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What Is A Date? by sweetlove(m): 11:52am On Oct 10, 2006 |
what is a "date"? Let me ask you something, what is a "date"? What do you think that the purpose of a "date" is? Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating", but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner twice as much as you used to". The word "Dating" is simply a word that all of us guys understand to mean as "romantic interactions with women". So I use it. But if you want to have more romantic interactions with women, that does NOT mean that you need to "take women out on dates" in order to do it. Are you with me? I mean, what do couples do a year after they get together, ? They stay home most of the time, do normal things like go shopping, and generally behave like they did before they met. This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is really an amazing concept. It's awesome how powerful it is, and how guys really believe that they need to do it (or similar things) in order to get a woman's attention in a romantic way. Here's the bottom line: If you want a woman to think of you as a "lover", then BE ONE. If you want her to think of you as a provider, then just BE ONE. What you haven't quite realized fully yet is that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a woman, all the "normal" rules go away. If a woman feels that powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with you, just to be in your presence and have your attention. If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all you need to say is "come over here". No dates required. Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3 times a day, and chase her around, then it will be EXPECTED that you continue this pattern, and provide for her. NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a week, giving her flowers, calling her every day, and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about 80% sure that there's another guy in the picture, but guess what? He's the one who SHE calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later, I'm busy now", no dates required. If you want to be a LOVER to a woman, then DO IT. You don't need to wait until the third time out for coffee or tea. You'll learn that ATTRACTION doesn't have a timeline. It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to trigger it, and you don't need a lot of "date ideas" once you do. And now that I've avoided your question for a page or two, let me answer with this: I often take women to do "regular" things with me. I'll take them to the grocery store to shop with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and down to the bookstore to buy a book. First, start BEING the LOVER immediately. Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do together, as long as she's with you. |
Re: What Is A Date? by Free(f): 1:11am On Oct 13, 2006 |
duh!! |
Re: What Is A Date? by Ferlie(m): 12:20am On Mar 15, 2007 |
u no know date for calendar again? |
Re: What Is A Date? by iice(f): 5:19pm On Mar 15, 2007 |
I dont date |
Re: What Is A Date? by t00cUTE(f): 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
going to Mr biggs and tantalizers |
Re: What Is A Date? by tope2000(f): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
t00 cUTE:lmao, once again una no go kill me 4 dis forum with laughter |
Re: What Is A Date? by Tetchiness(f): 10:59pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
*yawn* |
Re: What Is A Date? by Esss(m): 11:05pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
A date This is simply planning on taking a girl to t00 cUTE:on an agreed day and time. Example; Phone call from a guy to a chick. Guy; O girl how na! chick; Hey Atutupuyoyo how are you?? Guy; Fine O and u?? Chick; I'm alryt. \ Guy; I was wondering, Are you busy tomorrow evening? Chick; It depends. why?? Guy; I was hoping to take you out to dinner. Chick; Where? Guy; Tantalizers for starters, Mr. Biggs for the main course and Kilimajaro for dessert. Chick; O.K. I'm not busy. Sure. Guy; Alryt then, i'll pick you up prolly around 4 - 6 in the evening depending on the hold up situation. Chick; Alryt then. I'll be waiting. Guy; It's a date then, see you tomorrow. Classic example of a date or check your calender. |
Re: What Is A Date? by tope2000(f): 11:07pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
roflmao, esss u are ban for 2 much jokes |
Re: What Is A Date? by 2dye4(m): 11:11pm On Jun 20, 2008 |
iice: seriously, u don't date? then how do u do it? pardon my curiousity |
Re: What Is A Date? by t00cUTE(f): 11:59am On Jun 21, 2008 |
Esss: |
Re: What Is A Date? by shylladear(f): 12:55pm On Jun 21, 2008 |
@ess am in |
Re: What Is A Date? by shylladear(f): 12:56pm On Jun 21, 2008 |
t00 cUTE: very funny |
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