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Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by GHoJes: 3:58pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Op, i must commend your working conscience, you admitted your guilt and also used it as a yardstick to always forgive her. Some men would have painted themselves as saints or even ended the union the first time they suspected her. If she abort, you become an accomplice with her, if anything go wrong during abortion you will become the bad one besides your son needs her. The bad part is after the abortion, you might still not move on with her as before not excluding the possibility of the child being yours. Please for your son's sake still keep the matter within till she birth, then do DNA test but relate with her as though you wont forgive her, let her conscience flog her for the time being. Warn her of divorce if she abort, lest she does it behind you. If DNA says its your child afterall and you can forgive and continue, then forgive her as you are not also innocent. loneliness or friends could have caused it or she could have felt led on knowing you do same but you both need counseling. Also watch if she is truly repentant. If you cant forgive its up to you. If you can forgive but for the pregnancy, wait to be sure the baby is not yours. Deal with her because you are you not what african man would do, it could have been you who impregnated another woman. |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by SAMBARRY: 3:59pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Yomieluv:are they not birds of the same feather? Like husband like wife.the husband is as guilty as the wife so which one be send her packing? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by pretydiva(f): 3:59pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Let her give birth 2 d baby n return him back 2 his original father |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by 2goodbobo(m): 4:01pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Those of you calling for the head of his wife, is not fair because the OP said he is no saint either as he has cheated on her too. Forgive her and give her another chance. You should also repent from cheating on her. Both of you deserves a second chance. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by flyca: 4:03pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
plaetton:k |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kx: 4:11pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
He who hath no sin cast the first stone. Op admitted to infidelity too. Would he know how many people's wives he may have done same to while he was "staying warm in other women's arms" away from his wife? This is a family matter. You and your wife need to settle down and decide what's best for the two of you AND FOR YOUR SON MOST ESPECIALLY One key advice: keep your extended family/brothers and sisters, umuna way from your own immediate family decision. Decide and action on what's best for you, your son and your wife. Marriage is not for better alone. Its for better for worse. You can make it for better for sweet instead of worse depending on the choice you make at this first crucial huddle. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by edwife(f): 4:49pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: e mi? Well things change sometimes,too many evil to change a gentle soul to a harsh one.But you know what,i still remain me whenever i log out. |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by SAMBARRY: 5:01pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
ronald4lif:but it is not a shame for the husband he got a taste of his own medicine 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by SAMBARRY: 5:14pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
I like that kain family circle. The parents from both husband and wife side too will be ci parents. See full house cococandy: |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 5:52pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Who else if not you Sambarry 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 5:56pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
edwife: Madam Edwife "emi" is one word not "e mi" As you and Coco no wan pay me to teach una the language, make I kukuma dey expose una dey go 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:21pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
plaetton:If he's also keeping mistresses yes. If not, no. lol @even me? I'm the first you should expect to type something like that. Do you think I'd open my eyes and say what's good for the goose is not good for the gander ever? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:25pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni:Ermm. How much will you pay? |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:27pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
troy20: I bet if the husband was the one that gave woman belle outside and I said she should accept the baby then I'd your example of a good woman. Mtchew 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:28pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
cococandy: Who dey pay? Me or you? |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by coogar: 6:29pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
akinsneh101: kick her out of your life like polio! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:31pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni:See this madam o. Na me wan teach you, I go still pay you? Is your mom Igbo? I heard those people like money too much. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:36pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
cococandy: Hehehehehehehe Coco don turn 419 oo I said you and Edwife don't want to pay me to teach you my language, hence, I will be exposing your blunders like I just did to Edwife But you just hear "pay", your antenna don dey calculate money wey go enter ur pocket Who like money pass sef - Ijebu woman abi Igbo woman 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:38pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni: Okayyyy. I get you now. Don't mind me. My body dey hot for money now. So you won't teach me for free? Well Business between ijebu and Igbo woman must involve some money sha. So how much will charge me? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:38pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
coogar: Unfortunately, polio has been fully eradicated from Naija. So no amount of kicking will drive that woman from her home. For better for worse is what they signed 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:40pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
cococandy: 500 tassan naira Or how did Chilli spell the "tassan" sef |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by coogar: 6:44pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni: she has pissed on their marital vows. put yourself in his shoes - if you catch your wife with a stranger both enthusiastically violating una marriage vows, what would you do? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Ewuro4: 6:44pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
His heart is bleeding.. Edwife get the emergency kit Ole gbe ole gba 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by raumdeuter: 6:46pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Abortion is her own call not your child and not your body |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by edwife(f): 6:47pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni: I cannot pay you never,you will teach me for free. How can I pay you? Emi? I know how to get you to teach me anyway,i am not worried. |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:48pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
coogar: They are both guilty of that naa Besides, he doesn't really mind the infidelity, it was an open marriage afterall. He's more concerned about the baby that's not his. And I am wondering, isn't that to be expected in an open marriage? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 6:49pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Kimoni:Only? That's nothing. Don't worry my accountant will wire you the money when she resumes duty for the day. |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:50pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
cococandy: waiting 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by edwife(f): 6:51pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Ewuro4: I will not save this one,they are both pathetic,i can't stand idiocy especially when people like them are polluting the marriage institution. Ewuro please using this medium to beg you: Ẹ jọọ,Ko t'ope ma as you do it. |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:52pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
edwife: The only negotiation we can have is if you teach me gifs That thing no dey ever work for NL when I paste it |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Kimoni: 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
edwife: Google inspired translation I can't even read what you wrote eddy love |
Re: My Wife Got Pregnant For Another Man.. I Need An Advice by Ewuro4: 6:54pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
edwife: He deserves it, she is a goner.. Case closed. @2nd paragraph ... HUH?? but I have an idea what you're talking about. |
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