chocolateme:
Ok.. Have been there.. Occupy your thoughts with other things, delete his contacts and all his pictures from your phone, try been different from his expectation of you, eg try been nasty and loose your manner of approach around him. He will take it that u have found someone else and looking for a way for you guys to break up. It's either he tries coming around or he quits, either way you are not at loss. The most important thing is that you change ur perspective about him and it will help u move on. Some of them don't know the sacrifices and pains it takes to be in love with them and they don't appreciate it. But if you choose to become his vegetable, then he will continue to eat u until there will be nothing left of u.

rawpadgin:
this is a very long story, to cut it short,we are back together after three months,but the problem is we are not too close like before, as soon as I see someone else,I will have to let him go,I love him so much,but I have to let him go,his heart is too cold,he is just like my father, sometimes he shout at me,I will cry myself to sleep,hoping he will hold me close,instead he will just be looking at me,he said I cry to much over little things,sometimes I just believe that he charmed me,I don't know why I love him this much,I want him to go,but the problem is,I don't know why I still love him this much, he is not worth it at all,I don't know what to do I can't stop thinking about him,pls if there is anybody here who knows what I can do to get over him pls tell me.x

-helica

Harbosede02:
The rate at which pple ask for break up advice dis days ehn

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
and why are you asking for advice on behalf of a chick you'll probably never see the color of her bra?

Thowbie7:
won't you ask for your own before it's too late?

rawpadgin:
ur level of reasoning sha!
so because i haven't seen her pant i should share ur ordeal

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:

do you have a problem with my sense of reasoning. What kind of right thinking guy wakes up on a Monday morning to post a females relationship issues on Nairaland. let's assume for a moment people come here pouring out their advise; so you'll go this female and act like a messenger relaying e-advice.

rawpadgin:
she is a romancelander, she's prolly seeing these messages now

rawpadgin:
ur level of reasoning sha!
so because i haven't seen her pant i should share ur ordeal

helica:
thank u very much, don't worry urself about what people say, u are not doing it for them,but for me and I appreciate u,thank u very much.