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Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:41am On Oct 15, 2015

I want 2 start by thanking mr seun and co,who brought out this platform 4 interactn and more,also 4 d NLANDERS 4 ur advices on ppls problms,God wil reward u all,am a graduate and working so i have this problem and i decided 2 share it here,hoping 2 get advice,now d problem is abt relationship,i believe dat when someone enters into relatshp is when he/she is ready 4 marriage,now am planning 2 start a relatshp but am SCARED,i hate d word "EX",i have many guys as friends but none as intimate,sometimes i wil be thinking hw am gonna get married,i hate cheating and unfaithful man cos am a one mans woman,yea and i cant bear it.and if giving it a trial,how wil i identify d real man and not a player.tanx alot...

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Re: Advice Needed Please by ireneony(f): 10:43am On Oct 15, 2015

follow ur heart and do what u know will be good for u

Re: Advice Needed Please by tosyne2much(m): 10:43am On Oct 15, 2015

I wish I were relationship expert but I'm not

Lemme see what the person below me has to say

Re: Advice Needed Please by falconey(m): 10:44am On Oct 15, 2015

hmmm identify a real man not a player?

What's your definition of 'real man' ? I believe by that you mean your taste of a man.

Different ladies fancy different attributes in men, we don't know what you fancy, its hard to say for me.

FYI we are all players the problem is we don't play as a team (we don't work out our relationship/marriage Together.).

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Re: Advice Needed Please by donTbone(m): 10:44am On Oct 15, 2015

Re: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:44am On Oct 15, 2015

I think you need to know the bitter truth which is; "No man is an angel."

But when love is involved, the wildest being becomes tame and the tamest being wild. I will advice you get a purpose other than marriage. Get something doing and work toward actualizing your dreams and visions.

When you get yourself busy with something, the right man will come to you. Have this in mind, your destiny and happiness here on earth is not tied to anyone but you. Marriage is not an achievement, rather a commitment that widens your chances of living fulfilled in life.

Goodluck...

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Re: Advice Needed Please by ShutTheFhuckUp: 10:44am On Oct 15, 2015

Re: Advice Needed Please by 2dice(m): 10:46am On Oct 15, 2015

Players
Ok
C.Ronaldo is a Player
Kobe is a Player
Even Mikel is a Player (his babymama can Testify) grin

So how on earth won't you know diss guys grin

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Re: Advice Needed Please by vizkiz: 10:47am On Oct 15, 2015

op, answer my question carefully. Which of those chicks on your dp are you? I have my reasons for asking

Re: Advice Needed Please by BlackrulesDworld(m): 10:49am On Oct 15, 2015

Your personality is like a magnet, the type of men you attracts depend on your personality level. Work on it.

Re: Advice Needed Please by shortgun(m): 10:51am On Oct 15, 2015

Experience is the best Teacher

Re: Advice Needed Please by Naff24(f): 10:52am On Oct 15, 2015

2dice:
Players
Ok
C.Ronaldo is a Player
Kobe is a Player
Even Mikel is a Player (his babymama can Testify)
So how on earth won't you know diss guys

U be confirmed werey grin

Re: Advice Needed Please by jmoore(m): 10:54am On Oct 15, 2015

Re: Advice Needed Please by BlackrulesDworld(m): 10:56am On Oct 15, 2015

Life success is for the brave. Why should you be scared of what you just want to venture into? Never let your aspirations become your failure.

ozy4christ:
I want 2 start by thanking mr seun and co,who brought out this platform 4 interactn and more,also 4 d NLANDERS 4 ur advices on ppls problms,God wil reward u all,am a graduate and working so i have this problem and i decided 2 share it here,hoping 2 get advice,now d problem is abt relationship,i believe dat when someone enters into relatshp is when he/she is ready 4 marriage,now am planning 2 start a relatshp but am SCARED,i hate d word "EX",i have many guys as friends but none as intimate,sometimes i wil be thinking hw am gonna get married,i hate cheating and unfaithful man cos am a one mans woman,yea and i cant bear it.and if giving it a trial,how wil i identify d real man and not a player.tanx alot...

Re: Advice Needed Please by Afrok(m): 10:56am On Oct 15, 2015

Real man or Player?
Well, NO MAN IS PERFECT...

Re: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 11:12am On Oct 15, 2015

HenryDion:
I think you need to know the bitter truth which is; "No man is an angel."

