I greet Fellow nairalanders happy Sunday.

Something has been bothering me so I decided to share it here. One Sunday evening a friend of mine drove me on his bike to a nearby filling station to my house and the lady who served me the fuel was a very pretty lady. I fell in love with her on first sight and ask for her number which she gave me and I started calling her on phone and she does respond well to any of my calls. We later met at a planned place after she closed from work last week. Then she told me few things about her that she stays with her sister that she just came to Ibadan from benue state and that she just spent four months in Ibadan and at the place of work.

I asked her her salary, it was then she told me she collects #10k per month. I pity her and told her if we know better I will help her get better offer. The most painful thing was that this lady works round the clock. From Monday to Sunday and she must resume 6am and closes 8pm at night.

I said to myself which kind of job is this...
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Since then if I call her she will pick and tell me she is busy that she doesn't have time. After two days, she did not even pick my calls again. I love this lady so much and I don't want to lose her. I am confused right now. Pls what should I do? Should I go and meet her there or I should leave her or is it because of the beer she was discouraged or what? Pls nairalanders I need advice

Give her some time...she will come around. don't rush her.

Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!

one word fr u Nigga... *ODE*

She feels your childish. Kindly also enroll for english lessons it might help

Maybe you are not her type. Fgt her abeg, women have double standards these days

Well, it takes a drunkad to know a drunkard, let leave that aside, what u can do now is to leave that poor girl alone

Na wa ooh. If you truly love her you will go after her. Don't give her too much space and she will come around.

omron:
Later as we were chatting she perceived beer odour coming from my mouth and said she does not like anyone that drink beer and I promised her I won't take beer again cos of her and she said no problem...

Don't be such a drip. Stand your ground. You are not respecting yourself by abstaining from beer because of her. And she won't respect you for saying that, either. If you are going to abstain, do it for a proper reason, not infatuation.

There are many reasons, from religion to bad experience with drunk or violent men, why she may be wary of drinkers. If you drink in moderation, and her objection is not religious, instead of what you said, it would have been better to let her know that you don't like drunkenness either, and that you drink moderately, just as she may drink a little wine from time to time.

(And you don't love this woman. You don't know her, so you can't love her. You are only physically attracted to her.)

I wouldn't advice you forget her yet. Play it safe, don't rush.

sinequanon:


Don't be such a drip. Stand your ground. You are not respecting yourself by abstaining from beer because of her. And she won't respect you for saying that, either. If you are going to abstain, do it for a proper reason, not infatuation.

There are many reasons, from religion to bad experience with drunk or violent men, why she may be wary of drinkers. If you drink in moderation, and her objection is not religious, instead of what you said, it would have been better to let her know that you don't like drunkenness either, and that you drink moderately, just as she may drink a little wine from time to time.

(And you don't love this woman. You don't know her, so you can't love her. You are only physically attracted to her.)

sinequanon I told her I drink moderately even told her where the scripture says too much of alcohol is what the Bible condemn... I don't know if it's because of these she has been avoiding me

Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!

fuel attendant no be human being no be within she get for yansh dey for Banker yansh? U need to ee her she fine pass some ajebo...or make I post the picture here..... I wonder what she is doing in the fuel station see.... U need to see her.. Very pretty and spotless fair lady

kingofchess:
Give her some time...she will come around. don't rush her.

OK sir

prettysolid:
She feels your childish. Kindly also enroll for english lessons it might help

OK sir can u help me with the English lesson sir I really need it

omron:
fuel attendant no be human being no be within she get for yansh dey for Banker yansh? U need to ee her she fine pass some ajebo...or make I post the picture here..... I wonder what she is doing in the fuel station see.... U need to see her.. Very pretty and spotless fair lady

OK make I see her face. Post d pic for some hidden topic and mention me there

Giv her some time op

omron:
sinequanon I told her I drink moderately even told her where the scripture says too much of alcohol is what the Bible condemn... I don't know if it's because of these she has been avoiding me

So, why did you say you would stop? Why claim to understand scripture, and then base your actions on infatuation with her appearance?

You asked for her number. She gave it to you. The appearance thing is done and dusted. You both passed.

Now, you are not demonstrating solid character. She is not looking for a pushover. Pushovers full dey ground for fine babe.

So a girl you are getting along with suddenly starts acting weird and you don't know to ask her why she is acting weird?

Cutehector:
OK make I see her face. Post d pic for some hidden topic and mention me there

ok

andromida:
So a girl you are getting along with suddenly starts acting weird and you don't know to ask her why she is acting weird?

Always IGNORE women who act weird.

If you respond, that will become her primary mode of communication. You will end up with a kid instead of a mature woman.

andromida:
So a girl you are getting along with suddenly starts acting weird and you don't know to ask her why she is acting weird?

andromida how would I ask her..... Did u go through my post well at all? How will I ask someone who doesn't pick my calls any longer such question why she go weird

Cutehector:
Hahhahahahaha even fuel attendant dey do shakara for u.

Bros, u need to see an ifa priest!

Bro pls, this is not funny in any way. Ur mentality is totally warped. What is bad about being a fuel attendant, does it make any less human?

LaurelP:


Bro pls, this is not funny in any way. Ur mentality is totally warped. What is bad about being a fuel attendant, does it make any less human?

that is your own view an opinion does not mean u are the wisest.... We all have opinion and idea you know?

omron:
that is your own view an opinion does not mean u are the wisest.... We all have opinion and idea you know?

Yes but make sure your opinion doesn't affect others negatively. A young girl who sees that his comment might think there is something wrong in working as a fuel attendant.

omron:
andromida how would I ask her..... Did u go through my post well at all? How will I ask someone who doesn't pick my calls any longer such question why she go weird

Are you a player?

If she is a particular type, you're in.

If she is not that type, you are wasting your time. Move on.

omron:
andromida how would I ask her..... Did u go through my post well at all? How will I ask someone who doesn't pick my calls any longer such question why she go weird

You seem really bothered yet the filling station is near your house so I am wondering why you've not asked her. Its not like you are going to storm her house.

sinequanon:


Always IGNORE women who act weird.

If you respond, that will become her primary mode of communication. You will end up with a kid instead of a mature woman.

Lol. Not always a wise decision depending on the answer you are looking for.

Bros OP
The way when U see pump attendant na so other motorists see her.
Question U should ask yourself is
How many motorists has she given her number to?
how many motorists has she 'attended to'?

If I know babes very well its likely she is a chronic alcoholic herself sef.

andromida:


Lol. Not always a wise decision depending on the answer you are looking for.

Only if you have made the grave error of marrying one.

If you are not married, RUN, RUN.... RUN for the hills.

omron:
sinequanon I told her I drink moderately even told her where the scripture says too much of alcohol is what the Bible condemn... I don't know if it's because of these she has been avoiding me

It seems like this shìt hurt U bad
but Y you come go meet babe dey smell like brewery
and you were even using the scriptures to back up Ur bullshit. Thats one evidence of a drunkard... they use bible to support their habit
For now try and see her in person if she refuses then U have to let go.

andromida:


Lol. Not always a wise decision depending on the answer you are looking for.

He is right. They say If you dont understand it, get rid of it

sinequanon:


Only if you have made the grave error of marrying one.

If you are not married, RUN, RUN.... RUN for the hills.

Hehehehehehe

I guess you have experience with this.