WebSurfer:
of course she'll never try that, we all know an average guys intentions and how dificult they get controlling those things between their legs, and my case is different, not that i do it to respect her but myself, and she knows that

so what sort of relationship is that? Where different rules applies to the genders? Ain't that hypocrisy? Anyway, i see you both perfectly fit each other. A chauvinist boyfriend and a "yes" girl.

What we are saying is actions not words. All women mark and want their territory to themselves. If you respect her you would show it in your actions by helping her protect such territory not flagrantly trampling on such and rubbing it in her face..

quiinnBee:

she'd dump you pretty soon if you go on with this attitude

never possible, i never betrayed her before, and my guess is, she knows she'll almost never easily find a guy like me.. you might not understand that aspect as you'll only know me on nairaland

pinceprinz:


right on ur nerves

why are you doing this to me

pinceprinz:


right on ur nerves

why are you doing this to me

WebSurfer:
my dear, i dont hide anything, thats simply my type of person, of course we flirt sometimes but we never cross that line, never. well, this is actually the first time we are staying together because shes always staying away on the hearing my best friend is around.

All I know is that you need to set boundaries with that best friend...like last week. C'mon your best friend should stay away on hearing your girlfriend is around and not the other way round. You sabi wetin you want so Cos as I dey reason you I no sure

johnny1980:
so what sort of relationship is that? Where different rules applies to the genders? Ain't that hypocrisy? Anyway, i see you both perfectly fit each other. A chauvinist boyfriend and a "yes" girl.

What we are saying is actions not words. All women mark and want their territory to themselves. If you respect her you would show it in your actions by helping her protect such territory not flagrantly trampling on such and rubbing it in her face..

i hear you, but actually, i find it good, you know why? i have seen some other part of her i have never seen before.

Zeedarh:
she's being jealous and i honestly do not blame her. Put yourself in her shoes too.

i get you, obviously true

WebSurfer:
never possible, i never betrayed her before, and my guess is, she knows she'll almost never easily find a guy like me.. you might not understand that aspect as you'll only know me on nairaland

so you think she's stuck with you.you'd be surprised when she gives you red card cause theres as much a woman can take.

I actually just took time to go through comments here and I just blame that dumbo girlfriend who's letting this OP treat her anyhow he likes. Imagine his comments here...she can never find someone like you as gold wey you be or say you carry extralarge down there

Rubbish..I just feel like slapping some sense into that girl

ideyhere:
I actually just took time to go through comments here and I just blame that dumbo girlfriend who's letting this OP treat her anyhow he likes. Imagine his comments here...she can never find someone like you as gold wey you be or say you carry extralarge down there

Rubbish..I just feel like slapping some sense into that girl

no mind am. You are treated the way you place yourself. Demand respect and you would be given. No one would hand it over to you free. That girl needs a brain resetting slap.

You can see how he is talking as if she is a slave and should worship him. He can do whatever he likes and she has to just abide by it. Because he is the alfa.

Websurfer.. I don't what kind of agreement you guys have or what sort of relationship you run but one thing i know that is constant with loving relationships is the equal respect both parties have towards each other.

quiinnBee:

so you think she's stuck with you.you'd be surprised when she gives you red card cause theres as much a woman can take.

she has no choice, as long as she trust me and i never betrayed that trust all these while despite what she knows, text and messages with responses shes gone through from ex and suitors unknowingly to me.

ideyhere:
I actually just took time to go through comments here and I just blame that dumbo girlfriend who's letting this OP treat her anyhow he likes. Imagine his comments here...she can never find someone like you as gold wey you be or say you carry extralarge down there

Rubbish..I just feel like slapping some sense into that girl

buttom line is, shes not going anywhere, that dumbness is why she'll never loose me, unlike some here, who will fight and kill

johnny1980:
no mind am. You are treated the way you place yourself. Demand respect and you would be given. No one would hand it over to you free. That girl needs a brain resetting slap.

Imagine ooh! After now she'll come and open a thread about how she gave him 10 years of her life and how he dumped her...

quiinnBee:

look whenever your girlfriend is around just telll your bestfriend to lay off to avoid situations like this.
unlesss you enjoy the way both of them argue.

dude not telling us d truth..there's got to be something just more than friendship btw him and his bestfriend(with benefits) but if that's not d case, the best friend shd knw that her presence there can instigate misunderstanding btw d gf and bf..infact I don't knw what am saying anymore. Outta here

WebSurfer:
buttom line is, shes not going anywhere, that dumbness is why she'll never loose me, unlike some here, who will fight and kill

E go shock you like high tension wire the way she go take leave you once that woman wey dey beat drum on top her matter for village decide to rest...