But when love is involved, the wildest being becomes tame and the tamest being wild. I will advice you get a purpose other than marriage. Get something doing and work toward actualizing your dreams and visions.

When you get yourself busy with something, the right man will come to you. Have this in mind, your destiny and happiness here on earth is not tied to anyone but you. Marriage is not an achievement, rather a commitment that widens your chances of living fulfilled in life.

Goodluck...

Wow. Bravo! This is deep & so on point. Marriage truly is not an end all, be all like some people believe. One should be complete within themselves & self-sufficient 1st, before even having such thoughts.

Re: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 11:14am On Oct 15, 2015

Re: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 15, 2015

PunkyVeer:

Wow. Bravo! This is deep & so on point. Marriage truly is not an end all, be all like some people believe. One should be complete within themselves & self-sufficient 1st, before even having such thoughts.

the bolded is so true sis.

Re: Advice Needed Please by donholy28(m): 11:17am On Oct 15, 2015

watch football matches and u will see d players

Re: Advice Needed Please by Vinshu(f): 11:21am On Oct 15, 2015

Op,

Marriage is not by force! It's not a Ph.D or a Visa to America or Ticket to Heaven!

Neither is Marriage an open cheque worth $1,000,000

So, I would advice you leave relationship and marriage for now and focus on your career and getting rich! Then surely, the true one who you would love and maybe* get married to would come around.

Your post clearly shows you ain't ready! If you are, you won't come here for advice. And a relationship is not something you choose to start. It just happens. That which you choose to start, you end up as an Ex.

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Re: Advice Needed Please by 2dice(m): 11:28am On Oct 15, 2015

Naff24:
U be confirmed werey

Na u dey be my Oga@the top for that Aspect grin

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 9:55pm On Oct 15, 2015

HenryDion:
I think you need to know the bitter truth which is; "No man is an angel."

But when love is involved, the wildest being becomes tame and the tamest being wild. I will advice you get a purpose other than marriage. Get something doing and work toward actualizing your dreams and visions.

When you get yourself busy with something, the right man will come to you. Have this in mind, your destiny and happiness here on earth is not tied to anyone but you. Marriage is not an achievement, rather a commitment that widens your chances of living fulfilled in life.

Goodluck...

thanks so so much 4 ur advice but remembr i said am a graduate and also working,

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Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 9:59pm On Oct 15, 2015

2dice:
Players
Ok
C.Ronaldo is a Player
Kobe is a Player
Even Mikel is a Player (his babymama can Testify)
So how on earth won't you know diss guys

hahahahaha pls can u be serious now,u kw want i mean by player,ok tanks,waiting 4 ur own advice pleeeese

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:01pm On Oct 15, 2015

vizkiz:
op, answer my question carefully. Which of those chicks on your dp are you? I have my reasons for asking

hahahaha,i wil post my pix later k

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:04pm On Oct 15, 2015

BlackrulesDworld:
Your personality is like a magnet, the type of men you attracts depend on your personality level. Work on it.

wao,my dear thank u so so much,dats y i posted it here so dat u guys can help me out,thank u once again

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:06pm On Oct 15, 2015

shortgun:
Experience is the best Teacher

hmm

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:10pm On Oct 15, 2015

BlackrulesDworld:
Life success is for the brave. Why should you be scared of what you just want to venture into? Never let your aspirations become your failure.

yea tanx dear

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:17pm On Oct 15, 2015

Afrok:
Real man or Player? Well, NO MAN IS PERFECT...

Re: Advice Needed Please by ozy4christ(f): 10:24pm On Oct 15, 2015

PunkyVeer:

Wow. Bravo! This is deep & so on point. Marriage truly is not an end all, be all like some people believe. One should be complete within themselves & self-sufficient 1st, before even having such thoughts.

thanks dear but remembr i said am a graduate with two degrees and also working,

Re: Advice Needed Please by Nobody: 10:28pm On Oct 15, 2015

ozy4christ:
thanks dear but remembr i said am a graduate with two degrees and also working,

But that wasn't directed at you though, just in general terms & to stress out the importance of the message he was conveying.

Re: Advice Needed Please by shortgun(m): 10:36pm On Oct 15, 2015

ozy4christ:
hmm

I can teach u everything u need to know about men.
Don't worry ; its a free lesson.

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