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Save A Soul: HIV Infection by angel21(f): 1:49pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
MY FRIEND WAS INFECTED WITH HIV VIRUS AFTER SHE WAS GANG LY RAP BY ARM ROBBERS 4MONTHS AGO. SHE WENT FOR TEST LAST WEEK SHE WAS TESTED POSITIVE. YOUR ADVICE IS URGENTLY NEEDED B4 SHE COMMIT SUICIDE |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by brutal(m): 1:52pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
wicked criminals!so sad.she should embrace jesus. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by izeek(m): 2:07pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
what is the assuarance that it was the robbers that infected her and not the other way round? |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by yme1(f): 2:13pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
blood of God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! only God can help her in this situation |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by angel21(f): 2:13pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
thank you, izeek the lady in question is a qualify nurse in one of the General hospital in d country I'm very sure she was negative b4 d incident |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by webpro(m): 2:24pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
rapped by robbers na reasons for HIV infected Nigerians, anyway no need for suicide, HIV is a virus not diseases, she can live wit it all her life being healthy offcourse. let her go for counsellng |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Nobody: 2:32pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
damn! God have mercy! |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by findjobuba: 6:17pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
there is no need for her to commit sucide, do not mind what pple would have to say, u must embrace christ, take heart, remain focus and you will achieve anything you would have set 4 urself. May the lodr b your strenght |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Czarskit(m): 6:51pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
~ Thats bad news ~ Miracles do happen but not at death. ~ |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by 190: 10:17pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
man its not SAFE A SOUL its SAVE A SOUL anyway i dnt reply on HIV threads I run away from dem, i dnt wana get infected by replyin 2 dem so im out zooms off in my yaris! |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by SeanT21(f): 10:20pm On Apr 27, 2009 |
This is not the end of her life. She still has a long way to go. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by yjay(f): 2:12pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
prayers i think will be most useful to her right now, goodluck! and for the criminals, BASTARDS!!!!!!!! |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by argent(f): 3:01pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
Having the virus is not the end of life. She can still live and enjoy her life. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by yme2(f): 3:04pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
yeah that is true |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by spikedcylinder: 3:14pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
Most infected people claimed to have been raped. How are you going continue to live a positive, healthy life is you don't take responsibility for your actions, change and try and move on? |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by manoy(m): 3:37pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: Hmn,expert! |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Feelitx(m): 3:50pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
Why put and end to your life over a disease ? People live with HIV and are doing well in all aspects of their lives. You just need to be more disciplined.When she kills herself, what happens to the affected ? |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 7:38pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
Let she be on ARV drugs ,as a nurse, she stands a better chance to know what to do naa! |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by bluespice(f): 7:51pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
a nurse knows hiv is not the end of her life |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Tatase(f): 9:02pm On Apr 28, 2009 |
I think of course she needs prayers but most of all she needs encouragement that her life is not necessarily over, and that there are people who have been living with it for years etc. There are support groups all over Nigeria where she can meet others living with HIV (usually voluntary counseling and testing centers should give this info out or if not NACA/SACA can probably give info). It's not a death sentence like it used to be. She definitely needs counseling and support from people who have been in her position. Obviously continuing as a nurse might be difficult, I'm not quite clear on the policy about HIV-positive practicing medical personnel is in Nigeria but she can go into health education and there are so many NGO-type opportunities for people living with AIDS to serve as consultants and peer educators and mentors. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Nobody: 3:06am On Apr 29, 2009 |
spikedcylinder: I SECOND THAT i have heard too many stories about people being raped by armed robbers who were HIV positive, i think some people use that excuse to come out of the closet. anyway, i dont think she can ever work as a nurse agaian but at least she will have access to the right treatment. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 8:24am On Apr 29, 2009 |
spikedcylinder:You'd better stop that crusade, what's that suppose to mean, if claimed to be a victim, whats the beef, afterall a girl that was tricked against her wills to go without condom can claim a rape victim. Nevertheless, there 're many ways to contract the virus and its quite pathetic. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by spikedcylinder: 8:36am On Apr 29, 2009 |
Igwe.: I don't think you got my point, I will explain again. In our society, being sexually active is frowned upon and seen as a taboo. This is why, when girls get pregnant, they say they were raped. When a girl of 16 gets a new boyfriend, she starts by telling him she's a virgin and then later says she's not one because she was raped. When, in actual fact, she's been having sex since she was 12 and enjoying it. To cover up for that, she tells her new boyfriend that she was raped by her grand father's uncle. Same thing applies to HIV infected women. They feel its a bad thing to be sexually active and when they manage to contact a disease from their activeness, guilt sets in. Hence, to assuage their guilt, they say they were raped. If you start a healing and prolonged process by lying to yourself and not taking responsibility for your actions, you are only deceiving yourself. This is not to say that some people are not truly raped. I hope you get it now. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by goodass(m): 9:09am On Apr 29, 2009 |
@ OP d importance of her will to live cant b over-emfasized. having said that, there are services available 4 pips livin wt HIV. i know of an N.G.O one at Obanikoro, name is Hope World Wide (i can give you a contact, just buzz my YIM). Also she can go to the NACA office at Yaba. d earlier she starts d berra. al d best to u n ur frnd |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 9:17am On Apr 29, 2009 |
spikedcylinder:I got your point spiky , for the fact the person is sick and needs our help to survive is enough for us to jettison all kinds of negative thoughts, we ‘d learn to rejoice with our brothers and sisters when things are moving fine for them and also sympathize with them when reverse has assumed the case. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by spikedcylinder: 11:13am On Apr 29, 2009 |
It doesn't also mean people shouldn't take genuine responsibility for their actions. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 12:21pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
spikedcylinder:Reserve this your advice for Adam, he ’d be needing it when next he tastes the apple. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by spikedcylinder: 2:59pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Sure. Are you Adam? |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 4:33pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
If I were Adam , I'd take it without complaint. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by spikedcylinder: 4:38pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
Aha! So maybe the advice was for you after all. |
Re: Save A Soul: HIV Infection by Igwe9(m): 4:42pm On Apr 29, 2009 |
spikedcylinder:How? |
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