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Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Guyman02: 3:18pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Advise the man to seek help from a from a professional counselor. the two of them need to overcome the trauma. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
jydmak: Yes o and looking at her profile pix you will see that she is a small girl, please you guys should leave Omotayor alone. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by dblaisepascal(m): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
sandrajazmin:'. Ur abbreviation affected ur knowledge of spelling' please work on it. #no disrespect 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Omotayor123(f): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
wristbangle:What upset me was the fact that he had treat the woman like it was all her fault . instead of thinking of way forward with her, he is only making her feel miserable. I hate to see women suffer. I can't stand it. I hope you understand. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 3:22pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123:Eyaaaaahhhhj |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 3:26pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123:were u the one raped ma'am? Who said he was treating her like it was her fault? How can he do that when he was present...he should be undergoing some psychological trauma.... Nawa u ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 3:27pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Your comment and your point are parallel elements. You can either admit you goofed or you can stand by your comment. You can't do both. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Kotay: 3:30pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
consultancy: God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by wristbangle: 3:31pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123: No I dont. There is no place where it is stated in the story that the man had to treat her like it's her fault. I also hate when women are being maltreated but remember the man is still under the derogatory obligation of what happened to his wife. He needs time to heal and this can only be achieved through series of counsel and mentoring. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Aitee1: 3:35pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Get a diildo Some sef dey do the work pass man |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by sweetgala(m): 3:36pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
chibyke0: There is no suggestion the man is cheating, he is going through a most post-traumatic stage. Many people have not been faced with life altering experiences, the fear of imminent death, the situation of helplessness. The disappointment of not being able to protect where you swore an oath to do such. As they say, "if a dog kills your child, you may view stop viewing them as man's best friend" 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Omotayor123(f): 3:37pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
wristbangle:The OP said the woman wishes she had been killed by the robbers instead. Imagine how she must have felt being rejected by her husband for six months after such experience... I only put myself in her shoe for few seconds. I couldn't bare it, it's heart breaking. I get your point anyways. It's none of their fault. Let the man come around and they should both see a Counselor. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by oluymc(f): 3:42pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
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Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by akinsmyk(m): 3:47pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123: You have a very good point. That was easy for you to write because you've never experienced that..I pray you don't. I am sure the man is not trying to punish the woman, its just kind of psychological. Don't u know watching d whole show is traumatic too. Its not easy. He might keep having the flashes and imagination of the robbers on his wife. If he remembers that, his mood might changed even if he was in mood for it before. They both need to go for counselling. The husband needs help too...its not ego or pride, its psychological. The man is bleeding inside 3 Likes |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by chaxking(m): 3:47pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Dy should go for counselling simple, stop blaming d man, he too is going tru d same emotional phase as d wife, u ladies are jst quick to judge a man nd take sides with ur gender without knwin wat it takes to be a man. Omotayor123: |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by crystalash6590: 3:49pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
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Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Rexnegro(m): 3:53pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
consultancy:Easier said than done....no woman I repeat no woman including my future wife worth my life except my mother...u can abuse my gf, wife etc n I will just look on but say u abuse my mother who washed my infant head, breastfed me for months ,if I don't sleep she won't sleep, if I haven't eaten she won't eat etc I go fight u even if u hold a gun......op regards to her may God give the lady the wisdom to go about it. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by AdaMeme(f): 3:54pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
To Be Honest Its pathethic Probably she showed sign of enjoying it that's why the man is pissed Quote me Anywhere |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 3:55pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Am beginning to understand the body language |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Omotayor123(f): 3:55pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
akinsmyk:I understand.. Thanks. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by chaxking(m): 3:56pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Don't mind women dy jst feel dy are d victim of every circumstance akinsmyk: |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by xtervaganza(m): 3:59pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
consultancy:big mouth |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by zebebe: 4:01pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
it is uncalled for for the man to treat the woman in such manner. what happened has happened he should let that go and forget through making intimate love with his wife. or is it because he saw it live? what about several men that has slept with her b4 she married him or if he was not there to watch the barbaric scene? so, my say is that he should let that feeling go and should start serious love with his wife Jesus is Lord |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by stanvesco(m): 4:03pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Manager123: my dear dis is a very crios issue.. Its called cuckolding. Many erotic stories are written about it. Response to cuckoldin is usualy 2 ways. 1.excitement 2.shock now ur bg sister isnt telin u d whole story. If u probe deeply, dey may av tried 2 make love,and he couldnt get an erektion. And hes given up now? They need to see a therapist as soon as posible eiyaaa sumtyms i wonda if bin a bad boy,and tasting plenty women b4 mariage is d best tin. I saw a couple 1ce, d man looses erection totaly |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by wristbangle: 4:05pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
happney65: Your statement lacks pity, conscience and diplomacy. Are u sure u are a human being? 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
may God help me not be in such situation...i might end up shot to death... ...may God protect our women... |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by wristbangle: 4:07pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
AdaMeme: You are right |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Yet more nonsense talk. So, because You hate to see women suffer men should suffer as well? You want people to understand your point when you yourself can't show understanding to a man in mourning. Only women's suffering are to be acknowledged right? |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Ndukwe007(m): 4:10pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
ITS unfortunate, he should know the woman had suffered in the hands of the robbers. A part of him sees the rape like she enjoyed it or like she had cheated on him. men and their ego self. he should seek for physiological help to help him get over it. 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by happney65: 4:10pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
wristbangle: But why did he decided not to sleep with her for the past 6Months?Which kain rubbish be that?Did she rape herself?I mean was it a fault of hers?What if it was female robbers that came in and decided to rape the husband would the wife say she does not want the husband to sleep with her again cos some female robbers came and raped her husband..What is good for the goose is good for the gander..The Man is just incosiderate at all.. |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
raayah:Babe... I think omotayor123 is very right. I feel what she feels. Put yourself in the woman shoe for few seconds. She's not blaming the husband for not standing up to fight for her. But for the fact that he had to add to her pains. Instead of going for counselling and forget everything. He's treating her like trash thereby making her feel miserable... 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband No Longer Makes Love To Her Because... by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
The man is barbarian. She should file for divorce, plan to travel out of the country and start a new life with her kids. |
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