In my last thread on this section, i explained that i never ask women out as the society dictates and i presented my reasons. If you missed that thread, you can find it here; Why I Never Ask Out Ladies

But asking out women is just one of the couple of things i seldom do when it pertain to women and relationship. Here are the five things i never do to get women or their attention:

1. Complimenting women.

We 've heard women repeat umpteen times that they like a man who is bold enough and not "afraid" to approach them and complement them. Many men out there compliment these women whom they barely know on all kind of platforms including social network, schools, banks, market, resturants, bars and even on the streets. On social network like Facebook, women post their pictures most likely to draw compliments and before the count of ten, most men are already drooling over the pics, showering her with compliments like; "You look beautiful as always", "You look like an angel or goddess", "You are the sexiest woman i ever met". Sometimes these men even shamelessly compliment women that dress raunchily, exposing all their flesh and curves to garner attention.

It is a mass deception that women love a man bold and not afraid to approach and compliment them. What women actually like is the boost in their ego that your compliments generates, not your person; the man. Many of these women are insecure and need these compliments to boost their ego. They don't realy care about you in a romantic way simply because you do compliment them.

On my end, i may compliment women for their academic, professional achievement, skills, expertise, personality or dress sense because these are results of personal effort and sweat. But i do not compliment women for their looks or God given beauty because this is mere gift from God on a platter of gold, not her reward or fruit of labour.

Just as no one should be complimented for having wealthy parents, no one should be complimented for a pretty face, bosom or backside she was blessed with.

2. Impressing Women:

I may dress cool, ride fancy cars, rent expensive apartment, get the latest IPhone if i want. But i do all these to please myself, not to impress the hotie that caught my attention. Unfortunately most guys are willing to rob a bank or gamble for cash to draw women. Whether with ill-gotten money, borrowed, hard earned money, or even their parent 's allowance, these guys take the girl(s) on expensive dates that may leave them broke for quite sometime. Of course, these women only want the men 's money just as the men in most cases only want the women for sex. Why should i work to impress these women who bring nothing to the table except a clayface, cleavage or open bum. Most women are goldiggers and i dont want one.

Another thing i wont do to impress women is changing my personality or attitude. I strive to be a better person day after day. I work hard, show up on time, respect friends and strangers, but unlike most guys i wont act nice or become a bad guy in order to please or attract women. If as a woman you think i am mean because i refuse to have your crap, you can go to Jupiter. If you think i am too nice of a guy and not the alpha male that you desire, you can get lost. Guys that are nice to please women or 'bad boys' to attract women are hypocrites and cowards who live in denial.

3. Asking for women 's number:

If i am attracted to a woman, i strike a casual friendship first, then naturally we exchange contact. Either of us could demand the other 's contact first. I don't just approach a woman i met not long ago and request for her contact. I don't request it from her friend or randomly pick it from her social network account and begin to call her as most guys do. The mind-games these women play with unfamiliar guys calling them to introduce themselves is a major reason why i don't bother getting a woman 's contact whom i barely know. You call them, they never pick. They give flimsy excuses for this like; "i was busy", "i missed my phone", "i was sick'' e.t.c. If they eventually pick, they give the impression that you are stalking or bothering them. I won't advise asking for a woman 's number untill you know her enough and can guarantee she won't act irresponsibly when you call.

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4. Chatting online with women:

Whether on BBM, FaceBook, 2GO or Whatsapp chat, women reveal they get so much texts from men that desire more than friendship from them. Firstly, i am more of a reserved and laid back person, so chatting is not really a pastime or hobby for me. Secondly, when i contact women on any social network, i contact only women that i know just to say "Hi" and see how they are coping. The reasons for this being that it is a waste of time and effort. These women won't take you serious if they have no feeling for you or if you don't have money. They never initiate the chat and they leave your message unreplied for long. This is part of the mind games to dissuade you or prove they are hard to get. Of course, you can't really blame them most times for this, afterall men spoil these woman in the first place by showering them with excessive undue attention. And with this much attention, these women become more selective of who is worthy of their time and less considerate of others. If these women do not have many men texting them on daily basis, wooing and flattering them day and night, they may attend to you.

Whether you are getting responses from the ladies you chat with or they waste your time, you have to cut back on the amount of time you devote to them. Your excessive attention to them cost you precious time you could use to build yourself and it also lead these women to become full of themselves, feeling like the perfect woman who has got it all right when in fact many of them have a lot to work on themselves.

5. Asking out women

I have said enough on this already in my previous thread.

Peace!

Wia the sauce

agarawu23:
Put your source when you are tru

Hahaha...wicked

Num 2 same for me.

Nice one bro...

first of, this wasn't written by u

No time. Bitches chase money not men, make enough money if you want bitches to chase you.

Ahh. That means you do it to men?

Op nice one keep it up.

Watch out for verbal assault/bashing frm NL ladies

first of, this wasn't written by u

Am here to do two things
1. View profile pics and
2. Correct grammatical blunders

rawpadgin:
first of, this wasn't written by u

Who wrote it if it wasn't me, the poster? You are not accusing me of plagiarism, are you?

Noted

rawpadgin:
first of, this wasn't written by u

must you think anticlockwisely?

Learn to appreciate excellence

honeygirl17:

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Are you sure you are visible? I mean...... Are you sure you are human and Norma

pet4ril:
Are you sure you are visible? I mean...... Are you sure you are human and Norma

Hey, what do you mean?

Well said @poster. I support all U've pointed out. U just made my day. I'm off to read your topic on why U never ask women out.

Hmmm, we are kind of on the same page here. Ladies see me as a man filled with so much ego but who cares?

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oniro oshi ...

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