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| Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 2:30pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
My friend has been seeing dis girl for like 2 yrs. She liked his person but he was in for the boobs and the yansh.  He got a good job early dis year in elf and he's doing well for himself. He's planning to get married next year but he can't marry her. He's bin thinking of letting her go since he cant marry her but he wants to do it nicely. I, Rudebouy Akparino, den advised him to settle her financially, like expand her business or sth(she owns a beauty shop), or maybe drop her a lump sum of doe like a pay-off. House, wot do u guys think? Is dat a nice way to say good bye? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Atal atal na im bad. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by 4everGrand(m): 2:38pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
U see life? The dude has already enjoyed what is meant for the married, so... So settlement can take d place of the investment d babe has put in d 'relationship', isoryt. Let him go ahead then. |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Lol....is ur friend rich enaf to pay her a lump sum?  2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Stephansmily(f): 2:38pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Is she a prostitute  No. I don't hv any advice for ur friend...bt I pray he ends up marrying a hoe1 Like |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by falconey(m): 2:48pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Stephansmily: no man will love to marry a hoe, we find out after marriage. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by fruityjojo(f): 2:48pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Chai after two years! Time she would have invested in a real relationship  |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by misspicy(f): 2:48pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Mad fellows,everywhere |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Wicked # |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by ShutTheFhuckUp: 2:54pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
so af†a yanshinq her for 2years, i†z n0w yhu now see u can† marry her? May 0qun fiñqer u & dah† ur frnd. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Ur friend should go to hell o jare.....he ad it in mind dah he wasn't going to marry her,so y did he waste the girl's time for two years?? Can his foolish money buy 2yrs back??useless guys like ur friend are the ones dah would av spoilt several girls life sexually and start asking God for a virgin as wife. 5 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Since he can't/won't marry her, please, yes, do give her a lump sum of money Pidggin you already know how I feel about these things; that geh is a silly fish for being in that kinda relationship |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 2:57pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Stephansmily: Why do u hate dem niggas so much? E good? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Stephansmily(f): 3:03pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: Wat ur friend is about to do..is one ov d reasons I hate dem guys. My advice to him is...he shud get a rod and stick it up his a$s..den sit on it.. slowly..slowly..den pounce on it pretty hard! 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 3:04pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Fruityjojo, Harbosede02. Day were both dating and he neva promised to marry her. So I dont think she wasted dose 2yrs, not after she gets an upgraded business venture. Really? Is dat really a waste after all? Besides, MUST all relationships end in marriage? Does a man lose his right to end a relationship becos the chic he's been with has invested 2yrs of her life in the same relationship? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 3:07pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Stephansmily: Hahaha! U get mouth. I love ur anger. Its obvious ur under 25. No worry, by the time Stephanie Okoronkwo don clock 35 and counting and still single and ya mama and papa come begin day shop for husband for you sebi u go tell dem say "I hate dem guys ni?" I laff in ibibio! |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Stephansmily(f): 3:11pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: Quote me one more time, nd get banned for life! |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by umehmj(m): 3:13pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
tell your friend karma will come hammering at him. he should have made his stand on marriage known to the girl before they start. I have told a girl frankly i ain't into the relationship for marriage and she was cool with it and our relationship was open. your guy should have done that instead of giving the babe false hope 4 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by agarawu23(m): 3:14pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy:he should also pay for her wasted time and years too. Why waste her time with your own selfish reason ? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 3:18pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
umehmj: Der was no false hope anywia. Marriage was neva part of dia discussion and he neva promised her marriage. Karma neva catch all d babes way day dump broke/average guys for richer guys na my piro way karma want catch? Abi na witch hunting ni? 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
This is pure act of wickedness! Am sure she was there for that nigga! I swear i cant suffer with a guy av done that several occassion i was beaten up cheated upon now am out m been begged now God forbid i shd b purnshed if i go bck! Mehn its painful ur frnd doesnt kno who he wud end up wit Tell ur frnd to watch houseful 2010 an india movie Whr d unfortunate guy married a deccent girl only to find out she is loose nd a flirt she only pretended nd used the guy  I hope ur frnd wont end up wit a prentender who is so smart enough to play on ur frnds weak point and intelligence  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by prideofscience: 3:29pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
EGBELO SI FRONT PAGE. KI WAN TI OLUWA JOGUN IMAN FUN DASI |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 3:33pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: If u call 2 yrs a waste, wot will u call law and medical students dat date all tru dia skool days and then the relationship dies afta skool? Is dat also a waste? Since when has breaking up a relationship become a crime? Not to talk of upgrading the babe's business join sef. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by agarawu23(m): 3:36pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: We already knew his intention towards the Lady so what are we talking about again ? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by umehmj(m): 3:37pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: marriage wasn't part of their plan so why waste our time here? the only reason your guy don't wanna marry her is because he probably has a serious girl and this other girl is just a side chick. guys just complicate things for themselves. |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Pidggin(f): 3:40pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: I know you na , but it may not be the girl's fault, you know how guys deceive some girls. I wonder why he can't marry her, silly man. |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Seriously, I'd shove his money where the sun don't shine. Who needs charity? He doesn't wanna marry her, then bye. Where does he get off thinking she needs a pacifier? He needs to end it the normal way & not act like he's some irreplaceable somebody when he's not. The nerve of it all. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by umehmj(m): 3:41pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: marriage wasn't part of their plan so why waste our time here? the only reason your guy don't wanna marry her is because he probably has a serious girl and this other girl is just a side chick. guys just complicate things for themselves. and wait! you said the girl runs a beauty saloon and your guy met her when he was a broke ass nigga. your guy na gold digger! that explains why he is worried about breaking up from a girl he never discussed marriage with..... on a second thought your guy did discuss the future with that girl to get her money and into her pants. guy no dey tell us half baked story here. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by akike: 3:41pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
rudebouy: Oh please! Why don't your substitute her for your sister She must have had some form of expectation for staying with him for two years. He should have at least told her right then instead of playing her along. If she wanted him, nothing he said would have stopped her. I hope his daughters get it worse than the lady in question. 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by rudebouy: 3:44pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
agarawu23: Guess "paying her off" is the wrong word. But really is it a crime to show some "financial appreciation" to the lady dat took care of his sexual needs for 2 yrs? Cos dats the way I see it. To me, its more wicked to just leave her like dat without at least helping her out in some way especially when u have the funds to do so. Or would you have preferred he broke up and left her just like dat? |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by pet4ril(f): 3:48pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
Nothing. ..I only want him to say Amen to this.......... may he witness another man doing thesame thing to his daughter /siblings in the nearest future  rubbish2 Likes |
| Re: Is It Okay To Settle Her If He Can't Marry Her? by thorpido(m): 3:50pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
I just wish girls can be smarter to separate wheat from chaff on time.Unfortunately,girls in love can't decipher when the relationship isn't going anywhere. |
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