abbey621:


Why not? With the right training and legal documents anyone can own a gun, even in 9ja!

Not everyone except you want people to use same weapon for robberies and kidnapping; in nigeria there is no way you can get a criminal once he leaves the scene unlike America

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

relax.... Be careful wad u wish for.

Dandeson1:
he should stop ARMED ROBBERS from raping his wife so that they will kill him let's be reasonable first, she bn raped and she bn a widow which one is better, and easier to overcome





Chai...














if Na just me……… I will even ask dem to do anal style on her self.

Chai...dia ris God o

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Shut up! Ugly girl.

dapsonlou:


Finally a sensible Nigerian. The Man need seriously Counseling not a Pastor. A professional. I was Robbed at Rutgers university Parking lot with my X gf once. No one was raped, but our relationship didnt make the Experience. She felt I should have done more, I felt her flashyness attracted them.

Rutgers is a top school. Where you there for grad school? How did you finance yourself? What score did you get on the GMAT?

may b he is waiting to take her for HIV test after 6 months window period BT even at DAT he should have open up

4stylz:


Not everyone except you want people to use same weapon for robberies and kidnapping; in nigeria there is no way you can get a criminal once he leaves the scene unlike America

Of course not everyone can get a gun, only those able to pass the legal barriers. I'm in full support of legal gun ownership but only if due process is followed. Every gun needs to be registered and tracked, we are not there yet in Nigeria but some people do own guns legally.

Prayers is the only solution to this problem.

that man is not wicked.

that man is terribly traumatised.

they should watch him well, he may commit sucide soon.

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

If he had fought back to protect the wife, the woman would have become a wedow.
Not being able to protect the wife are one of the things that has made him withdrawn.
They need counselling and may God give them understanding and strenght to overcome this mental torment.

Another case of women are always right. Jesus what is the world turning to? Do the people saying all sort of things no that a man has to be mentally prepared for sex? It's just been 6 months for God sake, if it was the man that was in this position, women (so called women) will say the man should be considerate.
I survived a bus accident last year but it was towards this year ending I overcame the shock. Its obvious those shouting on the man have not witnessed a life and death issue not to talk about being disgraced as a man. The husband needs counselling and TImE, this is just beyond sex.
I guess kids of this generation have no heart to understand the man's pain.

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Protect his wife? With what ?
It's very painful. I am sure the man would find it difficult to 4give himself. But he should move on.

D man needs a psychologist . Am not sure he loves DAT woman sha

I don't see the problem.

Clearly the man has detached sexually from the wife. If wifey can't hang, if schwang is that critical then file for divorce and marry someone else that'll ride her like a farm animal.

Life's too short.

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko




God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Whats this that u r saying... A man can't overcome the guilt of having failed his family and call u that ego... Do you know all that's up in his head? D lady is not the only one suffering here... I bet the man sees himself as a failure, what right has he over a wife he couldnt protect eh! Abeg never choose sides in issues as dis... In most cases,The man needs to forgive himself first, before he would b couragious enough to even look at his wife...

Best advice is dat they, the couple seek proffessional attention, something we lack here in naija... #pointingfingers

redcliff:


you are speaking too much english. what does cat and bell have to do now biko

the thing tire me self

That omotayo123 sounds like the type of girl that expects her husband to die for her only for her to mourn for a year and then remarry. My dear stop following sex freaks and look for a real man, no real man will have sex with his wife after such situation until after sometime. Men need mental balance to have sex, we are not like women who can sleep with 10 men a day by just laying on the bed...

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

You have received enough lecture for a day,let me save mine for another person that can't guide his/her write ups like you

Abbey2sam:



all i can say is that the man is a useless man with no human feelings

u dp says it all...wasted drunk

none of my business tho i'm instructed to let the dead bury their dead but let them go their separate ways, most of married people are married to the flesh, their marriage means nothing, there's no bond between most married people, like I said again, not really my business, before you say anything you have no understanding of about me, just know marriages has to be ordained and sealed in heaven, if its not, yall just f#$king

Dats miserable he shld b considerate.wot if he ws asked to sex a female robber in her wifes presence hw dos he tink d wife wud feel .wot I tink she shld let dos he respect knw abt it so she cud knw her stand she dosnt deserv such punishmnt

Please let her report the case to her pastor and seriously pray about it.

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

But bae I think u should join the NPF cos u are a bit waistless with huge reserve of stomach fat

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Not ego, is an inexperienced man who has seen little of this world before marrying, its his type that shout virgin! virgin! virgin! What he dosent know is that he aint seen shit yet, even his daughter can still be raped in this world, is it not someone that was raped and even slaughtered a few days back at ibadan? See tell your sister to also grow up, she should stop calling people to talk to him and all that thrash, and dont waste your time talking to any pastors because most pastors have lived very secured predictive lives but they will try to give you advise authoritatively. Tell her to give him a while (she should travel to stay with a relative for some months or at least leave that house for now, she should not return until he asks for her and before she does she should ask them to pack out of that house to another place). Now if the baga dosent ask her to come back after 3 months she should divorce him and move on with her life - this is where it is good if a woman had focused on her career and has one otherwise she cant even think of this option.

Its well! She shld just go down on her knees she shld pray to God for divine restoration!

Valeree:

What if you were not ready to die at the time...

You can never be ready to die!
Whats matters is what you dying for

Omotayor123:
Men and their Useless Ego.

must U generalize it?

If I were in the man's shoes (God forbid!), I'm not sure I can get my dick to stand again to make love to the woman, or maybe it will take a long time to overcome. The psychological damage is just too much for sensitive guys like me. It's not a matter of being inconsiderate or wicked. My brain would send all sorts of neutralising negative signals to my dick whenever I attempt to make love to her. It's really unfortunate.

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Do you think its easy for the man to handle such complex situation.

Don't you get the mental imbalance he is experiencing and the emotional trauma he is going through?

Accusing the man wrongly in this situation is an inhumane act to do.

U guys are too harsh on omotayor123
that's her own opinion. u knw ppl view things from different perspectives.

jydmak:
U guys are too harsh on omotayor123

that's her own opinion. u knw ppl view things from different perspectives.

They are not harsh at all. I love the critics.

And most importantly, I hate to see women suffer.. I can't bare it.
Tnx anyway

OLUJOSHINS:



must U generalize it?

No vex Abeg