very stewpid idiot

Bamz555:
. Luckygal u cn only deceive ursef. Ur bf shuld be ur bestfrnd. Every bestfriend u kip wit anoda guy will surely end in bed sumday. Am a guy nd dat's d truth. Ehn if u knw u can nt end a frnshp 4 a relationshp den u shuld b able 2 end a relatnshp 4 a friendship. Simple as that!

Dude!! It's pretty obvious, whatever rocks your boat ain't in any way same with mine.
Like seriously
IMHO, this goes on to say a lot about your person...

My previous reply still holds sha...
Take it or leave it
Capische!!!!!!

If ever u would have a relationship then there is no reason for keeping one foolish door open.....if u know u want the doors wide open then do ur analytics without hurting anyone cos derz no way u gonna keep a guy as close friend amd tell me una no go end up doing sometin crazy, im a living testimony to this, on 3 different occasions......so my take is if u ever decided to keep a relationship then all the fucking doors should be kept close cos relationship is meant to be a prerequisite to marriage....it people that gets the definition wrong now and feel it a childs play, ladies and gents, relationship is not even made for you if you arent planning on settling down...so pls if you are in a relationship try as much to jam the door... peace

zaragal:



U will be the architect of ur own misfortune ijn...u are very very stewpid idiot

. Haha. Lolz. Gurl take it P

All doors open
options open
until I say "I do"
26th Dec. 2015...Loading but anything can still happen
And lif continues

misspicy:
Depends on the type of relationship and the time for settling involved,for a lady who is not ready to settle down they can lock all doors buh for a matured lady in need of settling down,its better to kip every doors open

Same goes for guys...

Note: its d reality

If u keep the door open, then u started doing bull,ch,it , this may chase the serious guy away. U jst shot urself in d foot.

PinkBarbie:
It depends sha but

My bf shouldn't spend more than two minutes on the phone with another girl when discussing with me if it's not something important or official.
He shouldn't spend late nights with some girl.

Basically, I would talk to him when I notice someone else is getting the attention I'm supposed to be getting

I really like your type. This is just what my girl does. Im the type that play alot with ladies, they like to hear me talk which makes my girl always jealous. And i love it. She likes to show them she is the real owner .

rahazaqa:
If u keep the door open, then u started doing bull,ch,it , this may chase the serious guy away. U jst shot urself in d foot.

They don't have to be so close... Perhaps, friends from a distance... Friends kept at arm's length.

Om of d opinion that prsctising a closed door relationship is better cos it saves u of d headache of selecting who to b with.
I was chatting wth a friend of mine some months ago. and he tld me he doesnt know who to b wth. He even sent me the two ladies pix.
I however advised he picks who he is comfortable wth.. That shows d problems attached wth double dating

I'm also of the opinion that ties with the opposite sex should be severed once one is in a "serious" relationship. Just like someone mentioned in one of these threads, "try to give that so called friend of the opposite sex a kiss & see if they will reject ". I personally don't believe in keeping female friends.