Oliviaarims:


Hey. Don't take that personal. 'Sides, u weren't the one I was replying.. Except, of course that's the exact thing u' d have told me.

Hi you ignored? I know you are being careful not everyone here sucks.

henryhemon:

Hi you ignored? I know you are being careful not everyone here sucks.

I didn't get any mail from u.

Oliviaarims:


I didn't get any mail from u.

I dropped my mail addy for you. I did n see yours. Or better still how do I get thru to you?

henryhemon:


I dropped my mail addy for you. I did n see yours. Or better still how do I get thru to you?

Mail Addy? Just send a mail now.

Oliviaarims:


Mail Addy? Just send a mail now.

Pm? I did.

Oliviaarims:


Mail Addy? Just send a mail now.

I sent a PM to you . Obviously that's not working out.

Oliviaarims:


I didn't get any mail from u.

You ignored. It's ok.

henryhemon:

You ignored. It's ok.

Just go check ur mail.

Oliviaarims:


Just go check ur mail.

Been refreshing and reloading yet nothing. Am not good with PM don't even know How it works.

Yea, you quite did and you end up inspire one person today. That's me. Yours is one of the few posts that make sense on this forum lately Unlike before.I appreciate how you reason.

Oliviaarims:
So,I've succeeded in writing an epistle..

olalat:
Yea, you quite did and you end up inspire one person today. That's me. Yours is one of the few posts that make sense on this forum lately Unlike before.I appreciate how you reason.

Feels so good to know u're inspired ... Thanks.

henryhemon:


Been refreshing and reloading yet nothing. Am not good with PM don't even know How it works.

Hmm.. What do you want me to do now? I actually did reply. Twice infact.

Oliviaarims:



Hmm.. What do you want me to do now? I actually did reply. Twice infact.

You can do better than that. You on Twitter?Or any?

You are just one of the few beaty and brilliance we still have. I personally appreciate that. A rare quality though. Nairaland happened to fourth citadel of learning we have before until recently.

Oliviaarims:



Feels so good to know u're inspired ... Thanks.

henryhemon:

You can do better than that. You on Twitter?Or any?

I'm not on Twitter.

Oliviaarims:


I'm not on Twitter.

Olivia let's not go on n on,you can make it easier if you want.

henryhemon:


Olivia let's not go on n on,you can make it easier if you want.

I don't understand why you can't access ur mail. Right now, what do u want me to do? Drop my BBM pin?

Oliviaarims:


I don't understand why you can't access ur mail. Right now, what do u want me to do? Drop my BBM pin?

so that u will delete after adding him.?

Oliviaarims:


I don't understand why you can't access ur mail. Right now, what do u want me to do? Drop my BBM pin?

Yes. Let's start from there

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I don't understand why you can't access ur mail. Right now, what do u want me to do? Drop my BBM pin?

we 've been on this for too long. It's a simple thing,i dropped my mail addy for you. That wat we can be as private as it could go. All am saying let's go beyond this point. Make it a little easy for me.

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Ohhh... Ur mail addy means mail address.... Lol.. I didn't realize that. Could u drop it again?

decode55:


Yes. Let's start from there

Lmao.... Yea, right. Where did u jump out from, anyway?

Oliviaarims:
So,I've come to the realization that finding that one person that really suits u isn't so easy...Everybody's got standards and wish very much amongst other things that they find someone who levels up to those set standards,but how easy is that? How many people really do find people that are "perfectly" compatible with them? Let's not begin to delude ourselves that when a person chooses a partner to settle down with,it means he's finally found the bone of his bones .So many go through the herculean journey and still never find exactly what they are looking for,so they settle 4 the next best thing..or the very worst thing.

And please,enough of "there are so many fishes in the water." Yeah,right there are so many fishes out there,but not all of them are available to u. You may never get to see 80/90% of them,and from the available 10/20%, you wouldn't find quite a good number desirable by you..the ones you find desirable may not find you desirable....and from the very minute percentage that might find u worth taking a chance with,there comes the compatibility issues. Finding who amongst these lot is the "perfect" one for you.

Talking about that one person with whom you can be your true self and he/she would love you just like that.

# He knows your flaws and accepts them as a part of you.

# He knows your weaknesses and does not take advantage of them.
# Spurs you to become a better person and achieve your best in whatever you choose to do.
# He sees your shortcomings and knows that with time you'll conquer them.

# He respects you and you respect him.
# There's a good level of understanding between you both and when you fight,you always find a way of resolving it.
# Compromise isn't a problem... You make sacrifices and he makes sacrifices.

# He's no control freak. He allows you live your life the way you want it and corrects you when you start going wrong,without spite.
# There are things he expects of you and he tells you...waiting patiently to see the change happen. He doesn't just give up on you.

# When he loves you and knows you love him back,he doesn't toy with your heart.
# There are no shady deals. You are both transparent with each other.
# He's erred before,apologised and promised to change and he did change......
# He's loyal..he makes you feel special,he doesn't hide his true feeling from you...

The list is endless...We all have those things we are looking out for in a man or woman,and when we find those things, does it make any sense to sacrifice such a relationship because we want to explore other possibilities? Because we think there are so many fishes out there? Perhaps for one or two inconsequential shortcomings that can naturally be dealt with or which will fade away with time....

In summary, take ur time to look carefully and make only the right choice of a partner,there's no need lowering ur standards for anybody because you'll simply end up "putting up with" or "managing " ur partner/relationship rather than enjoying it... And when eventually you find all or most of what you're looking for,concentrate on developing and sustaining ur relationship rather than looking for the next exit when you encounter a little storm,simply because "there are many fishes out there."

No matter how beautiful or talented or rich u are,not everybody out there is meant for you.

seriously...is that ur opinion?

Oliviaarims:



Ohhh... Ur mail addy means mail address.... Lol.. I didn't realize that. Could u drop it again?

Dhenrys45@gmail. Com

princealexndre:
seriously...is that ur opinion?

Yes, it is... U don't agree? It's fine. Everyone can't agree.

henryhemon:
Dhenrys45@gmail. Com

Alright.

Oliviaarims:


Yes, it is... U don't agree? It's fine. Everyone can't agree.

Lmao...nah fight

princealexndre:
Lmao...nah fight

Lol. Of course, not.

henryhemon:
Dhenrys45@gmail. Com

It says ur email address is invalid. Drop ur number, I 'll call u now.

Oliviaarims:


Lol. Of course, not.

ok i am just saying i can marry anyone i feel i want...putting aside does criteria

princealexndre:
ok i am just saying i can marry anyone i feel i want...putting aside does criteria

Alright.