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Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Moderator, abeg help me put this for front page.... Mr seun abeg front page Pls help me nairalanders, I have a big problem.... In details...... There was a lady I dated back in my ND days, we later broke up despite my great love for her... As in i sacrificed so much for this lady.... We broke up in January Cox she said she wanted a break.... But to my surprise that she went back to her ex boyfriend.... Later this year in September, she msg me that she stil love me. But before dt time, we have had a lot of disputes, insulted each other Cox I was hurt..... She said she wanted me back and she is ready to face anytin with me... She said this time, she has come to stay forever... I tod her that I am not interested and we insulted each other again.... 3 days ago, she msg me that she wana come 'n see me.. I agreed, she came yesterday, we reconciled, she askd for me back and I said Yes.. We shud try the relationship again... We had romance session but no sex.. Bcox we dnt want too...... She is now all over me..... But I am a kinda person that fears God, Weneva I commit a little sin, my conscience will never leave me unless I repent from it... I cudnt go to fellowship bcoz I just finished romancing a lady who is not my wife..... Till now, my mind isn't settled conscience is still panel beating me just bcox of 10 or 20 mins romance... Actually am not a Virgin, the first time I had sex in 2012, I hated myself, broke up with that lady Cox my mind neva rested.. Even till now, weneva I remember it, it saddens my heart...... But this lady, actually I tot she was a Virgin Cox we met in church but wen she told me her past, my hand fall. She has had uncountable sex with her first boifrnd that disvirgined her... Same with the second boifrnd, am the only one that hasn't had any tin like sex with her..... Shud I just tell her that am not interested in a reasonable way or keep pretending to love her and keep romancing till we have sexual intercourse till I later break her heart and keep getting bothered by my conscience... Cox I fear God so much... She wants me to b lying that I love her but within me, I no I dnt.. Only infatuation and aim of getting sex.... But am not ready for sex Cox I fear the Almighty... Pls advise me.... Pls front page Cox I am depressed right now.. Shud I continue dating and sinning or tell her the truth....... Christians and Muslims around the world, help me... Thanks |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by freshness2020: 6:40pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
I feel u bro. It aint easy. Was once there before. The best way to to be happier on God's side is to run away from her. Don't please her at your own detriment. Make she no use her reggae spoil your gospel lol .. Tell her your mind and move on. The truth hurts badly buh must be told. 4 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Melahou(m): 6:42pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
It's better you just allow her to go and free your conscience. |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by vizkiz: 6:45pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
sorry about that. OK here is a tip to help you clear your conscience. Stay with me... *Open your mouth wide *take a gun (I would prefer a grenade or something, but I don't want any other person to get hurt) *pull the trigger I bet you, after following this tips, your conscience will be clear. Mtcheeeew mumu 6 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
U fear God blah blah and blah!! Tell the bae u aren't interested in her anymore simple as 1. 2. 3 |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by CharlyNick: 6:57pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
reviews shortly |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by charijee(f): 6:59pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz:Help a brother na, haba 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 7:01pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
vizkiz: Aba... Help me na |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by damilareoye: 7:02pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
hummm, do what your mind tells you. |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by vizkiz: 7:13pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Holywizard: 7:16pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
pls give me her mobile contact. That girl is 'Karashika' |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by IamLEGEND1: 7:21pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Zizaboni:The "bolded" just had me Lolling seriously what are you,a 12yr old? 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by gamaliel121(m): 7:23pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Mehn...once you have tasted fuccking, its kind of hard to stop... Buh since you want to stop sinning, you should leave her till u wanna get married.. Cos as long as u and her have "krenched" before u will surely nak if ur together... 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 7:57pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
gamaliel121: Notin like sex BTW us.... Just romances |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by ndcide(m): 8:02pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Do you think if Joseph had slept with portiphar's wife, he would have become a prime minister in Egypt? He would have remained a slave in portiphar's house. Enjoying sex/sin and probably bragging about how he had sex with his boss's wife. Just as as some do today on Nairaland. This thing about destiny, God will help us. You can't sleep on Delilah's lap and wake in Abrahams bosom. Flee from every appearance of evil. 1 John 3:20 For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knoweth all things. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by shizzy7(f): 8:20pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Zizaboni:@the emboldened, that is your mistake. Don't eat up your vomit ( unless you have sensible reasons to). Be a man, let your Yes be Yes and Vice versa. Think with your brain irrespective of how a lady acts or the kind of words she mesmerizes you with. How will a girl ditch you for her EX, she comes back to you and you said YES. |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Babamide(m): 8:23pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
I don't know why I opened this thread cox I'm bored cox if I advice u, u won't listen cox u are a dumb ass cox from ur story cox I didn't understand any cox of the cox u keep putting everywhere. Them cox u?? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Natasha2(f): 11:11pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
Harbosede02:I just tire. |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by OCTAVO: 11:28pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
A part of you wants sex and you are claiming you fear GOD? I see! |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by NemzySeries(m): 11:41pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
hypocrisy @ itz peak......y inviting a woman datz not ur wife in d 1st place & nw u're telling us crap dat u can't go to church bkos u were romancing her 4 20mins.....honestly na sh!t dey worry u. mr man if u dunno wat to do wit ur subscription beta download temple run & get busy so dat u dunt post more craps d'll get me & orda peepz pissed off...Mitcheeeeeeew (as if U're beta dan her) 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by NemzySeries(m): 11:55pm On Nov 08, 2015 |
OCTAVO: no mind d derailed idiot.....i dunno who hiz fooling |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 12:24am On Nov 09, 2015 |
if you are in a relationship there is every likelihood that you will romance, not to talk of sex. thats our mentality. so brother why not flee frm relationship until you are mature enough for it, or until you are set for marriage. you cant put you hand in a fire and expect not to be hut |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by pbs4real(m): 1:20am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Op u need this
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Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by obowunmi(m): 2:48am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Have sex with her and get it over with. You both want to phuck anyways so what's the big deal. Enjoy, life is short and sex is sweet. |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Akposkool(m): 7:16am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Never let an old flame burn you twice. A word is enough for the............ Now receive sense and run away from her 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 09, 2015 |
Is the lady married? Do u av any feelings for her ? Zizaboni: |
Re: Pls Help Me, My Conscience Is Killing Me, What Shud I Do by Dirkcoyt: 6:58pm On Dec 13, 2015 |
Zizaboni: You motherfuucking hyprocrite! Son you should be grounded in a rehab centre for not practising what you preach! Fucking religious slave! See your post here on someones thread! Shame on you! Don't even try to edit it cause that will make you more stupid! "hmm. wen u no dt u were childless, did u seek the God of Shiloh 2015? the answer is No... Did u see the God of Pst Enoch Adeboye.... the answer is no..... Na u do ursef, Imagine years of barrenness and u didn't see the God of my fathers in the Lord.... na u labour, nA ur landlady eat the fruit of ur labour... Who shall eat the fruit of the fools if not the wise ones..... Glory to glory " |
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