As for you, don't worry...I no say you go jam your match one day. And know say that as you don price, you must collect...Peace

This is so unfair bro, why not put yourself in your girl's shoes to have an idea of how she feels or Will be feeling.
. That reminds me of a girl I used to like ( still like her tho) , we were close friends , so close that we almost dated but I had to back out when I discovered that her bestie happens to be a guy . Although some people see no wrong in it but I can't and will never feel comfortable around him.

Adex097:
This is so unfair bro, why not put yourself in your girl's shoe to have an idea of how she feels or Will be feeling.
. That reminds me of a girl I used to like ( still like her tho) , we were close friends , so close that we almost dated but I had to back out when I discovered that her bestie happens to be a guy . Although some people see no wrong in it but I can't and will never feel comfortable around him.

this is actually a sort of test, ive been over this for long, im trying to deal with it once and for all

Moz22:
dude not telling us d truth..there's got to be something just more than friendship btw him and his bestfriend(with benefits) but if that's not d case, the best friend shd knw that her presence there can instigate misunderstanding btw d gf and bf..infact I don't knw what am saying anymore. Outta here

yea right...i believe so too

WebSurfer:
this is actually a sort of test, ive been over this for long, im trying to deal with it once and for all

Op, you are not a serious person. I had a situation similar to yours, my ex thought I had an affair with this close female friend of mine. we broke up (for apparent reasons other than this), I decided to stick with this friend to help me.

We have been close friends for almost 2 years and I finally told her how I felt about her last night. her response was "why are you just telling me this?"

a guy cant be a best friends with a girl or vice versa. emotions will take over sooner or later.

if you love your gf, cut the strings with your best friend

My boyfriend having such a female befriend? Duhh I'm surely going to take a walk 4 good!

My boyfriend having such a female bestfriend? Duhh..I'm surely going to take a walk 4 good!

@op i think u orchestrated the whole scene urself just to either make ur gal jealous so she can be on her toes in other words increase ur wantability(pardon my french) Or u have ulterior motive towards ur female frnd,u know hoping to bang her in the future..#Isgrafiti

Dumb

I feel like slapping ur gf
No offeinse

zealot4me:
Dumb

I feel like slapping ur gf
No offeinse

Why?

richie9093:


Op, you are not a serious person. I had a situation similar to yours, my ex thought I had an affair with this close female friend of mine. we broke up (for apparent reasons other than this), I decided to stick with this friend to help me.

We have been close friends for almost 2 years and I finally told her how I felt about her last night. her response was "why are you just telling me this?"

a guy cant be a best friends with a girl or vice versa. emotions will take over sooner or later.

if you love your gf, cut the strings with your best friend

makes sense

Why are you having a different best friend other than your girl friend?
Isn’t she supposed to be everything you want in a woman?

blublahd:

Why?

Shedumb

StPete:
Why are you having a different best friend other than your girl friend?
Isn’t she supposed to be everything you want in a woman?

if you had gone through my comments, you would have understood better, weve been friends for too long and we learn alot that way about the opposite sex. i can tell you there are some things she knows but my girlfriend doesnt, can tell you its same way with most guys with my case.

We are actually having a peaceful time back at home since bae came back from work.. already planing on going out together tomorrow or Friday,,,, proves many comments wrong

zealot4me:



Shedumb

How?

WebSurfer:
i dont try that, infact i warned them off when they came visiting, i cant allow these f.ck boys around her.. its a no go area

Itz obvious u love ur best friend more, datx always wat it shld be. Send ur galfrnd packing n start dating ur best friend. Don't ur best friend hv a guy in her life n shex alwayz hanging arnd wit u... Guy tink jorh...

Benignasweety:
Itz obvious u love ur best friend more, datx always wat it shld be. Send ur galfrnd packing n start dating ur best friend. Don't ur best friend hv a guy in her life n shex alwayz hanging arnd wit u... Guy tink jorh...

very wrong, i just love her as a friend and nothing more.